The Best of Us 1 The Best of Us tells the story of Ren and his deskmate for three years. In recent years, many things have happened: there are the best class teacher, Mr. Zhang Ping, and a group of friends who have a good time. They have been working hard for their dreams. Although the author didn't point out that they finally got together, I believe they are the best.
In August, Chang 'an wrote the memories to the extreme, and showed us the bits and pieces of growth with words. In this book, I saw me in high school, and every word in the book can arouse my * * * and bring me back to the summer of that year. That year, there were endless comprehensive papers, endless ancient prose, elusive class teacher, a boy I secretly loved, and … that year, youth was just right!
I seldom watch online dramas, but I am seriously catching up with The Best of Us, because it reminds me of my high school life. The passage of an era left an empty legacy in Xia Feng. The reason why The Best of Us is so popular is that many people, like me, are obsessed with the past.
Best of all, we must love ourselves. Only by loving yourself can your mind have a clear sky. The best of us is us who work hard for our dreams and keep running; The best of us is who we are now. We can't not have it because we are afraid of losing it. We are all pursuing what we think is the "best", but we don't know that maybe the best is around. The loved one is lucky and touched, but the lover's heart beats faster and faster again and again.
Someone once said, "Time flies and everything rusts". Why don't I want to go back to 20 years ago, to the summer when the weather was just right and the breeze was not dry, to the youth with clear and moist eyes?
I don't love Ren He, let alone Ren He and Lu Xinghua. They are all excellent, one has a perfect past, the other has a beautiful present and a promising future. I prefer Han Xu and simplicity. Right? Han Xu is scum, and Han Xu is hurt and innocent. But it is true and lovely love. I grew up with you, I like you, and you like me, but that's just friendship, not love. I will never get tired of loving you, but I won't wait for you all the time. I know you're in love with someone else, and I'm hurt, whether it's my good friend or someone I don't know, but it's not me. So I finally gave up. You know you hurt me, and you feel guilty. You can remember everything we got along with, but you won't let me come back. We are complete strangers.
You can persist as much as you want. She became better. She can choose what she wants. However, people like Huai Yu, with the youthful scenery, once saw all the flowers in Chang 'an, but in the end, his life went on with such scenery. The beauty of the past will become a burden, a needle and a heart. Every time I see myself now and think of myself in the past, I feel very sad. If you can't turn over again, you will be shrouded in your own shadow all your life and can't get out. Good times are always so sweet. If you are sweet, you will love. If you love, it will hurt. How wonderful.
I hope all lovers in the world can find people they like very much and people who like you very much. Be sure to be with the person you like, come to this world, see the sunshine, and walk in the street with the person you like, without regrets!
The reading experience of "The Best of Us" 3 is really a sophomore in a blink of an eye. Although I don't want to admit it in all aspects, I did enter the era at the beginning of 2. Embarrassed, but still can live very self. You can also tease the children on the bus with a smile and say, call me aunt and I'll give you candy.
Youth is hard to recover.
"The Best of Us" was originally named Running Asshole, which made me think that Erxiong wrote a running account. But from the beginning, I knew it was like old times, and I couldn't let it go.
The language is simple and the plot is familiar. Many head-on mathematical formulas, physical problems, cyclones and anticyclones seem to have gone back many years. Sitting in the high school classroom, you can clearly see the chalk words written by the teacher on the blackboard and hear the sound of electric fans pattering.
In fact, it is very fragile. Huai Yu is the light, and you can clearly see the light on his side face. Can you think of the good student in the class who listened to the teacher but was deeply loved by the teacher? Like Huai Yu, Huai Yu is not hated. I always thought he was a luminous body like Yang Lin. Wherever you go, you can survive well, mingle with others and even warm others.
Sometimes we are more like Huai Yu, for fear that the world will look down on us. But more often than not, we are nervous and sleepy every day, and our days are dull and boring. How many wishes and plans we have made can't keep up with the changes of this era. When the first wish can't come true, then we will lower our demands on ourselves and stand opposite to the expectations of the world.
