Nathan, the protagonist of the movie story, is a mathematical genius with Asperger's syndrome. He is always immersed in his hobbies and is out of tune with his surroundings. After his father died in an accident, his world collapsed, leaving only numbers. The mother in the movie never seems to know how to get along with her son. Her husband is here, and there is also a husband to adjust. For her, how to get along with her son makes her inner world collapse. The son won't let her touch him or communicate with him. He thinks that his mother can't even buy the best Chinese food she needs, and everything she does is wrong.
Mother will go back to the garage when she is very sad and remember what her husband did when she was there. She will silently endure tears when she feels desperate and helpless, and her life will continue.
She knew the child's talent, so she found a talented teacher for her child in advance. The talented teacher completely opened the door to mathematics in front of his son. It turned out that he could conquer the mountain called Olympics.
A person who only knows mathematics met a girl who was destined to be in Taipei during training. The love in The Seeds of Love made him discover another world. Giving up the exam halfway, the teacher supported him and his mother supported him. Love seems to have opened his emotional world. He once again accepted the feelings of his mother and people. Sometimes it only takes one minute, and the iceberg will eventually melt.
Every mother is a mother for the first time. We study and learn from our predecessors, but we are always at a loss when facing our children. Children's world has its own language. How should parents communicate? Nathan's mother, she respects her children's hobbies and ways of language communication. She will cut breakfast into four equilateral triangles every morning, and she will buy good Chinese food for her children. She will respect the children and talk to them through the door. If they don't want to call back, she will endure not to disturb their world. She may really lack her husband's humor, but she tried her best to be a good mother.
Now when I communicate with my baby, sometimes he will answer your questions and sometimes bargain with you. More than two years old, he has his own ideas. He also cries and loses his temper when he is unhappy. And I can't control my temper and get angry with my child, such as when he eats badly. I listened to the first issue of Fan Deng's book club-Don't make a hullabaloo about. At that time, it was the time when the children didn't eat well, and they were often angry with them during that time. In fact, after I get angry, children generally don't eat well, sometimes they cry and sometimes they pout to express their dissatisfaction. And I didn't have a good meal comfortably. Later, my husband and I were together, supervising each other and reminding each other when the other side was going to get angry. Many times, calm down, the effect may be better.
As parents, the time we really spend with our children is nothing more than the time before 18 years old. I hope I can give my child enough respect and love to make him an independent person. The child is growing, so am I. I may not be the best mother, but I will try my best to be a good mother and accompany him through this journey.
Late at night, turn off the computer, put out the desk lamp, kiss the sleeping baby, full of gratitude, happiness is nothing more than that.
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