Text | Quiet Don River | Graph Network
Good-looking people are all the same, and bad-looking people have their own advantages, and the more they look, the more attractive they are. So remember, ugly people, people like me, the more they look, the better. The foundation of marriage is that the more you look at it, the longer it lasts and the stronger it is, and that is to learn to appreciate it. The protracted war of marriage is very important, but the happiness of marriage is more important, so creating the happiness of marriage is the first priority. (Ma Yun)
One: the transformation from school scum to Internet giant
Ma Yun is a household name in China. He was born in September 1964 and graduated from the Foreign Languages Department of Hangzhou Normal University. Now he has succeeded, but he used to be a scum. In the senior high school entrance examination, I got 365,438+0 in math.
Ma Yun's road to study can be said to be full of twists and turns. He has experienced two senior high school entrance examinations and three college entrance examinations in his life, and only got 1 in the first college entrance examination. The mathematics in the second college entrance examination was only improved to 19.
During this period, he worked as a porter, delivered magazines and rode an old bicycle through the streets of Hangzhou. His parents advised him to go to college and concentrate on learning a trade to support himself.
However, Ma Yun did not give up. He took the third college entrance examination at 1984, regardless of his family's opposition. This time, his math score has increased to 89 points, but there is still a gap of 5 points from the undergraduate admission line. Because the enrollment index of English major is not enough, Ma Yun was admitted as an English major undergraduate by Hangzhou Normal University.
During his college years, Ma Yun cherished this hard-won learning opportunity, so he studied hard, became an excellent student and became the president of the student union.
Also in college, Ma Yun met Zhang Ying. It is precisely because of his meeting with Zhang Ying that Ma Yun not only gained love and marriage, but also made his business map and his business genius in contemporary China Internet industry.
Second: the woman behind the business tycoon.
Zhang Ying,/kloc-0 was born in Hongkong on October 25th. She graduated from Hangzhou Normal University majoring in English and is Ma Yun's sister. 1988 married Ma Yun, and 1999 became one of the eighteen arhats of Alibaba. Then he went back to his home and taught his son.
A successful marriage is not just two people face to face, but two people support each other and work together to create a better future. Alibaba founder Jack Ma and his wife Zhang Ying are such a couple.
The two started from scratch and spent the most difficult years together. After their success, they still think that the other party is still ahead, while the other party retreats behind the scenes to provide a stable family.
Some people say that it is more difficult to divorce Ma Yun and Zhang Ying and establish another Alibaba Kingdom there.
Ma Yun and Zhang Ying both graduated from Hangzhou Normal University. They are brothers and sisters. Zhang Ying is still very beautiful and gentle. In terms of Ma Yun's appearance at that time, he was not worthy of each other at all. Ma Yun and Zhang Ying fell in love at first sight when they met for the first time, but he also felt that he was not worthy of each other, so he never dared to express himself.
Until he heard that someone was going to introduce Zhang Ying to someone, he finally couldn't sit still, so he got up the courage to publicly announce that he had to marry Zhang Ying home.
For Zhang Ying, her handsome appearance doesn't impress her at all. On the other hand, although Ma Yun is not handsome, he created the first English corner of the school by his own ability, which was enough to impress Zhang Ying's heart.
Three: Behind every successful man, there is a woman who gives silently.
1988, Zhang Ying followed Ma Yun into the marriage hall immediately after graduation. At that time, Ma Yun was still an English teacher, but he had bigger ideals. So in 1992, Ma Yun chose to resign and start his own business.
He first set up a Haibo translation agency, but the income was not ideal, and even the rent was difficult to pay. In order to maintain the daily operation of the company, he had to be a small trader for three years.
During this time, his wife, Zhang Ying, has been accompanying her without regrets, which most girls can't do. And in these three years, Zhang Ying gave birth to a son for him, watching Zhang Ying and himself lead a hard life, which made Ma feel guilty and comforted Zhang Ying. As long as she persists, she will succeed one day.
1995 Ma Yun had a certain understanding of the Internet, and he decided to set up China Yellow Pages. When he told his friends what he thought, Zhang Ying was the first to stand up for him. Zhang Yingzhi thinks that Ma Yun is a piece of gold. In order to have enough start-up funds, they mortgaged their only house.