The best time of our time.
"The Best of Us" 4 Reading Experience In three days, I finished reading "The Best of Us". The heroine Geng and the hero met unexpectedly from the beginning and finally got together as they wished. After three years and seven years of psychological struggle and trial and error in high school, she finally joined hands with her first love.
Compared with the heroine Yu in Hello, Old Times, the heroine Geng in The Best of Us makes me feel closer to the world. Yu seems to be an out-of-touch high-cold goddess, which is difficult to approach; What worries me is an ordinary high school student with a little girl's mind, and it is particularly difficult to learn science. She reminds me of myself in high school.
When I was in high school, I was as upset as before. I don't know science and I'm not interested in learning to do problems. I have been studying arts and sciences, and the effect is naturally discounted, which I summarized later. The difference is that she met a deskmate, Huai Yu, who can help her, and she likes being helped. With the help of Huai Yu, she gradually learned better, and with her "persistence at the critical moment", she was admitted to a university in Beijing as she wished. And after graduation, I tried my best to find what I like to do. I bravely resigned as the administrator of Beijing, a popular real estate in people's eyes, and devoted myself to my own photography career, becoming an enviable young and promising entrepreneur with light in his eyes.
Fortunately, she is "very open-minded", so when she strayed into Zhenhua Middle School, the most powerful high school institution in the whole province and even the whole country, she began to panic when she saw that her classmates had learned math that she was not good at during the holidays. When she made up her mind for the nth time to "turn over a new leaf" and study science well, she found that the reality was so cruel. Even though she spent much more energy and time than others, the questions she did were still "a lot wrong". When handing out the monthly exam paper, she had to cover the paper that had just floated on the desk quickly to avoid being seen by the great god around her. In class, she "chased the teacher's carriage in slippers", stumbling and panting, but she was about to catch up, and the carriage continued to catch up. As a sensitive and introverted girl with strong self-esteem, she must have put up with it for a long time. However, although she seems "ambitious", she is still very self-motivated. She can get through it and accept the reality, so she will continue to "wear slippers" in a down-to-earth manner.
This part reminds me of a sentence: what is suitable is the best. If I were Sheng Geng's parents, maybe I wouldn't let my children use the test questions during the SARS period to simply fill in the schools that children can't reach under normal circumstances. I will let her go to a school that matches her ability and then do her best in that school. If ta is enterprising enough, even if ta is among the best in her own school, she will definitely look at the whole city and province, compared with other peers. In my opinion, confidence is the most important thing. When a person is confident and confident, then no matter how difficult things are, they can be solved; And if self-confidence is lost or insufficient, even simple things will become difficult.
Of course, I am not a resentful parent. Every parent hopes that their children can enter a good school and enjoy high-quality educational resources. This is the love of parents for their children, which is understandable. However, from the perspective of children's growth, it may be more exciting for children to study happily in a school that suits them, unload unnecessary psychological burdens and spend three years in high school happily.
This is related to my personal experience. I am such a sensitive and introverted girl with strong self-esteem. When I was in the so-called top class, I watched my classmates go on coldly, but I couldn't move at all. My inner depression and pressure can't be expressed in words. After the second year of high school, I entered the so-called ordinary class. The atmosphere in the class suddenly relaxed a lot, and students no longer just stared at their own achievements and were wary of being surpassed. That kind of environment, the feelings between classmates, let me relax gradually, and finally achieved good results in the college entrance examination.
Therefore, I prefer "fit" to "best".
Small raindrops outside the window are ticking, with their backs facing south, and the windows and doors are covered with layers of water vapor. As for me, drinking tea at home while watching Chang 'an's works in August is really a pleasure.
