Children start their high school life and review the whole junior high school for three years as soon as they have time. He was deeply moved and decided to write it down in words. First, sum up experience and lessons and start a new journey; The second is to provide some reference for the parents of the younger generation, if possible. First of all, I want to explain that my child is a boy with poor grades in primary school and bad study habits. He has just entered the first grade, and he may not even get on the ordinary high school line. Now the provincial focus is not on top high schools. Today, I use this platform to share some experiences with you.

This paper is divided into three chapters according to time. One chapter is Grade One, Grade Two and Grade Three. Full of truth, a bitter tear.

Confused first grade

Xiaoshengchu didn't worry much, and his son went directly to the so-called key junior high school in this district. Before entering school, some parents began to organize placement activities, giving money and cards. Of course, this is just a legend. I hope my son will enter a better class, but I have an idea in my mind that it is useless to squeeze into a good class with poor grades. Besides, I have no one to look for. Let it be.

Look at the children with the worst grades in primary school on the class list. There is no doubt that this is a poor class. My son's face turned black in an instant. Poor little boy, he suffered an unprecedented blow.

For me, there is a more cruel reality in front of me: 50% of junior high school students in this city will not go directly to high school, but enter vocational secondary schools and enter the society in advance. This is unacceptable to me. Although the national education policy is correct, it is unacceptable for me and most parents in this city not to go to high school and lose the opportunity to go to college. I feel that our life has fallen into a bottomless abyss and we can't see the way out in all directions.

I bet all my money on the cultivation of excellent students. Chinese, math and English are taught outside. Now think about it, the children at that time were very tired. Every Friday and at six o'clock, he finishes class, arrives in Yu Pei at half past six and goes home at ten o'clock. I have math English on Saturday and Sunday and do my homework at home the rest of the time. All recreational activities have stopped, only study, study, and keep learning.

I also stopped all entertainment, watching TV and surfing the Internet. Accompany him, sort out the wrong English questions and analyze the examination papers in various subjects. Browse the website at work to see parents' experiences and lessons. Try to get in touch with the teacher, hoping to pay more attention to his son and improve his self-confidence.

In such a class, sons are basically in the top ten. There are several girls in the class who are strong in Chinese, but he always surpasses them. But even so, in the whole grade, I can only rank more than 200, and I took more than 300 in the final exam of senior one.

However, that time was also very special. During the period before the exam, I felt that he was ill. Every time he listened to the faint footsteps in the corridor at home, he didn't jump home one step at a time. I asked him if he was ill, and he said nothing. During the winter vacation, it turned out to be pneumonia, which actually dragged on for more than half a month. Now that I think about it, I'm still a little sad. I am too careless and my son is too tolerant.

I don't understand why my son, who is a liberal arts student, turns a blind eye to written language. Chinese is like a mountain. It is struggling to climb, but it can only basically stand still.

Mathematics has always been high and low, and it will fail completely when it comes to the big exam. English, can only say that the English level of the children in this class is backward, which keeps him a little confident.

My son's bad habits can't be changed at once. I still can't control myself, talking in class and deserting my homework. At this time, the tigress began to show off. He is as tall as me, so it is impossible to fight.

I angrily described the result of his going on like this. Sometimes he cried, and sometimes he looked at me blankly. And then some convergence. Later, when he was in a better mood, I brainwashed him from a positive direction. So repeatedly. My son finally consciously linked his study with the future.

First-class high schools, we dare not think, and the best high schools in this area are far away. He is also very anxious sometimes: Mom, can't I even get into XX high school now? I said yes.

We are worried together. Seeing no future direction, the first day passed like this. It is said that boys will have stamina in junior high school. Why can't we see it? Is this the darkness before dawn?

Against the wind the next day

There has always been a popular saying: the first day is neck and neck, the second day is bipolar, and the third day is heaven and earth. This sentence gave me a little confidence. The next day, start again.

I saw a senior's post saying that if you lay a solid foundation in geometry before the second day of junior high school, math learning will be much easier after school starts. Benefited a lot. This summer vacation before the second day of junior high school is particularly important. Math English continues to be an excellent course, removing Chinese and adding physics.

I was very happy when I was admitted to the top class in the math training class, but the problem came. I can't move the homework at all. Looking at a large area of blank, it is useless to worry. I really can't help it. I started to look up the questions on the Internet, and then asked him to do it. I know it's not good, but doing nothing is even worse. I can finish most of my homework every time I stumble.

The physics teacher is a young, tall and fat teacher, and his lectures are humorous and vivid. My son fell in love with him at once. What I like better is the physics he teaches. It's so interesting. Sound and light, some natural phenomena around me actually went to class. Almost every time after class, my son will tell me the interesting story of this fat teacher and the wonderful content in class, and then use this knowledge to explain the phenomena in life. I'm not interested in it, and I don't quite understand it, but I smiled back.

At the beginning of school, I analyzed the excellent classes in Grade One and found that Chinese was basically ineffective. Learning math in advance can only be done by taking quizzes. Review before the big exam, everyone's starting line is the same, and the amount of homework has increased. He doesn't want to catch up with English because he can't.

I decided to stop all extracurricular training classes. But he proposed to continue studying physics, fearing that I would refuse, and came up with n reasons. I forget the specific reasons now, but this is the first time I have proposed to take an extracurricular training class. Of course I said yes.

