Students, there will be a parent-teacher meeting tomorrow. Please be sure to tell your parents that you will arrive at school at 3: 50 tomorrow. ""Ah-"The students screamed and all pulled a long face.
When I arrived at school the next day, some students looked fearless. Some hang their heads and are listless; Some people are even a little happy ... for me, who usually performs well, there is not much storm in this parent-teacher meeting, so I will recite, recite words and listen carefully as I hope. However, the weather is unpredictable, but there is a sudden "big storm" at noon-Chinese self-test. Alas! Because of lack of sleep these days, my head is a little groggy. Now that there is a Chinese quiz, I feel dizzy, as if I would fall asleep carelessly. Unexpectedly, something really went wrong, and an easy line drawing question in the text was omitted, resulting in a negative 3 points. The test paper was sent to me-95 points. God, I almost passed out again. This paper is like a bolt from the blue, splitting my heart in two. I'm like a frosted eggplant-it's faded. The afternoon class is listless.
At 3: 50, my parents entered the campus one after another ... An hour later, my father took me home. My heart looks straight like a rabbit, and my father's face is still smiling. Is this the legendary bait hides the hook? I took a deep breath, made a look of indifference and asked my father in a low voice, "Dad, what did the teacher say about me at the meeting?" Dad still smiled and said, "The teacher said that you are good in all aspects, but you can't be proud." After listening, a "big stone" in my heart finally landed.
Hey! Parent-teacher conferences can really torture people!
After school on Friday, all classes in the school will have a parent-teacher meeting.
Dad came back from the parent-teacher conference at school and slammed the door as soon as he entered the door, which scared me to move. Dad sat on the sofa, sulking alone, and kept smoking, making the house a mess. I don't know if the teacher told my dad that I dozed off at school, or if my dad knew about the fight with my classmates. ...
The more I think about it, the more I get scared. I seem to hear the teacher read aloud at the parent-teacher conference: Li Zexi didn't have a good rest because he played games late into the night, and fell asleep in class ... I seem to see my parents looking at my dad with strange eyes. I seem to hear parents whispering: "This parent is so irresponsible that even his children can't be disciplined well, really!" I seem to see my father's face blushing, with his head down, and I can't wait to find a hole and never come out again.
My mother looked at my father's angry look and asked inexplicably, "What's the matter? Did the child make a mistake again? If so, don't be angry ... "Before his mother finished, his father shouted loudly:" You always spoil the children, and the children are spoiled by you. " My mother was silenced by my father's words. I couldn't even lift my head after listening to their conversation.
Suddenly, a loud voice shouted, "Li Zexi! Come to my side! " I stood up timidly, walked over gingerly, glanced at my father again, and became even more afraid, even my legs began to tremble. I thought: will dad hit me? God bless! Only heard dad seriously asked:
"Why do you behave so badly in school!" "I ... I ... hmm." I hesitate to say. Dad saw that I didn't talk back, and his anger gradually subsided. I patted my shoulder with my hand and said earnestly, "Be obedient, son, come on!" " "Then, my father asked me to go back to my room to reflect. Ha! My prayers worked, and I was happy silently.
Dad didn't hit me. I want to win honor for my parents and study hard.
After school on Wednesday, we held a parent-teacher meeting in grade six.
After class that day, when the teacher said that there would be a parent-teacher meeting in the evening, my head was buzzing and my heart felt like I had knocked over fifteen buckets of water-so anxious: Will Dad "complain" to the teacher? Will the teacher reveal my "old school" to my father? Oh, I'm so worried!
In the afternoon class, the teacher spoke with relish and enthusiasm on the stage, and I didn't listen to a word. I thought to myself, "Bless the Bodhisattva and God bless! God bless, Buddha bless! "
Finally, three classes are over, and the "terrible" parent-teacher conference is finally about to begin!
Because the parent-teacher meeting has to vacate the classroom, those of us who are waiting to go home with our parents are arranged to do our homework in another empty classroom. Although I sat there writing as usual, I actually had "Cao Cao in my heart and Han in my heart". One moment I wrote the wrong words, the other moment I wrote the wrong formula, the other moment I looked for an eraser, and the other moment I looked for a correction tape. It was a mess. Every two or three minutes, I can't help glancing at the clock on the wall: How is the parent-teacher conference going? Did the teacher attend the parent-teacher conference ... This thought made my heart more restless and restless.
