Some people are born with self-discipline, self-control and strong self-control. Such people are generally the top students in the class and the best in the company, so it is a habit to say Excellence.

Some people naturally have a sense of responsibility and become self-disciplined when they reach a certain age.

Some people are different. They need the stimulation of external forces, hit the south wall several times and encounter setbacks several times before they become more mature and self-disciplined.

Let's say an old play I saw the other day. It's time to expose my age. Louis Koo starred in The Search for Qin.

Among them, Ying Zheng, starring LAM Raymond, is still fresh in the memory of friends who have seen this play. Due to the adaptation of TV series, Ying Zheng's previous identity was originally Zhao Pan, not Qin Wang at all.

But Louis Koo's Xiang Shaolong made Zhao Pan the king of Qin Ying Zheng. At that time, Zhao Pan was guilty, so he was weak. He didn't take this seat above ten thousand people seriously. Later, he broke up with Xiang Shaolong because he was getting married and ran away from home.

In the palace, Zhao Pan wanted to make trouble with the king of Qin, but out of society and out of the former greenhouse, no one thought you were the king of Qin. Everyone else thought you were like this, so I beat you up first and let you talk nonsense again. ...

Zhao Pan, who was wandering outside, was sent to repair the Great Wall. He is not full and warm. He was beaten countless times and suffered more than he had ever suffered in his life.

Later, Zhao Gao recognized that the beggar in rags was the King of Qin, and the two rescued him.

Zhao Pan, who returned to the palace, is no longer the Zhao Pan of yesterday. He wanted to be the real king of Qin, so he got married and led the government to unify the six countries. .................................................................................................................................

Although TV plays are different from real history, they are also examples of self-discipline caused by external stimuli.

There are also such examples in Master Xing's movies, such as Su and Wu Zhuangyuan.

Su Cangang, played by Xingye, was a playboy who only knew martial arts and could not eat, drink and be merry at first. He couldn't even write his own name when the emperor appointed Wu Zhuangyuan, and was finally sentenced to beg with his father.

There is no lack of his father's doting, and the eyes of people around him are deceptive. But when Su Can is in the scenery, his father wipes his ass for him, so he can naturally be the shopkeeper of cutting. It was not until he suffered setbacks that he understood a lot of truth, reflected on his absurd behavior, and then changed himself from the inside, learned magic, saved himself, saved his family and was reborn.

Without these changes, life in Su Can will continue to be absurd. I don't know what year it is today.

It was suffering that saved his life.

Think of a passage that Mr. Lin Qingxuan said:

How precious are difficulties, torture and pain! If all goes well, who will settle down to meditate, who will be born with wisdom, and who can surpass himself and climb the peak in ordinary and comfortable days? If there is no difficulty, who will kneel and pray humbly? Who can believe that the universe is infinite? Who can send love to the afterlife?

Coincidentally, I feel that I have experienced some setbacks before I become more and more self-disciplined and work harder.

I once had a good opportunity to study hard and change my destiny. Unfortunately, I didn't seize the opportunity at that time. I waste time all day, not thinking, but chatting, shopping, surfing the internet, playing mobile phones, appreciating others and caring about their opinions. Later, I took part in the work, and I was tired of doing a job. I couldn't stand a little blow until my peers had a skill or made achievements in an industry, and I had nothing.

Coupled with the growth of age, this society will not treat an adult as a child. You are incompetent, you have nothing, and everyone will shit on your head.

The abyss of reality will push you forward and force you to be self-disciplined.

Unless the pot is broken, it doesn't matter, self-deception, poverty and happiness.

I think it is the most efficient shortcut for a person to become self-disciplined when reality strikes the south wall.

In addition to the above, there is another way to become self-disciplined, and that is cognition.

Someone once said such a cruel fact: the key to maintaining a good interpersonal relationship is not your friendliness to others, but your strength. People are generally more tolerant of the strong, and excessive friendliness will be regarded as a cheap gesture. Do you feel so sad?

It's sad to think about it, but I'm more happy to realize some essential problems, and I know that I don't have to waste time to please others from now on. I rely on selling my coolies to maintain a friendship and a relationship and make myself feel safe.

Because I know that as long as you manage yourself well, become a self-disciplined person and spend time pleasing your hobbies, when you succeed, those things you want will automatically come into your life.

What belongs to you will naturally belong to you. If you don't get it, it means that your skills are not enough. Don't worry, keep working hard and keep practicing sword.

I don't know if you are aware of this law. When we set a goal, the more we ask, the happier we will be and the harder we will work.

On the contrary, the lazier you are, the lazier you will become.

There are many such people in life. The harder they work, the higher they demand of themselves. The lazier they are, the more they have nothing to do.

Therefore, if people want to become self-disciplined, they must have a long-term goal, which they are very interested in and implement every day to form a habit. If one day you don't do that, you will feel uncomfortable and can't sleep well, then you will succeed.

I believe that in order to make yourself happy, you will definitely continue to carry out your goal.

Because that's what I do now. As long as I don't read or write on any day, I feel ashamed of my life. If I do nothing, I will finish the task of the day and then go to eat, drink and be merry, and I will be a hundred times happier.

Another important factor in becoming self-disciplined is changing friends.

The ancients said that it is not unreasonable to be near Zhu Zhechi.

Learn from who you are. If you have a circle of friends, your WeChat group is a group of positive friends. They have cars and houses, and often go out to travel and see the world of flowers and flowers. You will naturally have a sense of crisis and try your best to catch up with them, so you will be self-disciplined.

Thanks to this self-media era, I have joined a writing group, met a group of excellent people, changed a lot of ideas, and my life is much better than before.

Finally, Mr. Ji Bolun's words ended:

If one day, you are not looking for love, but just love;

You are no longer eager to succeed, just do it;

You no longer pursue vague growth,

I just started to cultivate my temperament.

Your life really begins!