My view on marriage has always been self-choice, and others should not interfere too much. My parents have been very anxious about my marriage since I entered social work.

I have told them many times that I don't want to get married now, but they don't seem to understand my feelings. In their concept, they should face it when they reach marriageable age.

I think marriage is natural after meeting the right person, and the marriage that suits you can only wait, but if the conditions are only equal and the age is suitable in many ways, such a marriage is a kind of transaction.

Even though I expressed a lot to my parents, they arranged a blind date for me in private and acted first, which crossed my bottom line.