I gradually lost contact with my high school classmates.
In fact, almost everyone in our class is my QQ friend. When I was a freshman, I kept in touch with most of my classmates. I talked about what I saw and heard in a foreign land, the customs of a foreign land, and then talked about my own university and the other university, which was also very interesting.
But after the second year of high school, I almost stopped talking. Maybe there is really nothing to talk about.
There is basically no contact after junior year, just sending messages to each other on holidays or something.
When they graduate from college, I don't even know where they have gone to work.
When I came to Harbin one and a half years after graduating from college, I found that most peacocks who went to college in Harbin flew southeast, and few stayed in Harbin for postgraduate study, and I didn't take the initiative to contact them. Because I think something is wrong, we didn't contact each other when we were not in the same city before. When you come to their city, we desperately contact. I think this social way is particularly utilitarian and deliberate. If you don't like it, don't contact anyone, find a job yourself, and gradually get familiar with this familiar and unfamiliar city.
I saw another culture.
After living in Nanning for more than five years, I feel that Guangxi people are very different from Northeast people in culture except their living habits.
In the northeast of my hometown, people like to call each other "brothers and sisters". For example, if you go to the vegetable market to buy food, the fat elder sister who sells vegetables in the vegetable market will call you "brother". When you are at work, the fresh graduates of the company will call you "Brother X", which is a typical thinking of climbing relatives. They are as eager as relatives to draw closer to each other's psychological distance through this title.
But in Nanning, people don't call it that. People like to call strangers "handsome men and beautiful women". Unless they are particularly familiar with each other, they will not call each other "Brother X". This shows that Guangxi people pay more attention to external image, and they hope to close their psychological distance with you by praising your external image.
I am so tired every time I take the train that I am afraid of it.
I was going to catch the train from Suihua or Harbin to Beijing, and then I went to Beijing West to catch T5 to Nanning. It takes more than 17 hours by train from Suihua to Beijing, and 28 hours by train from Beijing West to Nanning.
In summer, sitting on the train, you will see that the land turns black and yellow and gradually becomes a mountain. You will see bungalows change from spire to evaluation, and the number changes from small leaves to large leaves. In winter, you will feel that the train will take you all the way south, from snowy winter to colorful summer.
However, the nearly 50-hour journey is exhausting. Hard seats are really hard to sit on. It's really hard to sleep in a hard seat. You feel the crash of the train, the crowd and noise in the carriage, the pungent additive smell of instant noodles all the time, and your arms are getting more and more sour and numb.
When you get off the train, you know that you are standing on a stable ground, but you feel as if the ground is moving. Maybe this is another expression of relativity. After you are familiar with the moving carriage, you come to the static ground with inertia, but you feel the ground moving.