First of all, lower your expectations of the other two people, your expectations will be lower, so the threshold of tolerance will be higher, so they have done something that makes you sad and won't make you so sad. Many times we can't accept some facts because we didn't anticipate these possible results and were not prepared.

Mathematically, triangles are the most stable, but in fact, in friendship and love, triangles are the easiest to fall apart. Three people are close together, but two people are always close. They can be very happy together, but the problem is getting bigger and bigger after getting along for a long time.

Two good people don't want a third person to look at the beauty and tacit understanding that should only belong to two people. The third person may have his own preferences, but he is excluded. Two people may feel guilty, so they will take action to remedy it. They want to restore the threesome.

But the balloon has a small hole, even if it is inflated, it will still be discouraged and friendship will disappear. The three-person circle in balance has a good relationship with each other, but once two of them have contradictions, the remaining one is not human inside and outside. It seems inappropriate to be neutral or help someone and be a peacemaker. Three people can easily fall apart. But people can't stand loneliness.

Secondly, simplify the friendship of three people into the relationship between you and A, and the relationship between you and B. Before that, I always thought that three people were a group. If anything happens, you will call me. If I hadn't called, I just didn't care about me. After simplification, there are two simple relationships. Whether A and B are good or not has nothing to do with you. It doesn't matter whether you scream or not. Without these troubles, you will be more free.

Finally, define the focus of your life. Usually this happens when you are a student. When I was a student, the focus of life was basically learning, exercising and socializing. Therefore, turning your attention to the focus will make you less sensitive to these relationships.

Let's first consider whether we are a little blx, a little sensitive and too sensitive to some things. Maybe they didn't want to isolate you. All relationships, whether friendship or love, have to go through the running-in period to reach a relatively stable state, so quarrels and contradictions are inevitable during the running-in period.

Distance produces beauty. If we don't have our own space together every day, it's easy to have friction. If you do one thing independently, you will feel fresh when you get along. Cai Kangyong once said: Never put friendship in an incredible position.