Nowadays, children's learning begins with young children, and primary school learning is even more important. Many parents are afraid that their children will lose at the starting line. After the third grade, many children's grades are gradually different, resulting in a watershed phenomenon. Many students who used to have good academic performance often fell after the third grade, and some students got better and better. What is the reason for this phenomenon?
The most important thing in primary school study is to lay a foundation for future study, especially in senior one, senior two and senior three. Many children pay too much attention to some high-level learning and ignore the basic knowledge, and parents don't pay attention to it. They think it is a good phenomenon that children can reach a higher level. That was not the case. Some advanced learning behaviors will make children's foundation not very solid. As the grade is getting higher and higher, the knowledge gap between him and other children is getting smaller and smaller. On the contrary, a weak foundation may lead to retrogression.
Moreover, some parents will give their children some material rewards, such as promising to buy her something if they do well in the exam, which will make the children have no desire to learn, which will lead to their inability to improve their autonomy and enthusiasm. They think that learning is just to get rewards, and they can't see learning. The real role is to have a better job and future in the future. After the third grade, children's learning pressure will be greater than before, and there will be a transition period like junior high school learning. At this time, children have no initiative and enthusiasm in learning, and their academic performance declines, which will inevitably lead to a blow to their self-confidence. Bad circulation makes children less and less like learning, and less and less want to learn.
Other parents have been tutoring their children to do homework and study since childhood, which makes them a little too dependent on their parents, unwilling to think for themselves and lazy. After the third grade, their basic knowledge is less, and more are topics that need judgment and independent thinking. At this time, their independence and autonomy will be tested. Due to long-term reasons. Relying on the guidance and help of parents, children can't think independently, which will also lead to a decline in their grades.
It is very important for parents to take correct measures to assist scientific methods to train their children. Good habits are not forced by parents. They should be cultivated gradually so that children can learn and think independently. Instead of helping children learn through pressure and some material rewards. This may achieve some results at the beginning, but it is not a good thing to look at the whole study career. When children get older, their grades are getting higher and higher, their study pressure is getting bigger and bigger, and their knowledge is getting more and more. All these are useless and even have a negative impact on their study.