A long hour finally passed. Many parents come to the classroom to pick up their children. I quickly packed my schoolbag and ran out, and suddenly I saw my father. "Dad, what did the teacher say to you? Did you criticize me? You didn't complain to her, did you? " Dad was embarrassed by my repeated questions, pretending to be depressed and shaking his head: "Alas, alas!" " "Seeing his expression, I stamped my feet." What's the matter? "
Dad was really anxious and happy to see me. He took out a small piece of paper from his pocket and handed it to me: "This is the result of your mid-term exam. The teacher said that you have made great progress and praised you at the parent-teacher meeting! "
I couldn't wait to take a look at the note, which really wrote my name and the results of the three subjects of mathematics, Chinese and English in the mid-term exam; Looking at dad's uncontrollable smile again, the big stone in my heart finally fell to the ground. Oh, what a false alarm!
Establishing an equal and harmonious parent-child relationship is a necessary condition for the success of family education. Parents should put down their parents' shelves and become one with their children; Respect children's personality and guide them to make friends correctly; When in trouble, learn to deal with the problem better; Creating a warm and harmonious family atmosphere is conducive to the healthy growth of children.
Therefore, as soon as my daughter was born, I became not only her first teacher, but also her first friend. Growing up, my daughter and I talked about almost everything. When I first went to school, I picked her up every day. Along the way, we girls talked and laughed, which often attracted the attention of passers-by. The daughter chatted happily about all kinds of interesting things that happened in the class; Sometimes I see some strange flowers and trees on the road. My daughter wants to have a look and find out, so I will stay with her until I know why. Sometimes, I accompany my daughter to walk and recite, or help her to consolidate the preview text, or Tang poetry and Song poetry, famous prose, and train her memory in happiness. My daughter has also become the fastest and best student in the class, which virtually saves a lot of study time and achieves twice the result with half the effort.
In the third year of high school, children began to have so-called secrets and learned to buy a diary with a lock like classmates. They also solemnly said to me: "Mom, don't peek!" I am happy: "Who will go to see your little trick? Your mother had it when she was a child, and your little secret may be her childhood secret. " My daughter plunged into my arms and rubbed "Mom, Mom". I smiled happily: my daughter has grown up! I always thought it was the stupidest thing to peek at a child's diary. Allowing children to keep their little secrets is the minimum respect for their personality. In fact, as long as parents and children become friends, what secrets do children have in front of you!
If I am too busy to attend to my daughter, my daughter will often ask me, "Mom, can we talk?" At this time, I tried to put down what I was doing and didn't ask her if she had finished her homework. The two girls are either leaning on the sofa or lying in bed, chatting everywhere. Talking and dancing together, laughing and giggling; When you are upset, sigh together, make faces together and laugh at yourself together. To tell the truth, every time I finish, my daughter looks relaxed, and my body and mind feel relaxed, as if I were back to my childhood.
In fact, my daughter and I also had an unforgettable experience: when my daughter was in the fourth and fifth grades, my old father was terminally ill. As an only child, I try my best to comfort my old and sick father who has worked hard all my life every day. You should do your job well and take care of your family. In the evening, I felt exhausted and didn't want to say a word. But the youngest daughter doesn't understand this, and she still hopes that her mother will take her as before. At this time, I am in a hurry and seldom treat her well. Especially when I saw her grades slipping again and again, I was furious and even used corporal punishment. However, my daughter's grades are still not improving, and talking to me has begun to be "hostile". After my father died, when I was able to spend more time with my daughter, I found that although my daughter was much more sensible, there was a big gap between us. I have been depressed and deeply reflect on myself. After some minor friction, I took the initiative to apologize to my daughter and told her my pain to gain her understanding and slowly ease the tense relationship between us. It was a hard journey!
In a blink of an eye, my daughter went to middle school, and our relationship basically returned to its previous appearance. At this time, I was surprised to find that my daughter's progress was really jaw-dropping. In less than a year, she took an active part in various school activities and won awards again and again. The results also jumped from more than 100 at the time of admission to the top 20; Going back and forth between school and family every day, I am confident and happy. Although there will still be friction between mother and daughter, it is only an episode in our happy life and will disappear in a short time. A mother once said to me, "Don't look at what your daughter is telling you now, it's because she is still young. When she grows up, she will have nothing to say to you." I told her confidently, "No, I will always make my child feel that mom is her best friend. She is a primary school student, and I will communicate with her the language and thinking of primary school students. " In middle school, I let my heart go back to middle school, just to grow up again. "
Think about it: we are parents of our children now, but we used to be parents' children. When we grow up, I hope my parents can get along with us. I hope I can get help from my parents when I am in trouble; I hope what kind of understanding I can get from my parents when I make a mistake; I especially hope that I can hear the words of encouragement from my parents when I am in the low school, instead of swearing or even beating! Similarly, don't our children hope so? What's more, today's children are mostly only children, and there are far fewer friends of the same age than at that time, so we need big friends like us more. When he is confused, guide him out of the predicament; When he is successful and happy, share happiness together!
