Began to learn advanced mathematics at the age of six or seven? Dr. Tiger Dad actually teaches children this way. It is the expectation of every parent to have a successful child and a successful daughter. Parents are afraid that their children will lose at the "starting line" and start learning advanced mathematics at the age of six or seven? Doctor, tiger dad actually teaches children like this.
Began to learn advanced mathematics at the age of six or seven? That's how Dr. Tiger Dad actually teaches children 1 12 14. According to the Nanjing Intermediate People's Court, a "tiger dad" in Nanjing has a radical education method, letting his first-grade son and kindergarten daughter learn middle school and university knowledge, and even insulting and beating late at night. In desperation, the child's mother can only "seek help" from the court.
Recently, jianye district People's Court handled a dispute caused by improper family education. Mr. Mao graduated from Ph.D. and married Ms. Zheng to have two children, Xiao Ming and Xiao Jia (both pseudonyms). My son Xiao Ming is 7 years old and is in the first grade of primary school. Daughter Jony J is 5 years old and goes to kindergarten. Ms. Zheng said that her husband Mao often taught his two children, Xiao Ming and Xiao Jia (a pseudonym), the knowledge of middle school and university, let them learn classical Chinese and advanced mathematics, and asked them to study late into the night. In the process of educating children, they often use insulting language to insult and sometimes even beat them.
During the intervention and coordination of police officers, women's Federation staff and school teachers, Mao never realized the problem of improper educational methods. On the contrary, they think that disciplining their children is just a "housework" and refuse to accept the coordination of relevant personnel, which seriously affects the physical and mental health of the two children. Because of children's education, it also seriously affects the relationship between husband and wife. Ms. Zheng then applied to the court: the respondent Mao was forbidden to beat and scold the applicant and the applicant's children Xiao Ming and Xiao Jia; It is forbidden for the respondent to restrict the personal freedom of the applicant and the applicant's children.
Began to learn advanced mathematics at the age of six or seven? It is the expectation of every parent that Dr. Tiger Dad should teach his children like this. Afraid that children will lose at the "starting line", a doctor "Tiger Dad" in Nanjing forced his 7-year-old son and 5-year-old daughter to learn classical Chinese and advanced mathematics, which caused many netizens discomfort.
According to the father, such high-intensity forcing children to study is to win at the starting line, but the intensity and height are really too high, which has surpassed too many children of the same age, so it has also caused dissatisfaction among netizens and children's mothers.
Despite constant questioning, my father never realized the problem of improper educational methods. On the contrary, they think that disciplining their children is just a "housework" and refuse to accept the coordination of relevant personnel, which seriously affects the physical and mental health of the two children.
According to Xinhua News Agency. The judge of jianye district People's Court said that guardians of minors have the responsibility to provide reasonable education for minors, but they should choose appropriate education methods according to their age and intellectual development, and on the basis of respecting their psychological status and emotional needs.
Although the respondent did not cause serious physical harm to the child, it also belongs to domestic violence because of the long-term abuse and degradation of the child's mental infringement. Moreover, this backward and extensive education method has seriously affected the healthy development of children's minds. Respondents are afraid that their children will lose at the starting line and teach them a lot of knowledge in the way he thinks is right. However, this practice does not respect the law of physical and mental development of minors and has a negative impact. Guardians of minors should pay full attention to the physical, psychological and intellectual development of minors and educate them with correct concepts, methods and behaviors.
When the court issued the personal safety protection order in this case, it rejected the applicant's application to prohibit the respondent from contacting the children, and at the same time limited the validity period of the protection order to three months, giving the respondent the opportunity to reflect and correct itself. After the protection order came into effect, the judge in charge paid a return visit to the applicant, and learned that the respondent did not beat and scold the child again, and the applicant did not renew the personal safety protection order, and the contradictions involved were properly resolved.
Began to learn advanced mathematics at the age of six or seven? That's how Dr. Tiger Dad actually teaches children. 3 Is insulting a child a domestic violence? Perhaps the vast majority of parents have not considered this issue, but the following news has taught the vast majority of parents a "lesson."
Recently, a parent in Nanjing was strongly forbidden by the court because he often abused his child at home and caused mental harm to his child. Once the news was announced, it immediately caught the attention of netizens.
"Frequent abuse and abuse" belongs to domestic violence.
This parent surnamed Mao is a doctoral student. Because of the highly educated doctor's degree and radical education method, it is called "doctor tiger dad".
Mr. Mao has two children, the eldest son Xiaoming (a pseudonym) just turned 7 this year and is currently in the first grade of primary school; The youngest daughter, Jia Jia (a pseudonym), is just five years old this year and is currently attending kindergarten.
So, what is the strength of this "Dr. Tiger Dad"? How on earth did he educate two children?
Let's see:
1, let two children learn classical Chinese and advanced mathematics;
2. Let two children often study late into the night;
3. In the process of education, children often abuse with insulting words, and even have beatings.
To sum up, Mr. Mao made "two big mistakes" in the process of educating his children:
First, it does not follow the law of children's growth and is suspected of "encouraging signs";
Second, insulting children is suspected of "mental domestic violence."
Finally, the child's mother was "unbearable" and finally applied to the court to ask the court to protect the child's personal safety and mental health.
The judge believes that the frequent use of insulting names belongs to "mental abuse" of children, and "mental abuse" is also a kind of domestic violence.
Therefore, the court finally ruled that:
1. It is forbidden for the respondent to abuse and scold the applicant and his children;
2. It is forbidden for the respondent to restrict the personal freedom of the applicant and the applicant's children;
3. It is forbidden for the respondent Mao to commit domestic violence against Zheng, Xiao Ming and their close relatives.
It is against the law to teach Advanced Mathematics in advance.
It is really hard for us to imagine the above "teaching content" of this parent. The boy is only 7 years old, in the first grade of primary school; Girls are only 5 years old and are still in kindergarten, so teach them to learn advanced mathematics!
How old children are, they begin to learn "advanced mathematics", which is even more ridiculous! As the name implies, "advanced mathematics" is a mathematics subject set up in colleges and universities, and it is studied from the first year of college. Do you think it's ridiculous to let your 7-year-old son and 5-year-old daughter learn advanced mathematics? !
According to the research of psychologists, the thinking development of primary school students can be divided into three stages:
First, in the stage of "intuitive image level" (7-8 years old), children's understanding of the outside world is vivid and intuitive;
Second, at the stage of "image abstraction level" (8~ 10 years old), children's understanding of the outside world changes from image to abstraction;
Third, at the stage of "initial essence abstraction level" (10~ 12 years old), children can simply abstract and summarize external things.
According to the development law of children's thinking in primary school, it is inappropriate for a child to strengthen mathematics cognition in the lower grades of primary school. Their thinking is vivid and intuitive, and they can learn more language knowledge and skills. It can be seen from this point that it is reasonable for Mr. Mao to teach children classical Chinese, and the focus is on developing children's language ability.
According to the research of scholar Lin Chongde, children can initially have the concepts of integers and fractions at the age of 8~ 10, and they can initially have abstract thinking abilities such as "set" and "equation" at the age of 1 1.
Children's reasoning ability began to develop in junior high school, and it was not until senior one that obvious reasoning ability appeared. By the second year of high school, all kinds of reasoning abilities have reached a relatively perfect level.
According to these laws of physical and mental development, students can basically accept the understanding and operation of "advanced mathematics" until they go to college. It is completely against the law of students' growth to let children aged six or seven in primary schools often stay up late to study "advanced mathematics"!