Experience of dog reading "The Best of Us" 5 for junior graduate students. There is no time to think back to high school, and college has long been over. Suddenly watching "The Best of Us" feels that the scene of three years in high school has reappeared. Unable to speak in my heart, I decided to write down my mood with notes.
I haven't written about reading for a long time, and I don't know where to start. Suddenly I wanted to write, but my fingers fell on the keyboard but I couldn't type a word. Perhaps this is the most unforgettable emotion of youth.
Some time ago, the film "How to Shengxiao Mo" started broadcasting, which set off an anti-youth heat wave. Unlike Our Best Man, which is a novel about college and graduation, Our Best Man is a novel about three years of high school youth. But the theme is the same. The same girl falls in love with an excellent boy, but the girl can't read, but she likes taking pictures very much. It happened that in "Why Shengxiao Mo", Mo Sheng first photographed the legal genius He, and "The Best of Us" was the time he met, and he also photographed the time when the beginning was so similar but the ending was so different. In the end, He Chenyi was still brilliant, while Huai Yu of The Best of Us couldn't continue her studies because of her family background, but in the end they all had a happy ending, and they were all together. "The Best of Us" was written in high school for three years, while "Why Shengxiao Mo" was mostly written after graduation, which is the biggest difference. Perhaps because I didn't watch the original "Why Shengxiao Mo" and only watched the TV series, my opinion is still one-sided. I believe the original work must be wonderful.
Whether it is high school or college, it is everyone's youth. Everyone's youth is unique. But why should we hide those memories of youth? People who have experienced the college entrance examination say that because of the college entrance examination, people who have graduated will say that they are looking for a job. I haven't graduated yet. Let's talk about the college entrance examination.
I remember a few days ago, my classmates told me: you have participated in the college entrance examination, so why worry? Are people who have finished the college entrance examination really indestructible? Do people who have finished the college entrance examination have to cross the threshold of being underage? Will people who take the college entrance examination really say goodbye to themselves in high school? Really has nothing to do with high school? Can you really forget all the memories of youth in high school? I can't. All the memories are just hidden, but there is no way to forget them. If you pick them up again one day, all the scenes will reappear.
After the college entrance examination, some people have gone far away, while others are still there, but they have no desire to accompany them. Everyone faces a new future at the beginning of the college entrance examination, but has anyone found that the university has not started again, but it can't forget the past. Some people have some things, and once they are stirred up again, they will be out of control. That kind of unspeakable feeling. Those dark secrets rekindled the desire.
This novel was first published in 20xx. It is conceivable that the author wrote this decimal in about 20xx, when I just graduated from high school. Maybe the same feeling, but I didn't express it well, but I didn't think hard and make a decision. I feel very sorry. If I were as brave as college, what would I do? I can't imagine, but time can't go back, and a temporary impulse can only be exchanged for regret. Maybe this is youth. I believe that I have lived for more than 20 years now, and I have liked someone in everyone's heart. There is such a person, also existed in our youth, but after the college entrance examination, we hid this person deeply.
For those who want to see you, you can bravely grasp your youth. Youth has no boundaries. You are not young after the college entrance examination. As long as we believe, youth will always accompany us. What we have to do now is to grasp every minute of our youth and the person in our hearts.
"The Best of Us" 6 Reading Experience After reading "Being the Best Teacher" in the winter vacation, I was deeply lost in thought. I think the soul that runs through this book is the education of love. In the process of becoming the best teacher, I found love and education in love. In reading, I am always moved by Li Zhenxi's language full of wisdom and philosophy. Extract some wonderful clips to encourage yourself.
The so-called best teachers are not compared with the teachers I admire, such as Yu Yi, Qian Menglong and Wei Shusheng, whose character, knowledge, ability and even talent I can never reach. But I can compete with myself! In other words, compared with yesterday's Li Zhenxi, today's Li Zhenxi is more serious in preparing lessons than yesterday. Is my class more exciting than yesterday? Is my heart-to-heart talk with students more sincere than yesterday? Am I more resourceful in dealing with emergencies than yesterday? Is it more interesting for me to organize class collective activities today? Whether a teacher is good or not depends first on the students' evaluation. Teachers exist because of students, and of course I exist because of students.
