It's midsummer again. When I think of this time last year, I ran back and forth between home and training school in the scorching sun every day. Children are learning in full swing, and I am also very anxious, for the same goal-"the top three"! A year has passed, and our wish has come true, but our steps have not stopped. It's still midsummer, and we're still on the way to study. Along the way, thanks to the company of the "parents' gang", I got to know such a good sharing platform in the process of "Xiaoshengchu". I studied here and gained experience, information, dry goods and so on. Therefore, the most practical thank-you action is to share your own "Xiaoshengchu" story, hoping to give some reference and help to the parents behind.
First, Niu Wa VS ordinary baby
(A) Know yourself-ordinary baby
1. Basic information: 1 1 year old, male, studying in a primary school in Gulou.
2 school study: no class places; The exam is basically excellent (occasionally good at Chinese), except that math is not in the top of the class. If the score is ranked, it may be considered as the upper-middle level; In-school interest classes participate in information interest groups once a week; Have lunch class at school, and basically finish school homework during lunch break.
3. Extracurricular: I basically have no homework when I come back at night. I mainly play with my parents, or read books, do manual work, draw pictures, read newspapers and watch TV less. I watched CCTV's "I love inventions" a while ago (I still live a normal life in grade six, and there are no extra questions after class).
4. Interest: Reading is his greatest hobby, especially reading history books; Another interest is calligraphy. I practice from time to time, irregular, depending on my mood.
5. Enroll in classes: In the autumn of the sixth grade (September), after discussing with my children, I reduced my chess study (the training class needs to be streamlined), Chinese and English participated in the junior high school classes in New Oriental, and I studied mathematics while thinking. In addition, I continued to study Chinese painting and badminton, and also participated in the online class of small ancient prose (only one hour per week).
6. Personality: Wa is generally a kind of leisurely and gentle child, who gets along well with classmates, is not very conscious, is not a competitive person, and lacks a sense of competition.
As can be seen from the above introduction, my baby is such an ordinary child.
(b) Know "Niu Wa"-a beautiful legend.
Do you have bullfrogs? Yes! Very few, one session 100 or so. What are the so-called "learning tyrants" and "learning gods" around us? Won the place in the Olympic Games and other competitions, right? This used to be my confusion, especially when I went to New Oriental and studied in institutions. At first glance, I really feel that I am too ordinary. But I finally saw Niu Wa's truth: learn in advance+keep learning+pay more. There must be a planned and executive parent team behind Niu Wa.
(3) Are the top three "Niu Wa"?
Annual enrollment in grade three 1, 000 ~ 1, 200. As mentioned earlier, bullfrogs only have 1 000, so ordinary babies have the chance and position of 1 000. So, in this case, are there many opportunities for ordinary babies?
Through the above analysis, I no longer feel slim because I am an ordinary baby. On the contrary, I think ordinary children can gain a lot in the process of "junior high school" as long as their goals are clear, their study and life are arranged step by step, and they gradually improve themselves.
Second, road VS road.
(1) Tao-make a plan suitable for children.
At this time last year, my family was also a baby without a cow certificate. A parent encouraged me: believe in children, nothing is impossible.
I analyzed the situation of various disciplines and made such a plan:
1. Olympiad: Out of my desire for Niu Zheng, I thought Niu Zheng was the "stepping stone" of the top three. He loves mathematics, but he has never participated in the Olympic math training. He took part in the mathematical thinking of Jiuse deer for two semesters in the fifth grade, which may only reach the difficulty of the last question in the school mathematics exam. The Austrian number is equal to zero base. The first goal: you must get a cow certificate!
2. Language: I downloaded 20 16 questions of Miki on the Internet at that time, and the correct rate of Wa was very high. Except for one or two questions to recite, he basically got them right. This is due to the accumulation of a large number of extracurricular reading, especially the precipitation of Chinese studies. Therefore, my family's language strategy is to insist on reading a lot, not because of the decrease in junior high school. Try to sell four books of Miki!
By the way, the top three exams are basically multiple-choice questions. If you study hard at school, you may not get the top three. If the school is average, it may be not bad. My baby is very suitable for this multiple choice question. Take Chinese as an example. In school exams, there are many mistakes (many typos) in other languages, reading comprehension is basically correct, and composition scores are unstable. Therefore, the private exam based on multiple-choice questions is good news for my family!
3. English: English from junior high school is mainly exam-oriented. Children who have learned spoken English all the way must adjust their direction, master grammar and words, and try not to delay.
(2) Road-step by step.
In July last year, the private exam was started. In fact, it only took half a year (the earliest Jiuse deer evaluation kicked off the top three exams, which is probably in February every year), and I also went out for a trip during the winter vacation, as well as the Spring Festival and so on, so the time was very short.
