1. state your expectations.

Parents usually have many expectations for their children, the most common ones are health, happiness and happy growth, but in my opinion, such expectations are not clear. Ambiguous results bring not no expectation, but expectation for perfection, so there are problems everywhere, problems that need to be solved ... Where do the problems come from? The problem is not necessarily the child's, but the problem comes from the expectation! Only by making this clear can we better look at and treat children's imperfections.

2. Give priority to encouragement

Today's children are under much greater pressure to go to school than when we were young. Although the conditions are much better than when we were young, it brings not only comfort to children, but also pressure to take exams and master knowledge and ability. Therefore, parents must give priority to encouragement in their children's early education, so as to stimulate their interest in learning.

Cultivate good habits

Go home every day to finish your homework and preview your homework. If you make a mistake in your homework that day, you can record it in a correction book. Don't leave your knowledge behind every day. Over time, many problems will be solved.

4. Master learning skills

My friend's daughter also encountered such a problem when she was learning pinyin. No matter how she repeated it, she couldn't remember the second half of the whole syllable: 1510. Yuan. Yin Yunying. I was crazy for a while, but then I calmed down. She thought I could remember in another way. Just tell her daughter, remember, the first one is your name, the second one is the full moon in the sky, and the last one is mom's name. This way, the child will remember it after watching it three times.

So sometimes mastering skills is a shortcut to your goal. This also requires mothers to keep learning and make progress with their children.

Children are the reason why they can't study;

1 First of all, every child has his own personality and is an independent individual. Many times, when educating their children, parents will inevitably learn from other people's experience. For example, those who take good care of their children sometimes just copy them completely, without considering whether to find their own children at the right time. To a certain extent, this will not achieve any effect they want, and it will also do some harm to children.

Secondly, every parent also has his own personality. Some parents are impatient when teaching their children. They always hope to learn quickly, but ignore their own learning and acceptance. If you do this for a long time, your children will gradually lose confidence, which is extremely unfavorable to their growth.

3, some parents may be born with bad personality, so in the process of educating their children, it is inevitable that they will often reprimand their children, which will lead to their special rejection. After a long time, you may become fearful, which is also a common problem of many parents. In fact, facing up to your own problems will lead to children becoming so bad.

4. Some parents may be busy with their work and life and lack a certain understanding of their children. If there is no effective communication between them, the gap between them will get bigger and bigger, so no matter how parents teach them, children can't accept them correctly.