Next, I will tell you a little thing that happened when a child went to kindergarten.
Right after my daughter changed kindergarten. When I picked up the child, I found that my daughter was not quite right and didn't want to talk. She is sleepy. When I got home, I asked her what was wrong. The child said lazily, "Mom, I want to eat and sleep early today, can I bang?" I'm so sleepy. "
"Why not, baby?" I'll cook the meal soon. Ask her at dinner: "Baby, is there anything that makes you unhappy today?"
The daughter's little face is sad: "I miss my father." When will my father come home? "
"Dad didn't go on a business trip yesterday. He will be back in two days. "
"But I just miss my father." As he talked, tears seemed to fall.
At this moment, I thought to myself: I must have met something unhappy today. Since the child doesn't want to talk at the moment, don't force her, just follow her first. The child ate a few mouthfuls of rice quickly and went to bed and fell asleep after washing. The next morning, my daughter swept away last night's listlessness and began to talk and laugh at the dinner table again. When she was in high spirits, I casually asked, "What's the matter, you are refreshed again. Do you still miss your father? " ? Did something happen yesterday? "The daughter said with a little injustice," Mom, I didn't sleep well at noon yesterday. "
"Oh, why? You always take a nap in kindergarten. "
"At noon these days, XXX didn't sleep well, bothering me. I didn't fall asleep at all yesterday, so I didn't have the spirit. "
"Oh, that's right. Have you told the teacher? "
"No, XXX is the monitor, but he is great. He often bullies children, and I am afraid that she will find something for me. "
"Baby, don't be afraid, I have a mother. Tell you what, tell the teacher today and let the teacher open your bed. "
"The teacher don't believe me, don't give me. What should I do? " My daughter looked at me and asked confidently.
"It doesn't matter, if the teacher doesn't adjust it for you, mom will go to the teacher, okay?"
"Well, I'll try first." The daughter is not confident enough to promise.
When I arrived at the kindergarten, my daughter suddenly turned back from the door and asked, "Mom, let me ask you a question."
"Well, ask." I tied the car and went up to hold her hand.
"Mom, why do other children have something in kindergarten, and my mother went to the teacher and said that I have something to say?" At some point, grievances emerged again.
I quickly patted her: "honey, it's not that mom doesn't love you, it's because mom loves you too much." Think about it, are you going to grow up? " My daughter nodded, and I continued: "When you grow up, you will leave your mother. Then, what if I can't find my mother? " . Now that you are young, your mother will teach you how to solve the problem first. When you grow up and learn how to deal with problems, you can leave your mother and work far away like your big brother and sister next door, right? "The daughter asked again," What if the teacher ignores me? "
"How is that possible? Baby, the teacher has always liked you. In addition, my mother said that if the teacher didn't listen, my mother would go to the teacher again. You learn to solve it yourself first, okay? "
"All right, then." The daughter turned and ran into the kindergarten. I spent a day trembling, too. In the afternoon, I came to the kindergarten early and my daughter flew over like a swallow. I'll be fine as soon as I see it. Sure enough, my daughter twittered and said, "Mom, mom, today the teacher switched my bed with XXX's. I didn't tell the teacher in class. I told the teacher when he took me to the toilet. XXX doesn't know. "
"Oh, my baby, you are great. You handled it well. Mom will reward you well. Say, what do you want? "
"Great." The daughter's face lit up and said excitedly, "mom, I'm going to the playground." I'm ready for my lunch break today. Can I play for a while? "
"Why not? Let's go. "
Since then, my daughter has tasted the sweetness, encountered trouble, and tried to solve it herself when seeking help. I also made suggestions with her on how to get along with some powerful children, protect myself and get along with others as well as possible.
Our school has never held a parent-teacher conference, but one day, the school will suddenly hold a "parent-teacher conference for the graduating class" and all the parents of the whole grade will come back. We are also surprised that there is no parent-teacher conference. Why did it suddenly open this time? I came to the parent-teacher conference with questions.
Our parents first listened to a speech by a vice principal and dean in the multi-function hall, and we had classes in the classroom as usual. Obviously, I was having a moral class in the classroom, but my heart flew to my mother. Think about it. Listen to what the dean is talking about all of us. If any naughty student offends the dean and says something about our class, the teacher will get angry and scold the whole class. What punishment may there be?
