After reading a famous book, I believe everyone must have understood a lot. It's time to go back and write a comment. So how should I write my thoughts after reading? The following are 800 words (generally 1 1) that love reading for everyone, for reference only. Let's have a look.
Love Review 1 Anyone who has read How Steel was Tempered knows that Paul Hutchinson has heard The Call of Love twice. For these two calls, he and she-that is, "the caller and the person being called". We all promised each other. If tonia's first call to each other was a "historical misunderstanding" in childhood, then the ending of his joys and sorrows with Rita was somewhat accidental. But when these two people who once really loved each other and could not forget this love met again, did they listen to the call of love or to the call of revolution and morality? As we all know, Paul raised this question, but Rita can only answer regretfully: "I have a little girl now." She has a father, which is my good friend, and the three of us live in harmony. At present, this has become an inseparable trinity. "Paul was sad to hear this answer, of course, but he still said to her sincerely and quietly," I still get much more than I just lost. "We can see that even at this moment, whether for Paul or Rita, their love for each other is still unforgettable. In a letter to Paul's "Nie Hou", Rita made it clear that at the time of reunion, she had a temporary emotional impulse to "repay" their "debt of youth" but finally "recovered" this "desire". In Rita's works, yes. Because I don't think that will make us very happy.
Yes, we have all been deeply disappointed and sorry for the miss of this pair of ideal lovers at the fork in life, but I believe that no revolutionary will "regret" Paul's "waste of youth" and no revolutionary will blame Rita for her willingness to recover and repay debts. Or called. Restrain impulse. Noble character. Of course, no real revolutionary will think that Paul and Rita can't continue to love each other, "this is an irreparable defect in human emotional life", or criticize the first person "I" in Love, You Can't Forget, which was put on them and their hearts by the Soviet social club at that time, and swear never to pursue the "tragedy" of her predecessors again, warning people that marriage and love seem to be separated.
Recently, a dramatist also predicted that our view of marriage would change.
Some comrades wrote indignantly in the article: "People can't live without love!"
Comment on Love 2 Marquez's way of showing the world is beautiful, which needs no discussion. But I once refused to have sex with him in his world.
The most amazing thing about this book is the constant switching of perspectives. The life we live together can be such different experiences in your eyes and mine. What we think is right or wrong may be right or wrong in the eyes of the other party.
I study hard and have never been so angry with a book.
The following is what I wrote two months ago:
I think it's just a frivolous feeling. You can rely on a vague image for a lifetime. It doesn't matter who Fermina is, the temper and hobbies of this specific person are not important, as long as it is any good image. To be honest: please remember that no one likes an image of depression, inferiority and no self-pursuit. The love read by such a person is like a flower that has been rained heavily and lost in the mud. A man who gives birth to negative emotions without experiencing love and only improves his sexual skills is very pitiful. Everyone else is happy. What kind of happiness is it? Hehe, you'll never understand. Keep planting it in the mud.
If a "noble" person wants to fall in love with his soul, he just goes to the soul and finally goes to bed.
As for Fermina, a mentally unsound girl who grew up under her father's commodity price education, she is an excellent commodity for a good buyer. Unfortunately, she has never learned how to love all emotions, because she has never seen what love looks like.
The following is what I wrote when I saw Fermina preparing to erase the first love in her life:
Now I begin to understand how many times I have been awake in my youth. It may not be "scum", but the reality devours the illusory image outlined by fantasy day after day. That's not a lover, that's just an imaginary shadow. Until one day, a person with gentle luster came with a smile, and love officially came and settled, replacing the dreamland and nightmare caused by its previous hiding.
Later, I threw this semi-finished book from April to June. Two days ago, I found myself wishing Fermin and florentino could be together. I hope Fermin will be happy and find himself again. Until I read Fermina's words, "A century ago, people ruined my life and that of this poor man because we were too young; Now, they want to do the same thing to us because we are too old. " I just found out how biased I am towards love.
I am also a reader who was cheated to the end by Marquez. During the period, I scolded and despised. Finally, I just want to say: Marquez is great!