Cultivate students' open mind, broad cultural mind, strategic cultural vision, democratic consciousness without fear of power and critical spirit of independent thinking.
In the education of love, there is no boring preaching, no grandiloquence, no vigorous heroic deeds. It only describes some ordinary daily teaching life. It is these seemingly ordinary but authentic narratives that bring readers into a world of love and let us be educated in love. This book is full of love. Full of enviable love. A teacher should do:
(A) care more about students, love education, only good memories.
(2) Stick to your post, work silently and go all out.
(3) Experience of learning organization: 1, systematic thinking 2, self-improvement 3, mental model improvement 4, team learning.
(d) In the era of knowledge economy, teachers should be proactive, willing to learn, gain more new experiences and carry out teaching work.
(5) Teachers' professional development and moral cultivation, the practice of teachers' professional autonomy, must be implemented in education, in the teaching of various subjects, and in daily life education, in order to get the effect of setting an example.
The world we live in is like a forest, with trees, shrubs, towering poplars and swaying willows. You may not be the most beautiful, but you can be the most lovely; You may not be the smartest, but you can be the most diligent; You may not be the richest, but you can be the most substantial; You may not be the most successful, but you can be the most optimistic. Now our school is advocating happy education, so that students can feel happy everywhere in school. The word happiness is easier said than done. We strive to be a happy teacher who makes students happy!
The reading experience of "The Best of Us" is better than that of "Orange Born in Huainan".
At least the plot is much richer and more real.
Everyone is much more vivid and three-dimensional. Everyone is doing something suitable for their age, thinking about the troubles and emotions that should have existed at that time. Not everyone's tangled little thoughts exist, and no one is so sensitive as to seem ignorant, confused and confused. What we have is precisely youth. There are too many things and times in our life that can't be accurately described in words. Ignorance and chaos are ambiguous and warm behind. As Xi Murong said: In our world, time is the longitude and space is the latitude, and a series of joys and sorrows are carefully and closely woven, with very regular quirks. There is actually a secret code in every corner and every knot. At that time, we were at a loss, but looking back, we suddenly found that all the threads were vivid. We just smiled and understood where the pain and sadness came from.
After reading the last two chapters, I suddenly know that many words, many things, many opponents and many reactions can only be done when I am young, and I can have them when I am young. Once you miss that time, you can't give yourself the same reaction with the same mood. It's not funny. /kloc-when I was 0/6 years old, I could still look up to and admire Huai Yu until I heard him say that he didn't want to be so far away. But when I was 26 years old, I was afraid that Huai Yu would talk to her about reality and the future, and I was afraid that I couldn't hold him down like a mountain. Fortunately, I buried my feelings ten years ago and grew up firmly. Years later, I can still hug it with a kiss. But the most touching thing was not the kiss, nor the last hand-holding in the highlands in late autumn, but the three years of their high school, when their eyes were unclear but colorful. After they held hands, this long and profound background became more and more dazzling.
Love this story. The TV series is more impressive, but the book is closer to the state of high school students. Everything is fine.
The reading experience of "The Best of Us" 8 Because I accidentally saw on iQiyi that this drama was based on a novel written by Chang 'an in August, I went to see the original work and spent almost an afternoon with ups and downs. I just want to say that I envy the youth of those people. Although I'm only a freshman now.
I remember the last time I saw Chang 'an's works was in August, when I was a sophomore and a senior. I read hello, old times. At that time, I both liked and envied. Although his parents are divorced, in my opinion, everything about her is very, very beautiful!