Generally speaking, geometry problems can be solved without mistakes, unlike algebra. The repeated questions in the summer vacation helped my son, and his thinking was far ahead of his classmates.

At the same time, he is also summing up why freshmen always make mistakes in the big exam, which gradually forms his characteristics. He studies algebra carefully and can't make mistakes.

English, in addition to completing the teacher's homework, I have to recite a text every week; Do a set of gestalt reading questions.

I am most grateful for physics, the fat physics teacher, who talks about stress with his big feet in class. Children love him to death. Because of the outstanding physics, the total score of my son's big exam is basically between the first and second in the class. On one occasion, his monthly exam score was in the top 80 of his grade, which was better than that of a first-class high school. Physics made him confident.

Chinese is still our heartache. Ability needs to be accumulated. Where can I have more time to study now? The foundation can not be strengthened by cultivating excellent students. A junior high school student is still writing typos. How can others help you? Perhaps, a boy like my son lacks such sensitivity when learning Chinese. I can understand this deficiency. He is as difficult to learn Chinese as I am to learn physics. It's like someone forced us to eat food we don't like and barely swallowed it. How can I know what it tastes like?

Chinese can only follow the teacher. In addition to physics, the fat teacher has done good homework in the class and has always had good grades. The rest of my extra-curricular time is spent on math English, especially math. He gradually found confidence in his math study. We have reached the level of XX High School.

I began to study how to fill in the volunteers for the senior high school entrance examination. What level of achievement should I achieve and which school should I fill in? My principle is neither aggressive nor wronged. Fortunately, my son's grades are rising steadily. After he entered the top 200, he never fell down. We are looking forward to it. He can come to by going up one flight of stairs.

Dawn is approaching, and my son's study has entered a smooth fast lane. I feel that the rope tied to my body is getting loose.

The third day of steady rise

This summer vacation before the third grade, the school began to make up lessons. Seeing that the chemical equipment bought by his classmates was interesting, he proposed to buy a set. I agreed without hesitation. Although I am a liberal arts student, I have a thorough understanding of the relationship between science and experiment. And I also saw that Chu Bao used a page to report a successful case of a mother setting up a laboratory for her son at home.

I bought a chemical experiment box, and there are many bottles and cans. My son was excited for a few days and did experiments whenever he had time. There is often a pungent smell in the study.

My son was transferred to a better class this time. The first monthly exam ranked fifth in the class and also entered the pre-grade 150. Chinese is still a relatively backward subject, almost the last in the class. Mathematics and English have always maintained an upper-middle level, and physics is still his advantage. In chemistry, some children are trained in advance, so his chemistry scores are temporarily inconspicuous.

There is only one day off on weekends, and I study by myself until eight o'clock in the evening. A lot of homework. I sat next to him and helped clean up all the papers.

Mathematics is hardly like a quadratic function; It is difficult to finish school homework in English, so there is no time to recite words. Chemistry, my son's grades really proved the importance of the experiment. The chemistry topic in the monthly exam is very difficult. The color of copper sulfate solution is not critical. The teacher mentioned it lightly. Only my son did it right in the class, because he did the experiment before the exam and was impressed.

Entering the next semester, the atmosphere is very tense. I saw that my classmates' parents planned to give their children extra-curricular meals, one-on-one, and punch in for class. I'm a little confused. Physics has entered the review stage, and my son is advised to stop. Because it takes more time for 120 to get a Chinese grade, I gave him one-on-one Chinese. At first, he was a little reluctant. Later, he felt that this course could give him confidence.

Math and English are regular exercises. Mathematics, what I regret most now is that I should have adjusted my strategy according to my son's situation. Because it is a parallel class, the teacher has been asking to do basic questions, and there are few intermediate questions, and the finale is basically not talked about, while the son has to practice the intermediate questions and overcome the finale. So is English. If you keep doing problems, you should stop occasionally, sum up the methods and recite some classic model essays.

Of course, this is wise after the event. Physical chemistry has a strong understanding and learning ability, and has become an absolute advantage subject for my son.

Except for the first monthly exam, the first place in the class has changed every time in the next few big exams. Only my son sat firmly in the second place, and his classmates nicknamed him "the second child of the Millennium", and his grade ranking never fell to 150. In a model test before the middle school entrance examination, he turned over and became the first, and his performance ranking also rushed to the top 60. Finally, the senior high school entrance examination was also admitted to a provincial key high school with the first place in the class.

Three years of junior high school, so it's over. My son's potential can still be tapped, and junior high school is over. I still feel very sorry.

In fact, my son and I are not very satisfied with the results of the senior high school entrance examination, and our math and English scores have not reached the usual level. Now I want to summarize and analyze it, leave a lesson for our high school study, and also give parents a reference:

First, don't be confused before the exam, we must plan how to allocate resources for superior subjects and inferior subjects;

Second, we must understand our own short version and find ways to solve it;

Third, we must strive for some time to study independently before the exam. Teachers have to teach everything, and it is impossible to take care of every child's specific situation. They need to take time to make up for their omissions.

The ending is almost one go. Thank you for your attention and praise. I feel ashamed and scared. I don't want to talk about it. I only hope that after three years, I can come back here with joy, share and summarize the bitterness and joy of three years in high school, and bless my son and your children!