Love reflection: At first glance, it was thought to be a mystery novel, but later it was found to be a love story with Ariza and Fermin as the main line spanning half a century. Young Ariza happened to see his daughter Fermin while sending a telegram to Lorenzo Dassault. From then on, he fell in love and kept writing love letters, gradually turning Fermine's initial curiosity into the bud of love. Fermine sent him a stuffed leaf from the dictionary. Ariza learned to play the violin, learned to distinguish the wind direction, and let the wind send his music to Fermine's window.
But this secret love was finally broken. Fermin pretended to take notes in class, but he was actually writing a love letter, which was discovered by the teacher and expelled from school. Her father has high expectations for his daughter. He doesn't like a poor boy like Ariza and is afraid that his daughter will fall into this love like a mirage. So I took my daughter on a trip to make her forget this relationship. Nevertheless, Fermin tried every means to exchange messages with Ariza by telegraph, and they regarded each other as their last hope of survival.
"Today, I saw you, and I woke up from a rude awakening. What happened between us is just an illusion. " This is Fermin's last letter to Ariza. Ariza fell in love and ended this 5 1 year relationship.
Dr. urbino was conquered by the unique charm of Fermin, and this man who studied in Paris, with profound knowledge and well-off family, was also the best choice for Fermin's father and son-in-law. They got married naturally, and both of them knew it wasn't because of love. Dr urbino likes the stubbornness and pride in her eyes to satisfy her vanity. Fermin was just flustered by the evil shadow of rejecting Ariza, and happened to meet this person who could relieve her conscience. But they all believe that there will be love between them, because their love is a stable, comfortable and interdependent life.
God seems to have heard Ariza's wish and let Dr. urbino die in a funny way. On that day, Ariza appeared in front of Fermin, and the love that ended 5 1 year seemed to surface again. But after all, they are old, no one will admit their love, and they still think it is ridiculous and despicable to fall in love at this age.
Will my newly ignited love end because I am old? This answer can't be revealed. Ariza and Fermin hid on this cruise ship in the name of travel-the harbor of their love, and let the captain raise the flag of cholera, unwilling to go ashore, unwilling to end this dream under the circle.
Marriage is the daily necessities of two people. It is a state in which two free and loving hearts appreciate, cherish and cement each other. A perfect marriage has love together. An imperfect marriage lacks love. Marriage is a shackle that firmly binds the interests of two people. In practice, it is usually due to economic conditions, geographical restrictions, or interference factors from family members; Let two people who really love each other fail to enter the marriage hall as they wish, thus leaving regrets.
When you get married and have children in the future, your marriage will be in doubt, and the people who originally loved each other will have no love and come to an end. It's just that you recently met someone you love. Are you going to abandon your old love? This problem should be considered comprehensively.
You should consider the impact on your children, your own financial ability, and negotiate with your family. If you are self-righteous for yourself, I am afraid this behavior is also selfish. Even if you achieve your intention, there may not be real praise.
Because you are alone, you are already alone. All activities are closely related to this society; Unnecessary resistance will only make you scarred, and your so-called love will not be beautiful. The reason why this happens is because it is a kind of love in a narrow sense, and there is also love with the intention of getting married. If you can't get rid of it, you just need to get used to it.
Maybe you will say, I can't control my lust. Without love, I will go crazy and have a nervous breakdown. Then I want to ask, if you love each other, or love with marriage as the intention; How ridiculous this will be! Because you will meet many people you admire in your life. I can only tell you that people are different from animals because people have high self-control. Self-control is the unique wisdom of human beings and the talent of getting used to social livelihood. Without self-control, morality and responsibility are useless; Society will return to the early stage of ignorance!
It will be a beautiful day if we just properly handle the doubts during the day and keep a long-term balance. It is not a case to get married first and then talk about it; Isn't it beautiful? The answer is no, so is this beautiful existence accidental? Not exactly. It is the result of two unrelated people coming together, discovering each other's strengths and accommodating each other's weaknesses.
