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Family education experience 1 Our child Xu is a third-grade student at Anjuyuan Primary School in Hefei. Excellent academic performance, once published a small paper in the magazine "King of Mathematics". Our parents are often proud of their children. Here, I want to share with you some experiences and understandings in the process of cultivating children. Please forgive me if there is any mistake.
First, cultivate children's interest in learning and let them "learn happily"
Xu has loved learning since he was a child. Our parents have seen this characteristic of children very well, paying special attention to cultivating children's interest in learning and protecting their interest in learning, so that children have always regarded learning as a very happy thing since childhood. Our parents never set learning tasks for their children, but often guide them through games, such as counting 24 points with playing cards and playing computer educational game software in the early days. The most important thing is that whenever a child is found to have made progress in learning and mastered some new knowledge, parents should praise him without stint, enhance his happiness in learning, and guide and cultivate his habit of loving learning.
Second, don't put pressure on children to study, and help them decompress when appropriate.
Children's minds are fragile, and too much pressure may have a negative impact on children and even lose interest in learning. Our parents never put pressure on their children to study, did not ask them to get more points in the exam, and so on. Sometimes Xu Kaiping does badly in tests or exams, and he is particularly depressed. At this time, our parents often protect, comfort, encourage and help their children to relieve the pressure, let him get rid of the shadow of failure quickly, and then sum up the reasons for the last failure after a while. We feel that this not only protects children, but also teaches them how to face failure correctly.
Third, cultivate children's habit of conscious learning and autonomous learning.
Parents should not accompany their children when they are studying, so that they can develop the habit of autonomous learning and conscious learning. Every day after school, Xu basically finishes his homework quickly before his parents go home. After children finish their homework, they can watch TV or do other things according to their own wishes. Our parents never interfere. In this way, it not only cultivates children's ability to study consciously and independently, but also develops a good habit of not procrastinating in homework.
Fourth, respect children's interests and pay attention to cultivating children's good interests.
When Xu was very young, when he saw other children learning musical instruments, our parents signed him up to learn electronic piano according to their own ideas, but the children were not interested in learning piano and cried when they practiced. Looking at the sad look of the child, we reflected on our own practices and finally decided to let the child give up learning the piano. This incident has also been affecting our educational philosophy. We should respect children's interests rather than parents' wishes. Parents should pay attention to cultivating children's good interests, lead children to experience some activities instead of compulsion, guide some of his good interests, such as learning, let children experience happiness in the process of learning, and regard learning as a happy thing.
Fifth, pay attention to praise children's strengths and specialties and enhance their self-confidence.
Children often do not know what advantages and specialties they have. Our parents should be good at discovering children's advantages and specialties, guiding children to play their own advantages and specialties, and enhancing their self-confidence. Like all children, Xu has advantages in some aspects and disadvantages in others. Our parents often pay attention to praise children's advantages and consciously guide them to participate in some projects with their own advantages. On the one hand, give play to children's specialties, and more importantly, cultivate children's self-confidence.
Sixth, pay attention to communication with children.
We often communicate with children on an equal footing, encourage them to express their feelings and emotions, understand their emotions, and adopt an open and inclusive attitude towards everything they say. We sometimes let them take part in some adult activities. In the process of communication, not only can we grasp the children's dynamics, but more importantly, we can arouse the children's pride and sense of responsibility as a man through equal dialogue.
Family Education Experience 2 (1) Parents should set an example and be role models for their children, schools should guide them attentively and make joint efforts.
Everyone thinks that to educate children well, we must first set an example. Parents are the best role models for children. Only when they do it themselves will the children learn. If you just talk about the truth, but the individual can't be a role model for children, then this kind of education is just an education that is beyond gold and jade and doesn't work at all. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.
My son's mother is now a graduate student in a university. For children, this is something he is proud of, which is also a driving force. Although he didn't understand how hard it was for his mother to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he was deeply impressed by the sight of her reading quietly in the middle of the night. This is an example that made him understand that only hard work can make his dream come true. The child is already in the first grade. Although the mother is not around, under the inculcation of the father and the school teacher, the child has not only made progress in his studies, but also made gratifying progress in other aspects, becoming a sensible and good child.
(2) Create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop conscious study habits.