After the speeches of the dean and vice president, it was our most exciting moment. The teacher wants parents to talk about the whole class and the ranking of the whole grade in the classroom. We all do our homework in the multi-function hall. However, where did parents get so excited to do their homework? How should I write it down! I sat in a daze in the multi-function hall, kicking a rabbit in my heart. Although I know this is wrong, my heartbeat has to make me do it. The students next to me were also infected by me, and they threw pens one by one and chatted with their neighbors about whether their situation would be bad or not.
Finally, the excited parent-teacher conference is over. I packed my schoolbag in a hurry and went to find my mother. Mother sulked as if she were angry. I know it should be that my situation is not very good! I am ready to be scolded in my heart.
When I got home, I said to my mother, "Is my situation not very good? You scold me! " My voice is getting lower and lower, so that I can't hear myself. Mother suddenly laughed while clutching her stomach. "The teacher said that you are in the top ten of the whole grade, and it is too late to be happy. How can you scold me? I'm just pretending, hahaha. " I suddenly froze. What? "Mom, you lied to me again." I'm happy and angry. I am glad that I am in the top ten of my grade: I am angry that I was so stupid that I believed my mother's lies. To tell the truth, it's really a waste for mom not to be an actress! Ha ha!
So much for nervous parent-teacher conferences. I hope it won't be held again next time, or the rabbit in my heart will pop out sooner or later.
At 4 o'clock on Friday afternoon, the school held a parent-teacher meeting for senior students. My parents took time out of their busy schedules to attend the meeting, which made me feel extremely warm.
Perhaps, you will ask: Why do you feel this way? Please let me tell you. I was a transfer student last year. Because of fun, poor learning foundation and unsatisfactory grades, it not only brings a lot of trouble to parents, but also adds a lot of trouble to teachers. I feel guilty.
At the morning meeting on Monday, the class teacher said, "There will be a parent-teacher meeting on Friday. Please attend the meeting on time. Don't ask your grandparents to come to the meeting. " Suddenly, I felt embarrassed. I don't know how to talk when I go home. Lenovo used to have a parent-teacher meeting, but my parents didn't want to come to give me a meeting because my grades humiliated them in front of everyone. So, I have to beg my grandpa or grandma to go to the meeting. It seems that I will try to pass this time.
After coming home from school, I spend time doing my homework. After I finished, I took the initiative to let my father check. Father smiled and said, "Good job, progress, come on." "Thank you, Dad, for your encouragement!" Seeing that my father was in a good mood, I seized the opportunity to say, "Dad, there will be a parent-teacher conference in our school ..." "Oh, maybe I will go on a business trip." When I heard that, my heart sank and I stood there staring blankly. Dad seemed to see my heart, grabbed my little hand and said, "Don't worry, if I can't make it back, let your mother put down her work and give you a meeting." At this time, my heart got a little comfort.
In order to have a good parent-teacher conference, my Chinese teacher not only carefully prepared to report our school performance and learning situation to parents, but also specially asked us to make our own handmade works, write warm greetings to the parents who came to attend the conference and express our gratitude to the elders. It can be seen that our teacher has good intentions!
On Friday afternoon, the first class is labor skills class. Under the guidance of the teacher, the students began to make handicrafts with great interest. Everyone took out their prepared handmade materials and devoted themselves to it. After about half an hour's hard work, I saw my classmates make different works. There are paper planes, ships, tricycles, cars, buildings, Greeting Card ....................................................................................................................................................... I made a truck, the body is grass green, the wheels are black, and there is a big cylinder on the body, which is really lifelike. I took out my crayon and wrote on the car body: "I wish you health and happiness, always young!" " "When I was about to leave my seat after school, I carefully put this truck on my desk.
It was getting dark when the doorbell rang. When I opened the door, my mother and father came back together. My mother saw my puzzled look and said, "Your father arrived at school on time, too, and I was relieved to know that my mother gave you a meeting." Mother went on to say, "Good son, your truck is the best in the class. Mom, thank you for your blessing. You should study hard in the future! " "This time, although it is cold outside in Leng Xue, I feel much warmer after listening to it.
This parent-teacher meeting made me feel the care of teachers and the warmth of my family. I will study hard under the guidance of my teachers and parents in the future. I will run forward like a truck and live up to their expectations.