Even people who are comfortable in love don't know each other's defects because they are not on the same day; What you see is the bright side. When you get married, all the defects will be exposed. If you don't have an accommodating heart, your so-called love and fate will have nowhere to go!
Thinking about love Article 5 requires both vigorous love and faithful marriage.
"Love" and "marriage" are topics that everyone can't avoid, but many times, love and marriage seem to be separated. In Love in Cholera, the doctor's marriage is perfect, but Ariza's love pain is vigorous.
I don't know if you are like me. I always feel that it would be great if Ariza and the doctor were the same person, divided into men's love period and marriage period, and fell in love with each other vigorously, and then they could be together for life after being dull.
But there seems to be too few such things in this world.
The doctor is indeed a perfect life partner-with status, responsibility, affection, dignity and grace, and is the person that thousands of women want to marry. Therefore, Fermina also chose to marry him and live a happy life. Even if the doctor in his later years had an affair, even the enviable couple had a cold war.
Ariza is extreme. The frustration of love made him psychopathic and made a series of abnormal behaviors, which was disgusting and even disgusting. But he is actually a man worthy of sympathy. Because he loves too much, his injury is heavier and more unforgettable. He needs a place to vent his emotions. He tried to pull away from the failed love, but finally found that he could only sink deeper and deeper, so he simply sank.
After the death of the doctor, Ariza has always loved Fermina, who is in her twilight years. They chose to travel far away. "Since they are all for love, there is nothing unreasonable and illegal." .
So, "in an instant, both of them clearly realized that these two veterans were not what they imagined before they touched each other. But after a while, they became what they imagined "; "He wanted to kiss her on the cheek. She dodged and refused him in a hoarse and gentle voice. "
"It's no use," she told him. I smell like an old woman; This is the taste of people after fermentation.
When the ship returned home, "she clearly realized that this was not the effect of anise wine, but the fear of going home."
So he ordered the ship to return again, and it was "for life" because "life, not death, is endless."
At the end of the story, it stopped like this, without writing whether they were married or not. Their love seems to drift on the sea and never go ashore.
Love is the most extravagant thing in the world, and not everyone can get it. The weak will never enter the country of love.
Love should be the beginning of marriage, but many times marriage has become the beginning of love. Life should be true love without regrets, and love and marriage should be owned at the same time.
I always feel that love is rare. Since ancient times, Liang Zhu has been passed down through the ages because of its rarity and preciousness.
As for how to explain the rarity of love, the reason is Qian Qian, especially in today's materialistic and fast-paced society, but these are external reasons. Anyone who has the courage to fight for it deserves to advocate love, but most people regard other things much more important than love. On the other hand, they have no sincere feelings at all, but they don't know that they don't deserve it.
From the heart, from the individual, once people have the ability to think, they will find that their world is full of established good and evil, right and wrong, and right and wrong values. Whether you agree or not, you are forced to be trapped, and you are also afraid of being examined, judged, praised or criticized. You will feel ashamed or complacent because you are different from others, and then start to close yourself, go into isolation and prevention, and go into loneliness.
And love is a paradise to save loneliness. It is always said that knowing each other and loving each other, in my opinion, is a process of mutual understanding and eliminating loneliness.
I'll think about the difference between this and friendship and affection. First of all, good feelings are innate. Parents rarely know each other, whether it is their feelings for their children or their feelings for their parents. Otherwise, there is always a saying in psychology that "being born in a family killed them". Secondly, friends always become friends after they know each other. What you can do with your lover can always be done with your friends, oh no, except sex.
Sex never gives up covering your body, eliminating distance and secrets, breaking down barriers and defenses, and officially eliminating physical loneliness. Sex is the language of love, different from friendship.
Love contains sex, more than sex.
Although sexual attraction comes from instinct rather than love, for example, people always have sexual attraction when they see a beautiful body, and sexual attraction can be one-to-many Otherwise, why does everyone like handsome men and beautiful women and always stare at them when they see them on the road?
