Yesterday's article mentioned "Xiao Shede", a hot drama that vividly interpreted Jiwa's anxiety.

This kind of anxiety can also be directly felt in the World Reading Day organized by Dangdang Meixi Academy and Hunan Children's Publishing House last Saturday.

"This child has been exposed to picture books since he was two years old. Now that he is five years old, he still doesn't like reading. "

"Not to say that reading helps writing? But my child can only keep a running account. "

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To some extent, our theme "Let reading happen naturally" is to pull parents back from reading anxiety little by little. Unfortunately, time is limited, and some parents' problems, such as Deng Xiangzi and I, a children's literature writer, cannot be discussed one by one. So these two days, I took the time to write this article and wanted to talk to you about some common misunderstandings.

PS: The closing date of the discount code is 24: 00 pm on April 23rd, and the book list is recommended at the end of the article ~

Let's not argue whether this view is valid for the time being. But whether online or on the spot, I can hear your sincere expectations. Parents don't seem to have many choices on the runway where chickens are babies and couples are together. Just like I have seen a family's "chicken baby timetable" before, the children's reading time is clearly arranged every day.

Readability is a slow accumulation process, but most of us walk too fast and are eager to get ahead. Back to the original point, when we are discussing the meaning of reading, I very much agree with the words of teacher Deng Xiangzi: For preschool children, reading is a game in which both body and mind participate, with beautiful language, beautiful stories and beautiful imagination.

Therefore, try to make children feel that there is no utilitarian game. Through natural reading, let him cultivate autonomy, broaden his horizons and see the possibility of life. Even if the child is an ordinary person in the end, what does it matter as long as he is happy and rich inside?

Many parents believe that reading is literacy. Knowing more words will make reading better. In fact, the influence of literacy on reading is not as great as we thought.

Literacy means knowing a character symbol and understanding its meaning, which requires a long period of study and accumulation. But reading is a process of obtaining information from various forms of reading materials. In this process, words are the carrier, and pictures are also the carrier. They can help children and enhance their understanding of nature, life and society, thus expanding their horizons and enriching their hearts. Therefore, children's reading will go through several stages of "picture book-picture document-text book", step by step. Facing children aged 0-6, let them go through this process slowly at their own pace. As parents, we don't need to rush for success, let alone encourage others.

Many times, reading picture books to children is just our one-way output. Children don't listen, just stay on the surface. This is why many children who grew up in picture books can't fall in love with reading.

Real reading begins with questions and ends with understanding. Want children to participate in reading and complete immersive reading, you can learn from the following three points:

1, make good use of questions

When reading picture books to children, you can use questioning method: What would you do if it were you? Why is it crying? What else did it think of before? ..... Let children participate in reading through rhythmic questions, and digest what they hear/see with imagination and understanding.

2, mobilize the senses

We can get through all the children's senses, including sight, hearing, taste, touch and smell. For example, when the picture book mentions apples, we can take out the apples at home and guide the children to touch, see and smell them. Then, guide the children to say, "What color is the apple?" "How does the apple taste?" ......

In the process of reading, children's multiple senses participate, and this kind of immersion in reading is incomparable to the visual effect of a single dimension.

3. Role-playing

Children don't like boring things. Compared with dynamic games, books are really difficult to mobilize children's emotions.

So our parents can involve their children through role-playing games.

Tip: Parents need to be prepared in advance and choose books that their children like and are familiar with. If it is a brand-new book, I suggest reading it again before starting.

Exaggerated body movements and the pronunciation and intonation of different roles can deepen children's understanding and memory of the contents of books. The following are some books that Duoduo and I particularly like, and they are also recommended books for this Dangdang activity. In order to make everyone see more clearly, I divided the books into categories. You can make a reference and suggest that you choose according to your child's actual situation.

0 1 popular science encyclopedia

A day of the ancients (a set of 8 volumes)

Beautiful error series (3 volumes in total)

Einstein style: logical thinking training for primary school students (set *** 10)

4 sets of British Museum

Encyclopedia of Strange Questions and Interesting Answers (a set of 4 volumes)

British Museum Children's History Picture Book: Looking for Tom Series

Among them, this set of "One Day of the ancients" was really recommended by me and blossoming, and even I watched it with relish. It was also recommended by Ma Boyong, a famous writer, and Wang Zhigeng, director of the Children's Museum of the National Museum. How did ancient people spend a day? Are you curious? This set of books skillfully unfolds the day of the ancients in front of us in a timeline.

child literature

Clancy's natural exploration picture book series (***2 volumes)

Miyanishi's picture book "Make sure you can do it" (full volume 18)

I love reading the famous translation of the grand prize novel (a set of 4 volumes).

Peter Cat's Good Personality Development Books for 3 ~ 6 Years Old (Series 1-4)

Children's History of China (14 full-color copper plate)

Silver Rocket Junior Science Fiction Series No.65438 +0 Series

Chinese characters with stories (all four volumes, Dangdang customized version, full set 12 volumes)

Mi Xiao is in the first grade (set of ***4 volumes)

I thought Toto didn't like watching science fiction that much. Later, I found that her acceptance is quite wide and high, and she likes science fiction more and more. The 1 series of the Silver Rocket Junior Science Fiction Series, edited by Liu, the first Hugo Award winner in Asia, has sold over one million copies.

It not only contains the scientific and imaginative characteristics of science fiction, but also contains a strong literary atmosphere. The hero's wisdom, courage and enterprising spirit can leave a deep impression and thinking space for children. This series involves four classic sci-fi themes: Star Crisis, Biochemical Experiment, Non-human Life and Time Travel.

Children enlightenment

Hello! Mathematics (value gift box)

Jinxiong mathematics huiben

Children's ancient poetry game book

Magical logical thinking game book

DK children's observation, concentration and thinking training (all four volumes)

Jinxiong mathematics picture book is a brand-new mathematics enlightenment reading book published by Jinxiong Publishing House, a Korean listed company, in 20 19, and it is a set of mathematics enlightenment picture books specially developed for children aged 3-6. The mathematical concepts in this set of books are very rich, and the difficulty is to directly benchmark the core mathematical concepts of Grade One and Grade Two step by step. This is a very interesting and useful book of mathematics enlightenment.

If I had met this set earlier on my math baby road, I wouldn't have to run around for a few years, looking for all kinds of fragmentary knowledge and racking my brains to find a way to tell my baby math!