Listening to a colleague's story that his daughter and niece were admitted to the university in the same year, his experience is to create a family learning atmosphere and let children develop a good habit of self-study. Every night after dinner, he and his wife go out for a walk. After the daughter and niece cleared the table, they went to do their homework. They went home. Children never watch TV when they are doing their homework. Everyone takes a book to read. After a long time, children will form a good habit of working and sleeping. Daughters and nieces often compare each other to see who studies well and who studies late. Last year's college entrance examination, both children passed the dream university with excellent results.
(3) Cultivate children's interest, interest is the best teacher.
When my son was young, he liked playing computer games very much. I told him that if you can play, you can also play new tricks, such as making slides for other children. What a sense of accomplishment. So my son learned to make slides and often let other children appreciate and teach them. My son likes English at present. At the beginning, my classmate's daughter went to learn English and asked him to follow. Now, he is more and more interested and says to his mother, "There is a classmate in our class who speaks English very well. I want to be like him." I'm glad to see that children love learning English so much. I don't understand my son's Chinese very well, and I sometimes worry about him. I really hope he can improve his Chinese, but my son said he would continue to apply for English, and I agreed happily.
(4) Punish children appropriately, guide them with your heart, and be their good friends.
I remember when my son was a child, he once took money from his family and bought a lot of toys without his parents' consent. When everyone understood, they asked him to return the toy and gave him a good beating. He never made a similar mistake again. When my son was in the fourth grade, his handwriting was very poor. I asked him to rewrite the words with incorrect strokes 10 times. As a result, everyone quarreled. The son said that he had tried his best and it would be difficult to change for a while. I admitted my mistake to my son and pointed out that it was wrong for him to hit me. The son also admitted his mistake. At the moment, my son and I sometimes chat like friends, which is very enjoyable.
Family education experience 3 As the saying goes, "family is the first school for children, parents are the first teachers for children, and they are also role models for children to learn when they grow up". Therefore, good family education plays a vital role in children's life. When children were born, I attached great importance to their family education. Of course, I don't just teach my children to recite a few Tang poems, read a few children's songs and know a few Chinese characters, but teach them the truth and skills of dealing with people, so that they can develop a person with healthy mind and sound personality. Of course, for children who are only over two years old, vague teaching of abstruse truth can't make him understand the meaning, and children naturally won't accept it, so they need to start from bit by bit in life.
(A) to create a good family environment
Family harmony is very important for children's growth. Love between family members will help children learn tolerance, understanding, love, love others and love themselves. Without the care of family, children will become more and more indifferent and selfish. I have seen many cases, such as children's depravity, numbness and so on, all because the family lacks love. Imagine a child who doesn't even love his parents and family, will he still care about strangers? Therefore, we must create a warm and harmonious family life for our children and let them live a happy and worry-free life.
(2) Parents should set an example.
In family education, parents are role models for children, and their words and deeds will have a great influence on children inadvertently. Therefore, when parents ask their children to be polite and respect others, can they think about whether they have done so? I remember once, Han Han made a mistake, and I severely reprimanded him and said some harsh words, saying that if you do this again, I will hit you. I didn't think there was a problem at first, but later he actually learned this sentence and kept saying that I hit you. This makes me regret and feel sad. I regret that I shouldn't have said this to my children before. Sadly, my child said this to his mother. Therefore, when children can still correct, we parents must be cautious and think twice about our every move. No matter how angry you are, think about what effect I will have on the children.
(3) Appropriate rewards and punishments, seeking truth from facts, children losing their temper, cold treatment.
If the child is right, we should praise him positively. If the child is wrong, we should correct him in time. Reward and punishment should be measured, and enough is enough. Although education experts now advocate praising children more, I think this is another matter because I have personal experience. Han Han played with building blocks when he was one year old. It was a mistake, but I think he praised and encouraged him the first time he played. I tried to promote his progress, but it backfired. On the contrary, every time I made it, I made mistakes and became particularly stubborn. No matter what I said, he still wouldn't listen or accept it. This reminds me that if I had corrected him when he first built it, maybe this would not have happened. Therefore, I insist that parents should seek truth from facts when praising their children, and should not praise them blindly. Of course, the criticism is more moderate. If you criticize too much, or even hit your child, your child will gradually become rebellious. The child did something wrong, but still insisted on using reason to persuade him that he could not turn over the old account. The most important thing is that what you say can make children understand and listen. Han Han did something wrong before, and I will tell him a lot of truth. As a result, he still went his own way. Later, after listening to the expert's advice, he made what you said more acceptable to children, instead of saying some vague truth. And when the child loses his temper willfully, he won't listen to anything you say, so my approach is to treat it coldly and let the child make trouble by himself. Parents can look on coldly. When the child feels that crying is meaningless, when he calms down, we will try to reason with him again, which will make him more acceptable. If we continue to tell him this and that when he loses his temper, it will only aggravate the situation. If the crying continues, then we can only take him away from the scene and distract the child, which may be better.