Compared with life and death, sexual specificity is a simple and powerful proof of love. A person who says he loves you can be honest with another person when ta doesn't love him. How deep is this love? What's the difference between loving you?
Besides, love is different from friendship, it is unique.
You can have many friends, but there is only one person you love at the moment. The person who can love many people at the same time is Neptune. Without true feelings, it is difficult to harvest true feelings. This is not because of causality, but because of the law of attraction. In fact, for friends, there are also closeness and alienation. If one person can love two people at the same time, can ta pay equal love without cheating? If so, will there be a third or fourth person that ta can love? Absolute freedom will ruin the charm of freedom, and love is precious because it is precious.
After reading Love, when you read the whole story, you won't feel that it's just an ordinary sentence falling from the sky: "Hold infinity in the palm of your hand and eternity in an instant!" There are mathematical reasons, time reasons, and even life and universe reasons! Here, it is also made with emotion!
Love this story! See the last only moved! For the patient doctor, for the kind housekeeper, for the square root, and for the "eldest sister-in-law". I know that the author pays special attention to the inner subtlety of marginal people or "weirdos" and their relationship with the public. After understanding the theme of this story, "weirdos" are also a group with various situations, including deaf-mutes, autistic patients, mental patients and so on. Of course, there are groups I don't know. There are still many aspects that we don't know. For those who don't know, the right to speak is definitely limited, so don't wear colored glasses, don't follow others, and don't guess out of thin air. What is normal? Maybe the so-called "normal people" have abnormal thinking. Everything in the world has its reason, and we are more kind if we only look at it without saying anything!
There are often "golden sentences" in doctors' offices. "The truly correct proof is the inseparable and complete firmness and femininity, and the harmonious unity of the two." The author is close to the doctor's life from the perspective of a bystander, so we can't understand the doctor's psychology from the first perspective. However, from the eyes of this mother and son, we can see the daily life of doctors, the way they get along with each other, and the stories they produce, which also makes us see warmth. For a person with only 80 minutes of memory, how long and how strong does it take to accept and adapt? It's good for doctors to have memories. If there is no point, what support will there be! ?
There is love, friendship, love for children, and lost love, but it will not die with the passage of time! It is strange that doctors have changed a lot in getting along and attach great importance to them. This is obvious and comforting. Perhaps this is just the warmth created by the author, and it is normal to repeat it at the beginning. When I arrived at the sanatorium, I seemed to see an old man with an "ID card" shining in the sunset. The so-called "eldest sister-in-law", the feelings contained in her heart, is also the endless bitterness of outsiders.
This theme deserves people's attention. The author can integrate this theme into the story and show it to more readers. Personally, I think it is still necessary! Let everyone have a peaceful attitude and acceptance of special people. Although I can't feel the same, I am still full of wishes. I hope people can live a safe life.
Reflection on Love 8 The book Looking for Love Sand at hand is very beautiful and affectionate, which makes me fondle it.
On the blue coast of life, the waves beat on the shore, surging and stirring, and the sound of water gurgling. You will eventually reap your love sand, which is an indispensable and powerful support for building a happy castle. This book reminds us with gentle strokes how to protect the love sand that inadvertently flows through our fingers and collect those seemingly ordinary but precious love moments.
The author writes the love game between mature men and mature women from the simple and ignorant campus romance; From simple and elegant love to faithful waiting in the ice and snow; From an ordinary couple in Life is Sweet to a happy journey of modern new women; From mango-like urban love to intimate lover who warms people's hearts; From the analysis of popular love dramas to the profound feelings gained from many love programs, the author's delicate and poetic feelings, profound and unique opinions and simple and quiet narration give readers a warm and incomparable enjoyment.
In the bustling world of mortals and bustling cities, our hearts carry too many things. This book covers almost all aspects of social emotional problems and almost every way of love in the world. So this book, its greatest function, should be to treat heart injury. After reading this book, you will think of your life and love and feel the same.