The applause of life, like sunshine and rain, moistens every petal; The applause of life is like a lighthouse in the distance, guiding us to hang the Yun Fan and help the sea. The applause was silent, friendly and enthusiastic. I will never forget that applause, because it made me stand up from failure and get up from falling.
Today is the sixth grade parent-teacher conference. The form of the sixth-grade parent-teacher conference has changed, and more student representatives will speak. The teacher said to us, "Choose an excellent student and let him speak on the stage." I thought to myself: I am not a top student, certainly not me. As soon as the teacher's voice fell, someone below booed: "Let xxx go!" " "Oh, dear, it can't be me! I thought helplessly. " Well, xxx has been studying very well recently. Let her go! "
After school, watching them go home happily, I can't say how envious I am. They can still play at home, but I have to practice my lines in the office. "There are ten minutes before the parents' meeting. Have fun and don't let the teacher down. " The teacher said kindly while stroking my head. Watching parents walk into the classroom one by one, my heart is like fifteen buckets of water.
The parent-teacher meeting began, and the class teacher said, "Please ask the student representatives to speak on stage!" Ah, it's my turn. What should I do? The teacher saw that I didn't move, so I repeated it. I thought to myself: be a dead horse and be a living horse doctor! So I got up the courage to go to the classroom. As soon as I entered the door, my parents applauded, and I didn't panic. I read the speech aloud in a cadence voice. At that moment, I misread a few words. I buried my head deeply and my face rose like Guan Gong. The confidence I just found was blown away by this embarrassing scene. At the moment, the classroom rang again. My heart is burning violently. I summon up courage again and finish reading the manuscript. The parent-teacher conference ended successfully. My teacher and I bid farewell to our parents at the door of the classroom. Many parents said, "The children are doing well, but they are not confident. You are the best! " This sentence is sweeter than eating honey.
Applause can inspire people, make them succeed, make people stand up from failure and get up after falling. Please give your friendly and warm applause to others! Maybe your applause will bring him success!
What does the parent-teacher conference look like to everyone? Maybe worried, scared, or excited? I had a different experience.
My mother is over forty years old and usually goes to work in the fields. Every morning, before everyone wakes up, she gets up early to do housework. She is very busy, makes all kinds of noises and often wakes me up when I am sleeping soundly, so I still complain about her from time to time.
I still remember every parent-teacher meeting, my father went to work every day and didn't come home until evening. There is no rest day, and I am very busy, so my father can't go. The teacher said that parents must go, and there will be punishment if they don't go. I suddenly gasped. When I got home, I always had a bad memory and told my mother at once. But her mother also said that she couldn't go because she didn't have time. I'm angry and I can't understand. So I reason with her. I think: she doesn't have to go to work every day, so she stays at home. Is she that busy? Why can't you take the time to go? Obviously, I just don't want to go, don't care about me, and make excuses for myself. Most importantly, if my mother doesn't go, the teacher will be embarrassed to ask me. My classmates' parents must have come, so I'm sorry if I'm alone.
But that time, she really went. She arrived at school later than me. Before this, many parents came. Although they are all about the same age as their mothers, they are all beautifully dressed, and some of them have put on makeup and look much younger. When my mother came to school, I suddenly felt quite different. My mother is still dressed simply, with a lot of mud on her shoes and some grass on her head. I guess she just came back from the field! I have never dressed up at all, and I have never used any skin care products and cosmetics. May work too much, dark skin and rough hands. I was not very happy when I saw it, but I didn't mind, because I knew my mother would be sad. Thinking of this, I'm glad she can come, too.
My mother stood silently outside the classroom door from the beginning. When I looked out, I met her eyes, and she showed a happy smile. I went out at once: Mom, why don't you go in? After that, I took my mother to my seat. Hello, auntie! The deskmate said that my mother smiled and agreed. My mother pushed the melon seeds and water on the table in front of me for me to eat. I invited my mother to dinner, but she still refused.
The parent-teacher conference officially began. The teacher stood on the platform, invited classroom representatives, classmates' representatives and parents' representatives to speak in turn, and then showed something on the computer. My mother doesn't know a few words, so she gets bored. She was very serious when she began to look at the photos. When she saw my photo, she patted me on the shoulder excitedly. I motioned for my mother to keep quiet, and she was silent again.
Then my mother told me to be serious at school, and she left. As soon as I got home, she told me that my photos were ok. I just said how I feel very, very dissatisfied. She smiled without saying a word and said that she would definitely go in the future.
I am glad that my mother can attend this parent-teacher conference. Although she is not as young and beautiful as other parents, I know that she cares about me and loves me. In my eyes, she is the best.