How to always envy others?

Always envy others! What should we do?

Everyone has his own good! While you envy others, others are also envious of you! Attitude is the most important thing

Why do I always envy others? How can I not envy others?

Said it was a senior official in Egypt. At the age of 34, he became the deputy mayor, with a bright future. Unfortunately, just when he was in power, a fire broke out in the city where he was in charge, so he was removed from office. He was 37 years old. After leaving his post, Saite was still surrounded by some famous people, rich people, senior officials and the chairman of big consortia ... Everyone felt sorry for Sayit, thinking that he would be in pain and would at least come to them for help. Who would have thought that Saite returned to the countryside and lived an ordinary life? He grows vegetables, fertilizes and catches insects in his own small vegetable garden, and leads a plain and tasteful life. When he has nothing to do, he walks around the village and collects some folk pottery as his hobby. In life, he never cares about other people's wealth, let alone envy their days. I go my own way and live my own simple life. Thanks to his knowledge and talent, he soon made great achievements in collection. In the past seven or eight years, he has collected dozens of world-class folk treasures. People flock to buy and sell, and every Sayit sells, it is tens of millions of dollars. Instead of enviing other people's lives, Saite not only got rid of his troubles, but also made his collection a rare top class and a world-class collector. Wang, a 22-year-old Chinese American mathematician, graduated from the University of California. After graduation, most of his classmates went to big consortia and companies. Only Wang Zhangji plunged into a private laboratory in California for ten years. For ten years, his living income was very low, and he could not afford to buy a house at the age of thirty. And his classmates are already big bosses with a monthly income of hundreds of thousands and millions of yuan. They drive luxury cars, live in big houses and bring beautiful wives. And Wang charter doesn't even have a girlfriend. Fortunately, he never envies others, but is only interested in his own career. Although his life is several grades worse than others, he seems completely ignorant. To outsiders, Wang's life is the worst in the world. Wang's articles of association ignored these, and he was unknown for ten years and worked tirelessly on his own research. At the age of 35, he solved two top math problems in the world. Since then, his achievements have hit record highs, and more than a dozen universities in the United States have hired him to teach. For many years, in the field of mathematics, he was called the king of mathematics. Black African Harlem and his son have been living a poor life. For eight years, they have been practicing long-distance running wholeheartedly. His father Harlem is his son's coach. For eight years, the father and son have never paid attention to how others are doing, and have never turned a blind eye to the gap between them. It is for this reason that they live a happy life every day. Life is naturally happy if you don't compare with others. Eight years later, little Harry's long-distance running speed has been greatly improved. He won the African long-distance running championship, and then the world champion. Father and son attributed all this to indifference to the outside world. In his speech summarizing his life, Harry Potter said that in recent years, my father and I have never paid attention to how superior other people's lives are, and we will not envy others. Because of this, we can do our own thing well and not fall into unfortunate troubles because of the gap with others' lives. Powell likes photography very much since he was a child. After graduating from college, he became addicted to photography and didn't want to make money or work. Since then, Powell has lived a simple life, never caring whether his life is rich or poor, as long as he can take pictures. He was dressed in rags and eating the simplest hamburger. In the eyes of others, he is a symbol of hardship and poverty. But Powell himself was very happy. At the age of twenty-seven, his portrait photography technology began to reach its peak, and he became a world-recognized portrait photographer, shooting portraits of the British Prime Minister without interruption. So far, he has taken photos of more than 0/00 presidents and prime ministers all over the world. There are countless world celebrities taking photos with him, and it is common to wait in line for a year or two. Bauer is really the top photographer in the world. Because he never envied other people's lives, he lived in his own world, did his own thing, and made such achievements without external interference. What often bothers us in life and makes us feel uneasy is often not ourselves, but the lives of others and their models. Always envy other people's lives, it will cause confusion and confusion for yourself, and even make yourself fidgety. The price of admiring others is often losing yourself. If you don't envy others, your life will become calm. If you don't envy others, you will find yourself ... >>

Always easy to envy others ... what should I do?

How about military marriage? Do you understand that military marriage is much more serious than your man's height? Can a soldier stay with his wife all the time? Many soldiers talk straight and don't know how to be tactful. Can you stand it? Then why do you envy her? You don't know. That's because you are not satisfied, you have your man's heart, and you still think about other people's skin. Then I have reason to believe that even if I am tired of watching it for a long time, even if I give you this soldier elder brother from Shuai Shuai, you will still have a crush on other official elder brothers and rich elder brothers. Listen to me, tell others how good your man is to you, and gradually you will feel how immature and dissatisfied you are now. Also, is 1.72 short? The charm of a man lies not in his height. Take ten thousand steps back. Even if a man is not attractive, it is good for you, isn't it enough? And don't worry about others hooking up with your man. Please forgive my words and think about it.

I always envy others. What should I do?

Social facts have proved that:

Those who can get ahead in the future, achieve their careers and have a bright future are all people who don't like to compete with others for food and clothing since childhood. This kind of people concentrate all their energy on how to get their grades up, thinking that if their grades are among the best in the class, the whole class will certainly admire themselves.

Therefore, as long as we straighten our mentality, we will change our current mentality.

Why do you always envy what others have?

People's greed is the embodiment of the nature of comparing with others. Seeing others driving a good car and living in a good house, and then looking at their own, people's bad habits will undoubtedly be exposed. Originally, this is not a good thing, but more and more people recognize it, which will form a vicious circle. Everyone will follow suit and feel that others are competing, so it seems a bit out of touch if they don't compare themselves. Therefore, it is very important to keep a clear head when people are alive.