Back to the best of us
There is no doubt that Ren is also one. Although her grades are not so good, she can always stay on the chain at the critical moment. So she can be the lucky one who was admitted to Zhenhua because of SARS in No.13 Middle School. She can excel and be admitted to a school in Beijing; Although her parents are divorced, she is still the treasure in their hands, and basically she will get what she wants.
In fact, I think I am in a southern city. Compared with the children in the northern city in the book, they really make me envy. I don't know why, but I feel that the existence of their group shows that children in the north study harder than children in the south, and their parents pay more attention to it.
Resentment, resentment.
They are the best partners and the best deskmates. Although Huai Yu is stupid, he is clever.
I can resolutely choose bad science because of a promise with Huai Yu; Huai Yu can have the cheek to call the teacher don't understand; Everything, everything happened so naturally, everything came so naturally.
"Then who, as we agreed, would you like to be my deskmate?"
I do. "
Huai Yu is omnipotent in her mind. She worships him from the bottom of her heart.
However, in the unconscious farce, Huai Yu's fragile side was slowly uncovered.
Maybe the national competitions they said are too far away from me. I can't understand them well.
But I seem to understand them.
Maybe this is the chain of life. They, including, and, are at the top of the food chain. I am at the end.
Their goal was Peking University Tsinghua from the beginning. And I am in the south; I failed in the senior high school entrance examination and almost got into a private high school. At most, I dare to look forward to the second A, although I am the second B in the end. ..
I also long for such a period of youth.
There is a boy who is as sunny as Huai Yu. A large group of them can't forget each other's best friends until they go to college or even after graduation.
Expect.
But remove these words.
I have an unexpected ending.
Huai Yu lost the election and chose Tsinghua to repeat. I went to a city without him to study alone.
When we meet again, she will be the best one, but the best one has long been lost in their youth.
Huai Yu didn't go to Tsinghua. He cut off contact with everyone, and he completely hid himself. Mother uremia, father transferred, too suddenly. He gave in to the helplessness of life. He is also ashamed of the helplessness of life.
The ending of the story is suspense again.
"I am in the late autumn highlands."
Their youth ended with this short message and began with this short message.
But, really, this unchanging truth is really quite different from the original. Really!
The reading experience of "The Best of Us" 9 This is a very real novel, and it is easy for people to be immersive and empathetic. Most people who have experienced the college entrance examination remember the hard work and struggle in high school, the inculcation of the head teacher, and the mutual encouragement of classmates, especially deskmates. The road to the college entrance examination is very long and short. It's only a moment to think about it now. The willfulness and persistence in choosing arts and sciences are touching. I will always remember what she said: In the future, he may not be able to repay my willfulness ... What about willfulness? I also said: these hands can't do math problems, but they can take pictures like running water. Time has never divided me into two parts, so why should I find out the source of love? . . I have always worshipped Huai Yu, whether he is omnipotent or not.
He used to be the best, and now he is the best. Now they are the best, without the bitterness and lingering after their youth.
I have read the book "The Best of Us" for about five times before and after, and I am very touched every time, not only because the seven-year relationship has finally come to fruition, but also because of the beauty in the process. I am excited because of Huai Yu's sentence "People who dare to touch Lao Tzu". I want to use this article to commemorate our lost youth.
Reading Experience of "The Best of Us" 10 Talking about emotional problems with a friend, she said that she understood that there would be no more things that she had to do. It is appropriate to be with him, just because he happens to like her. If it's another person, it's not bad I nodded yes.
I realized a long time ago that we have lost the right or ability to love in an instant. The reason why we love each other is no longer the handsome font of teenagers, the clean and fragrant school uniform coat, the proud score on the report card, the outstretched hand when embarrassed, or even the beautiful face.
Before watching The Best of Us, when I knew nothing about the plot, I had foreseen that I would cry. Obviously, I haven't read youth novels for three or five years, but just thinking about that childhood makes me feel very sour.