Through the pages of words, you can re-examine yourself and see what you really look like in love. This makes you have to constantly think and reflect on those fleeting memories or updated timelines. You will understand that the true meaning of love is accommodation, which is the price you must pay in love. Patience, forgiveness, concession and fulfillment are all due to love itself. One day, you will become the person you want to be, and then, you will go forward with your friends and stay with your lover for a long time, unhurried and comfortable. I believe this is the inner strength that the author wants to give you through pen and ink, and this is the real collection value of this book. In this sense, the value of this book far exceeds the value of gold and diamonds. It points out the right direction for wandering souls, and it soothes countless injured souls to believe in love again. Let me deeply understand that life with love is not necessarily a paradise, and life without love must be a dull life.
I like the article "The Appearance of Love" in the book best, and I like the sentence that Bing Xin said to Tie Ning best: "Don't look for love, you have to wait." This sentence is really beautiful, reaching to the bottom of my heart and letting me feel relieved. It turns out that love doesn't need to look everywhere, you just need to wait silently. One day, your prince charming will appear quietly in front of you. Warm love will haunt you forever.
It is said that goldfish have a short memory, only seven seconds. After seven seconds, everything will be overturned and started again. However, there is a person whose memory structure is goldfish, and his memory can only last for 80 minutes. After this stage, he forgot the people he knew before and what happened before. Every minute is not bad. He is the doctor of mathematics in the novel The Doctor's Love Formula.
The author of "The Doctor's Love Formula" is a Japanese woman writer Ogawa Yoko, who wrote "Pregnancy in 199 1! He has won the Akutagawa Prize in Japan, and his works are exquisite in writing, focusing on describing simple daily life and paying attention to marginalized people. The doctor in The Doctor's Love Formula is such a "marginal freak". He used to be high flyers of the university. He was thoughtful and had a high IQ, but a car accident caused a fatal reversal in his life. From then on, his memory was only 80 minutes. In order to remind himself to do things, he stuffed his suit with notes. For many years, doctors have been far away from people and society, living only in their own small rooms by answering questions in math magazines. And all this, because the new nanny and her ten-year-old son "Square Root" have changed, they fix the radio for the doctor, celebrate Square Root's birthday, take the doctor out for a haircut, watch baseball and go to the dentist ... they have changed the doctor's daily life. Similarly, doctors are quietly changing the life state of nanny and son "Square Root".
Ph.D. in Mathematics is obsessed with numbers. Every time he deals with strangers, he always asks others questions related to numbers, such as shoe size and telephone number. Any number can arouse the association of doctors. After reading the doctor's love formula, even readers who have a headache about mathematics may have new changes in the subject of mathematics. Those seemingly boring mathematical languages, such as prime numbers, natural numbers, perfect numbers and formulas, all exude unique charm in the eyes of doctors and are partners who give vitality. Euler's formula is repeatedly mentioned in the novel, but seemingly different mathematical symbols have unusual connections, just like the relationship between doctors, nannies and "square roots". Although they belong to different worlds, they influence each other, support each other and grow in each other's company. Ogawa Yoko built a bridge between mathematics and life, skillfully combining abstraction with image, and the relationship between people, like Euler's formula, combined together to form a stable and eternal beauty.
The novel "The Doctor's Love Formula" won the Japanese Yomiuri Literature Award and the House Award, and was made into a movie, which has a very high popularity in Japan. The Irish Times commented on the doctor's love formula: "Before Ogawa Yoko, no one had ever shown us such a lovely mathematical world." In fact, Ogawa Yoko shows not only the mathematical world, but also the goodness and innocence of human nature.
After reading love, 10 once read this sentence in a book-because love has never studied geography, it doesn't know there are boundaries. If you want to read Jia's book "Because of the jet lag of love", you can say that love has never studied geography, and you don't know that there is jet lag.
There are many forms of love, such as passionate love, bosom friends who appreciate each other, the support of harps and songs, and breaking up when turning around. Perhaps many people have to go through a round in these different States before they know that it is not easy to maintain love.
