Girls use their brains more and are less tempted. Don't waste too much time in love, but you can get the most efficient recognition, depth and progress. With the least effort, you can get the deepest affection and relationship. To sum up: think more and be less tempted.
Many people think that all they need to think about is book knowledge, making money and so on. In fact, everything needs to be developed, studied and absorbed, especially love, marriage and interpersonal relationships. Just like Chinese, mathematics and English, we need to learn, thinking that what is in books is knowledge. Everything in life is heredity and habit, and there is no need to pay attention to and learn at all, so the material life is getting richer and richer, but the emotional life is getting more and more wandering, so that it is too painful to talk for a while without knowing what the problem is. This has led to many people with high academic qualifications, good jobs and much money, but they can't fall in love, don't know how to communicate, and are not good at developing and dealing with the relationship between men and women.
You can get short-term love by your face and sex by your body. These don't need your brain at all, just lie flat. But if you want to get someone who really loves you and have a long-term relationship or marriage, you can't stay by fleeting external conditions and brute force. All the girls who have experienced it understand.
Make the other person feel comfortable, suitable and beautiful. It all comes from the mind. Therefore, we should use clear thinking and excellent business logic reasonably, and find the right direction with the most perceptual wisdom and the most relaxed mentality.
You know, falling in love is never a matter of getting along with time, but of personal charm and ability to deal with emotional problems. As long as you find the right way to learn love, you will see obvious results. Be sure to believe in yourself, observe more, summarize more and review more.