Hello, is the child not learning well? Which subject is not good? Relatively speaking, some subjects are better, such as Chinese, mathematics, English, ideology and morality, nature, society, experiment, painting, physical education and so on. There should be some courses that are relatively better. Although English is the main part, others can't be ignored. I think we should let nature take its course, but we should also take the initiative to understand the children's learning situation. Why not? Why not? Now that children are still young, we must guide them correctly. Did they spend time on it but their grades never improved, or did they pay no attention to it at all, but focused on other things? You must know clearly before you can prescribe the right medicine.

Then everyone is comparing, which is a fact. My childhood also came from the comparison of my parents. Frankly speaking, I hate this comparison and my parents always tell me how good their children are. How obedient or something? Why are all our children disobedient? Ever since I was a kid. However, I am the kind of person who will take it seriously, which makes me feel inferior and introverted now. This is definitely the responsibility of my parents, so I hope that the tragedy of the previous generation will not be repeated in the next generation. What about my children? Parents know best. They can only guide, fight, scold and compete. We should find suitable education for children according to their personality characteristics.

Besides, your home is near Pudong, Shanghai, which is a very prosperous place. If you have time, you can take your children out for a walk, increase your knowledge and cultivate more hobbies, so you won't be entangled in a learning problem. In addition to learning, children have many advantages, which can cultivate their self-confidence, and at the same time, as parents, you are more at ease.

Communicate with children more, understand the specific learning situation, and naturally develop their other hobbies. I hope that through your efforts, your children will be more optimistic and positive, and lay a solid foundation for them to enter the society in the future. I hope I can help you. Thank you!