I feel the same as bitterness. I am close to the other seat. Even he was a schoolmaster, although I wasn't that bad then. I also observed him, speculated on his feelings and thoughts, and even made up his character with my own brain. I will try to share a headset with him, even if there is less than one song in the end, I won't have the opportunity to contact him after class and remember his actions after school. When the group is on duty, I will be happy only when I am with him. I will poke him with a pen tip, quarrel, have a cold war and pass notes. I will think carefully about whether there is any implication in what he said today. People tell me that when I think someone likes you, they will talk nonsense on the surface and then be elated ... There are too many such things, and such things will probably only appear in that period when you only need to consider love besides studying. However, it is such an era of luxury that everyone is worried about you, and parents and teachers are asking you to put all your energy into your study. Therefore, the best lover's period can only be wasted or ended in tragedy.
More importantly, many times, he doesn't look like Huai Yu, at least he doesn't. He won't take me home, he doesn't need a mobile phone, he won't tell me the truth, he won't promise to sit at my front desk all the time, he is a common way for top students to treat ordinary students, he will hide his ambition, he will complain that he didn't review and won the first place in the class ... He is not Huai Yu, but I'm not sad at all, I'm not as brave and frank as she is, and my psychology has been dark and tortuous, but I'm still sad for a long time.
But fortunately, I didn't hang him for many years, and I didn't even try to get him into a good high school. So I didn't have a chance to divide the arts and sciences. This is a great choice for high school students, which shows his determination to choose the same subject as him. Yes, at that time, what we could give was so small and ridiculous. It is not a traceable dedication like brand-name perfume, bags and ties. That's to promote your empty future, even if the other person doesn't care about your future at all, even if such a choice is actually insignificant in the whole life, but in your opinion, that's all you can pay, and that's the first time you are willing to make great sacrifices to satisfy your love. In the future, you won't make such a stupid decision. When you simply give up Han Xu and leave Beijing, they are doomed not to make such a similar decision in their later life. After reading this book today, I suddenly regret that I don't have such an opportunity to sacrifice myself. Even when I was in junior high school, his choice was consistent and clear, and we all wanted to study liberal arts.
Of course, there are still some big differences. For example, I am not so serious that I don't love him, and he doesn't care about me. Those tangled thoughts gradually faded away in the three years of high school. The times changed into dragging my hand with others, worrying about daily necessities, going home for a holiday and eating alone to die, and worrying about the fluctuating numbers in weighing scale. Weibo paid attention to a bunch of food and fashion bloggers, completely abandoning me in depth and future. Looking up at the window between reading novels, I felt that I was back in the middle school summer vacation, and even wanted to touch those exercises again, trying to change the trajectory of my life. But later I realized how shameful it was for a 20-year-old man to miss the past too much and recall his youth without planning his life.
He is as good as when he was in junior high school. He is learning small languages and will go abroad for communication soon. In my opinion, the future is bright and a broad road.
No one will look for people like that in novels, and there are no people who meet in reality. Contact information can only be re-added through my deliberate efforts. My only emotional expression is probably that I was sick on my birthday night and almost unconscious. I saw him send me a simple word "happy" and replied with a thank you. In fact, I really want to tell him that I am sick and lying in the hospital. But it's not necessary, after all, I haven't said it before.
In the novel, Ren Ren and Huai Yu once studied English together by chance, and I also studied English with him, only before we were assigned to the same class. At that time, the teacher read English names and asked us to choose one. When it was my turn, the teacher shook his head every time he read it. I finally chose a name that made him shake his head. Later, I thought that if you choose a name you like, then you might like me.
It's all over, no one will stay where they are, and we will always have a new life. It's actually quite good. I'm fine. I hope you're okay. It's true.
Probably because it wasn't a novel, I couldn't be as sure that we were the best at that time as I feared. After all, the word "we" has never really been established. I only know that it is the best of me. It was probably the most brilliant and tender period in my life, and all the good times should be cherished, because they are gone forever.