I haven't heard from Li XiaoLu for a long time, but I accidentally brushed her Tik Tok, and found that Li XiaoLu had already shone in a place we ignored.

Her Tik Tok has many fans, and she is also diligent in updating videos. She has a daily life with her sweetheart, dancing, playing tricks, and promoting her online shop from time to time.

Of course, there are all kinds of comments. Some people praised her, but some people still questioned her. For example, she degenerated and said that she had become an online celebrity.

It's really embarrassing. Li XiaoLu is no ordinary star. She/kloc-won the best actress at the age of 0/7, and has several representative works.

Nowadays, she seems to have no new works.

Only public comments on her marriage and accusations of her past mistakes.

After the divorce, Li XiaoLu was criticized many times. But I still want to ask, did this Li XiaoLu really fall?

She runs an online shop, designs clothes, runs her own Tik Tok, and insists on dancing/babysitting. Isn't this a hardworking woman?

There is nothing wrong with Li XiaoLu becoming a champion, but who stipulates that she must always stand high?

For Li XiaoLu, an actress is never what she wants to be, and if she is, she will not be indifferent and without ambition. Only on the road of internet celebrities that everyone thinks, she has been sticking to herself.

Network celebrity is a word born in recent years. I admit that there are some relatively low-level online celebrities, but there are also some good online celebrities, such as Li Jiaqi, papi sauce and Viya. Do you dare to say that online celebrities have fallen?

Internet celebrity is a neutral word and should not be a derogatory term. What's wrong with Li XiaoLu becoming an online celebrity? Stars and online celebrities need traffic. Although Li XiaoLu is controversial, it brings its own traffic. It is better to work hard to make money than to be a shrinking turtle.

Li XiaoLu is sober, so many years, living under the care of her family, she has never been pampered.

Faced with such a big thing, it took me more than a year to adjust. Since I can't make a movie, it's much better for me to live alone in despair than those women who can't get up again because of a marriage.

02

There are many ways to live in life. What you think is good is not what others want.

I saw a movie called Good Will Hunting, in which the hero was very talented. He is 20 years old and has never been to school. He is just a cleaner in college.

But he is very talented in mathematics. None of the students can solve the problem left by the professor, but the cleaner can. Questions that are difficult for many students are easy for him.

There is no doubt that he is very talented. The professor also took a fancy to his talent and tried his best to get him to join his team. He can also work in the research institute and get rich rewards.

Everyone told him that you should not waste your talents, but seize the opportunity to achieve a leap in class.

It is true that accepting the job given by the professor can provide you with food and clothing, but you also need to face some costs, such as being arranged and losing your freedom in the past.

This is obviously not what he wants. When it was time to go to work, he gave up and went to the city of the girl he liked.

For many people, this is not a wise choice at all. He was an orphan and needed money and this job, but he gave it up, because in his mind, talent is one thing, and the life he wanted is another.

Li XiaoLu was also born into a family of performing artists. She has a good family, good resources and a talent for acting. If she goes along this road, she will have a brighter life. And she chose to get married and have children when her career was hot, and only took some performances that were not difficult.

Perhaps for Li XiaoLu, making a relaxing play, taking care of her husband and teaching her children, and making a video of online celebrity is the life she wants. Why do you question her life?

For more people, it is really ridiculous to point fingers at other people's lives before they have a good life.

03

When he officially divorced Jerry, Li XiaoLu wrote this sentence in a long reply: "The fission of nuclear energy is caused by forces other than himself. The right and wrong of everything, the original beginning and end, is not as simple as people look at it from the surface. "

Isn't that what it is? On the surface, what we saw was that Li XiaoLu cheated on Jerry in his marriage and played a good hand. But we seldom ask, why did Li XiaoLu become like this?

When Xu Zhian cheated, Sammi Cheng generously forgave him, saying that this was a topic for two people. I quite agree with Sammi Cheng. Problems in marriage must be the fault of two people.

Of course, Li XiaoLu's infidelity is unforgivable.

If Jerry does well enough to make Li XiaoLu happy, she doesn't need to play outside.

Jerry has been selling affectionate people about how hard he chased Li XiaoLu. To some extent, Li XiaoLu is happy to have such a person who holds himself in his own hands.

But is this really the case?

I still remember that Jerry wrote a letter after Li XiaoLu and PGONE were exposed. He said in the letter: "I feel sorry for Lulu. Maybe I didn't do it well enough. I want to give you the best in the world as much as I can, but I can't balance the company with my family and all my efforts. "

It is true that Jerry loves Li XiaoLu, and it is also true that he can't accompany Li XiaoLu. In marriage, the husband works hard and throws things at home to you. Isn't this a widowed marriage?

In such a marriage, cheating is inevitable.

The combination of Jerry and Li XiaoLu is a typical example. Jerry is too eager to prove himself, so he has been fighting for his career. But balancing family and career is also a man's problem.

From an objective point of view, Li XiaoLu and Jerry are not so perfect. They both have their own difficulties. It is unfair to blame Li XiaoLu for all the mistakes in their marriage.

Divorce is an inevitable result for them. How can an unequal relationship have a fairy tale ending?

After the divorce, Jerry had his own career direction, and Li XiaoLu was independent. After their separation, they all became better friends, which is not a good ending.

Don't scold Li XiaoLu from best actress to internet celebrity. Everyone has his own life. Maybe this is more suitable for Li XiaoLu. You can ignore it, but there is no need to step on it.

I still remember Ma Yili's acceptance speech when she won the Magnolia Award: "Women don't live to please others, I hope you can live for yourself. Everyone has only one chance to love bravely, struggle and make mistakes in the first half of his life, but please remember to grow up. "

This passage is addressed to Li XiaoLu and everyone in front of the screen.