1. Mathematics: The proportion in the top three exams accounts for 50% or more, so we must pay attention to it. Our family started the Olympics late, and getting the Olympics certificate is the first goal of Xiaoshengchu's planning. So since the summer vacation, my family has basically been studying "double" mathematics. Later, I learned that "bullfrogs" are like this. The specific research is as follows:
(1) Summer vacation: New Oriental top math class, with a pair of off-campus teachers making up the foundation of four olympiad math.
(2) Autumn and winter holidays: the top class of learning and thinking, the New Oriental Medal Class.
(3) Spring: top class of learning and thinking, North China training camp.
I participated in various Olympic Games this year: WMO, North China, Haidu Cup, Strait Cup, etc. There are preliminaries and semi-finals, almost every week in spring (after March). Also won a variety of medals, the most valuable is the "China Cup" second prize. More important than medals, children's self-confidence is greatly improved! High enthusiasm for learning, especially like to study with "Xueba".
2. Chinese: A lot of reading accumulation is the "foundation" and junior high school training is the "end point".
We enrolled in the New Oriental junior high school class, starting from the autumn class in September, and going to the autumn, winter vacation and spring, but the baby just went to class and didn't recite the materials. I think kung fu is outside the "junior high school" class. Through the opportunity of junior high school, we read:
(1) Qian Wenzhong's Saint Amethyst and Disciples' Rules. Later, I learned that Professor Qian also had hundreds of surnames, and she asked to read them, so she read them together-these are not pure classics, but a thick collection of lectures, involving a lot of historical allusions behind the classics. I prefer such books to rote learning.
(2) Thousands of words: I didn't find a book like Professor Qian Wenzhong's, so I had to memorize one book a day, but I didn't finish reading it in the end. This kind of boring study is really helpless, and only children with strong perseverance can stick to it. If you see any books like Professor Qian Wenzhong's lectures or thousands of explanations, please share them.
(3) the enlightenment of melody, Eva just looked at it and didn't recite it at all.
(4) "100 primary school students' ancient prose", taught by myself, seems to be understandable.
(5) The original works of the four classic novels: Except A Dream of Red Mansions, the other three books have been read more than twice.
(6) What happened in the Ming Dynasty: This is a set of books that he likes very much, N times.
(7) Meng Man said Sui and Tang Dynasties.
(8) Legend of the Condor Heroes
(9) Five elder sisters tell historical stories.
The above books are helpful to junior high school. I have read many miscellaneous books, including roald dahl series, Feng Zikai children's literature series, terrible science series and so on. In addition, listening to books and reading books have the same effect. Eva's listening books include:
(1) Xie Tao listens to the world: mainly to the Three Kingdoms part.
(2) Li Bo's "Beautiful Poems Not to Be Missed in Life" and "Li Bopin's Most Beautiful Love Poems through the Ages"
(3) The Five Hundred Years of Wang X Ming by Li Bo
4 high Xiao Shuo.
Children with basic reading habits have high reading taste. Some so-called masterpieces may not be readable, but good books will surely win the children's love. Parents should supply wisdom, pay attention to quantity and timing! I once read an article, "Do the top 1% students rely on talent or hard work?" In fact, none of them are ... ",which mentions that reading habits make learning. If so, my family's "core" learning competitiveness lies in reading habits.
3. English: The difficulty of private examination is relatively low, and it takes about 90 classes to learn new concepts. Children's energy and time are limited (we started preparing late). According to our plan, English is a subject that can be completed without delay. So unlike math and Chinese, the requirements are relatively low. During the summer vacation, I began to learn from the first lesson of the new concept until the winter vacation. I learned about 90 lessons and transferred to New Oriental Xiaoshengchu English. In this process, children's grammar has indeed been well sorted out and consolidated, but by junior high school, English is more important than primary school. If you have time, of course, it is best to lay a good foundation in primary school.
(3) Psychological preparation
Believe in children, nothing is impossible. Xiaoshengchu is not so much a study as a mentality. Therefore, in this process, we don't compare with children, don't nag in front of children, and don't urge children to learn. Instead, we spend more time with children on an equal footing, accept, affirm and encourage them, and share every little progress together! Deliver more nutrition and more positive energy to children's psychology. This is a psychological war!
Which is better, the third or the third?
It should be said that it is not easy to get into the top three, nor is it easy. At first, we were based on being close to home. Later, we found that it was not rational to study hard in this way, especially after the opening of the subway, the children in Gulou had a wider choice. I saw all kinds of accurate statistics about the senior high school entrance examination in private schools in the "parents' gang", mainly referring to the statistics of the senior high school entrance examination in private schools, including the proportion of first-class schools, the proportion of "one-three-attached" schools and the average score. Therefore, there are more rational analysis and thinking when choosing. So if you can choose, when choosing a school, you should not only look at the feeling, but also look at the numbers.
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