Zhang Ying is not only a good wife, but also a great help to Ma Yun's career. During her work in Yellow Pages Company, Zhang Ying was not only responsible for the internal affairs of the company, but also for the promotion. The first business of the company was negotiated by Zhang Ying. He saw that Ma Yun was too tired to travel everywhere and took the initiative to travel abroad for Ma Yun.
1998, Ma Yun was invited to Beijing to make a website, and Zhang Ying followed it without hesitation. The following year, they returned to Hangzhou again and founded Alibaba. Ma Yun has always admired Zhang Ying's working ability. During work, Zhang Ying always regards himself as an ordinary employee, while in his spare time, Zhang Ying plays a role in the family.
Because they have been busy with their work and have no parents to accompany them, their son has become more and more rebellious. After careful consideration, Zhang Ying gave up his job choice and returned to his family, although he didn't want to. Since then, Zhang Ying has become a woman standing behind Ma Yun.
While trying to make up for her son's lack of education, she took care of Ma Yun's daily life. For Ma Yun's healthy diet, he also specializes in cooking. At noon every day, she personally sent casual clothes to Ma Yun, and he personally selected them. When Ma Yun is busy at work, he will also call him to tell him to have a rest.
Ma Yun never stints in praising Zhang Ying. When he participated in the program, he said that without Zhang Ying, there would be no Alibaba now.
Fourth: As the leader of the Internet industry, Li Guoqing and Yu Yu lost.
Dangdang and Alibaba were both founded in 1999, but Li Guoqing Yu Yu and Ma Yun are diametrically opposed.
From 65438 to 0996, Li Guoqing met Yu Yu, a strong woman on Wall Street. They fell in love at first sight and quickly entered the marriage hall. 1999, the two returned to China and co-founded Dangdang. From then on, they began to work together. At that time, the outside world was very envious that Li Guoqing could find such an excellent wife.
Dangdang developed very rapidly, and 20 10 was successfully listed on Nasdaq. At that time, Li Guoqing rang the bell twice in a row in the name of the company, regardless of everyone's opposition, but his bad luck followed.
Li Guoqing always wanted to turn the company into a lovers' shop, but he turned down all the olive branches of the major Internet giants, which made Dangdang slowly abandoned by the times.
In 20 16, Dangdang announced its privatization and delisting, and Yu Yu, Li Guoqing, was also caught in a divorce-tearing war. From 20 19 to 10, their relationship took a turn for the worse. Although Li Guoqing was angry when he was on the show, Yu Yu claimed that he would scratch his face. Later, the two also broke out scandals with each other and finally went to court.
Compared with Ma Yun and Zhang Ying, Li Guoqing and his wife lack mutual tolerance and understanding when they get along. Both husband and wife are proud of each other and lose everything. If they only think about their own interests when they encounter a crisis again, they will only end up in disaster and fly away separately.
Then it is not difficult to understand that there is an extraordinary feeling between Ma Yun and Zhang Ying. Along the way, they went through many crises together.
It is rare for Ma Yun and Zhang Ying to be so in love. Yunhe's marriage is worth learning. In marriage, we can understand each other, support each other and meet a bright future together. This is true happiness.
Some people say that marriage is equivalent to a second life for women. If you marry the right person, you will be happy for a lifetime, but if you marry the wrong person, you will suffer for a lifetime. In fact, in marriage, true happiness is not what kind of man you marry, nor what kind of woman you marry. But in this marriage, whether we cherish each other or not, whether we are willing to pay, more often, what we need is mutual tolerance, understanding and support. Only by caring for each other, sharing weal and woe, and operating with heart can we reap beautiful happiness.
Just like Zhang Ying, I don't care about Ma Yun's appearance or wealth, but admire his talent and wisdom. When Ma Yun has nothing, she naturally accompanies him. After Ma Yun became famous, he was willing to be an ordinary woman, take care of her husband and educate her children. Maybe this is the so-called love.
However, Ma Yun has always kept his promise. There is only one woman in his life, and that is his wife, Zhang Ying, who accompanied him on the battlefield from scratch.
Ned (male name equals Edward)