If the condition a[n] ≥ 0 is added, their convergence is equivalent.
This limit does exist.
But I guess F (x) = x (4/3) sin (1/x) takes derivatives everywhere but the derivative is discontinuous at x = 0.
In this case, your derivative is wrong.
For x ≠ 0, f' (x) = 4/3 x (1/3) sin (1/x)-x (-2/3) cos (1/x).
This is unbounded in any neighborhood of 0.