In the story "Jet Lag Because of Love", all these love states exist. My friends and I had a period of love and killing each other. A fabricated lie about clay figurines or toys got me all kinds of snacks or toys that Nu Wa exchanged for pocket money. I don't know that the most sincere feelings of young playmates are the promises after "I will protect you". The details are very touching. For example, at the beginning of the chapter "I will be your Nuwa in the future", when my teacher and I discussed "Is there a Nuwa" in class, I asked my grandmother "Does anyone have the magical power to make things?" These details show that in the story of reading the little vest, he really has the inspiration and experience to integrate into life, and these meticulous bits and pieces are the most wonderful part of the story.
Among Jia's stories, I like Lao Xia, which is about picking up girls, and Grandpa, which is about affectionate words. I only serve him in love. When reading this story, I have a very vivid feeling. It seems that many grandfathers in life depend on their grandmothers very much, hoping to get care and attention. I found my grandmother in grandpa's market, and she scolded me for "not paying attention to my health", but she could say a warm word-"I know you want others to know that your wife will pick you up". I hope this sweet old love is true. The true meaning of a wife is to work hard together when you are young and accompany each other when you are old. This is probably a beautiful interpretation.
There is a classic saying that describes love like this. Meeting the right person at the wrong time is a kind of fate. It is a pity to meet the right person at the right time; It is a kind of luck to meet the right person at the right time. You see, on the topic of love, everyone always has so many classic wisdom to sum up. This distinction between right and wrong can be understood as a kind of "time difference".
We may not get any methodology about love in the story, or we may not get any confidence about love in the story, but when we read the story, we should integrate into other people's stories, and maybe one day you will feel deja vu!
Thinking about love Read the article 1 1 "Quiet girl, as long as I am in the corner of the city. Love but not see, scratch your head. " The love between Darcy and Elizabeth in the novel Pride and Prejudice is best described by the sentences in The Book of Songs.
In this book, Austin describes four kinds of love, the love between Bentley and Jane as a princess, the agreement between Collins and Lucas, and the desire for money and pleasure between Wickham and Lydia. Austin described the love between Darcy and Elizabeth with great colors.
The author cut open a section of British society, and drew a well-known social amorous feelings painting by taking the emotional entanglements of two young men and women of different classes as clues.
At that time, British social life was quiet and conservative, with a strong sense of social class, and all classes did not interact with each other. Darcy and Elizabeth only live in different social classes. So they went through a difficult process from acquaintance to love. There are barriers between them, such as opposition from relatives and friends, differences in family status and obstacles from public opinion.
Elizabeth's family belongs to the middle class. When my father was young, he married a simple-minded mother because of his lust for beauty. After marriage, the interests and ambitions of husband and wife are completely different, and their feelings gradually crack. Father often hides alone in the study. Although he had the kindness to raise five sisters, he failed to fulfill his obligation to educate his children because of cynicism, which eventually led to his daughter Lydia's debauchery and rude remarks at a young age, and his wife and some daughters made a fool of themselves in high society, and even became the marriage of the eldest daughter and the second daughter.
Elizabeth, tempered by the environment, is smart and witty, showing a bit of cunning. In her subconscious, she has a strong self-esteem and an instinctive resistance to arrogant nobles.
When Darcy made his debut, he hurt Liz (Elizabeth) with an arrogant and cold look. In addition, he is very disgusted with the vulgar behavior of Liz's mother and sister, which leads to prejudice against Liz. However, when he really discovered the universal quality of Liz, he resolutely abandoned the concept of family, broke through the shackles of menstruation's girlfriend, and fell in love with Liz without hesitation.
The love between Darcy and Liz has a happy ending, but the process is that two young hearts meet countless times, accompany each other, even accompany each other, but never collide. Two hearts are looming, far away.
Austin has been living in the middle class and is familiar with the ordinary and trivial life of rural middle class families. Therefore, she describes love without great joy and great sorrow, only with delicate characterization and psychological description. This is the cleverness of the writer Jane Austen, and it is also her cleverness.
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