Let children learn to respect others.
Let children learn to respect others. First of all, parents should learn to respect their children. This is my consistent insistence. When Han Han was very young, I could squat down and listen to his advice. Some people may say what such a young child can think, but it is not. Although the child is young, he is still an individual. He has thoughts, and we should respect him more. For example, Han Han always brings toys when he goes out. At first, the child's grandfather always refused to let him bring toys, but after a long time, he didn't go out. Although the toy is put down, he will still cry for a long time. Now think about it, crying at that time may be because of dissatisfaction with the disrespect of adults. Later I discussed it with Han Han. At first, I discussed with him what toys to take out. Gradually, he took the initiative to discuss with me and became obedient. Even outside, when Han Han is with his children, I will teach him to respect others. For example, when he saw other children's toys and wanted to play with them, I taught him to discuss with them. "When you are not playing, you can give me the toy for a while, ok?" When other children want his toys, I will teach him, "Give the toy to this child for a while, will you?" Everything depends on the child's own wishes, and the wishes of adults cannot be imposed. I've made such a mistake before. When I was playing with my friend's children, I saw my friend's children crying and asking Han Han for toys. I always grabbed Han Han's toys for other children without thinking, so later Han Han got into the habit of grabbing them and crying as soon as he took them off while sleeping. I think that's when I hurt his self-esteem, and my disrespect for him has caused him serious consequences, although it has been diluted by time.
(5) Let children learn their own things as soon as possible, do it themselves, and cultivate their labor habits.
When Han Han just knew how to sit, we had put him on a stool to have dinner with his family. Although he couldn't eat by himself at that time, we insisted on showing him how adults eat, so Han Han slowly learned to eat by himself and learned to eat with chopsticks very early. As long as he can do things at home, he insists on doing them himself, such as sweeping the floor, washing vegetables, taking chopsticks, moving stools and so on. Many parents think that what children can do at such a young age is getting busier and busier. In fact, it is certain that he can't do well, but as long as he participates, if you always stop him from working, he will feel that his mother doesn't need me, and over time he will no longer be willing to do it. Moreover, the cultivation of work habits will make him cherish the fruits of other people's labor more, such as not littering toys, littering and so on.
(6) Create a learning environment for children and cultivate their study habits.
At one time, the family watched more TV, and Han Han watched more TV. Then I thought I couldn't do this anymore. So now everyone in the family has learned to read, even if they don't read, so Han Han also learned to read. Although it won't take long, habits are gradually formed, and it will be better if they accumulate bit by bit. As the saying goes, it is better to go to Wan Li Road than to study in thousands of books, so I will take my children out for a walk whenever I have time. Learning knowledge in nature is more acceptable to my children. Although education experts don't recommend children to learn ancient poems of Tang poetry at such a young age, I think reading these poems can cultivate children's aesthetic feeling and sense of rhythm, although children still don't understand them. As for children's songs and music, it is certainly beneficial to watch and listen more. The point is that Han Han likes them very much. I think it is most important to cultivate interest.
(7) Cultivate children's masculinity and don't spoil them.
Han Han's father is often in other places, and Han Han doesn't see his father several times a year, so as a mother, I should be a good father as well as a good mother. Therefore, I have been intentionally or unintentionally trying to cultivate Han Han's masculinity, but I don't spoil him very much. For example, when Han Han fell, I never helped him up. I always encourage him to fall and get up, and then pat the dirty things on his body. If it's broken, even if it hurts, it won't show. Just tell him it's okay. So now that Hanhan has fallen, as long as it's not serious, he basically doesn't cry, just comforting me and saying, "Mom, I'm fine!" " "Although it seems that I am cold-blooded, I think I am doing the right thing, especially for a boy. I must cultivate his strong character and not be weak.