First of all, if you ask him if he is in love, and she denies it, you can make a detour, find a good friend around her or a classmate who doesn't feel so self-righteous, or a classmate who likes to gossip about others, and make sure that you can tell you the news, or a classmate who is jealous of her and her bad relationship, aim at one and find out if the monitor is in love recently. In a responsible attitude, the teacher still cares about her, hoping to help her not to be distracted in her studies. So you can detour to what you want to know.

Secondly, don't let students go to your dormitory all the time. Tell her that good students are more capable of independent study. Now you can ask the teacher to help you make up the lessons. Did you graduate from school? Is there a teacher who helps you make up lessons like this? At that time, your academic performance declined. How did you face it? Teachers don't want to see a ups and downs process. I hope you can rely on your own ability to stabilize your academic performance like others. Find a reason, the teacher will go to further study in the near future, maybe he will go out to study after work, and he will be very busy on weekends. Now you should adjust your study methods and grasp the time and grades.

You can promise her that if the teacher doesn't make up lessons for you, you can still get the first place in the exam, and the teacher will give you a gift you like at the end of the term. You can say whatever you want. Let's make an agreement that the teacher will reward you if you win the first place in self-study.

In addition, turn your attention to other students, especially those who are behind. They have taken a small step, and the whole class will take a big step, so find some time to make up lessons for them. It can be said that the teacher has done his duty and your teaching ability will be recognized. There will also be a lot of gains.