Good afternoon everyone!
I am * * *' s mother. First of all, please allow me, on behalf of all the parents in our class, to thank the head teacher, Mr. Liu, Mr. Wang of Chinese, and Mr. Liu of English for their concern and cultivation of their children. It is because of your careful cultivation that our children thrive.
Today, I am very grateful to Teacher Liu for providing me with such a platform to speak here. A few days ago, I received a phone call from Mr. Liu asking me to give a lecture at this parent-teacher conference, which made me feel ashamed, because I think all the parents present are excellent in educating their children, and it is useless for me to give you lessons. Let me talk about some of my feelings and experiences in educating children, and discuss and share them with you. If there is anything wrong, please forgive me for guidance.
First of all, parents should enhance their sense of responsibility in educating their children.
I think educating children is not only a school matter, but also the responsibility of parents. I am a teacher, too. Parents often say, "Teacher, I can't control our children. If you don't listen to me, he will listen to the teacher. It's up to you! " I think this is the most irresponsible sentence. She is our child first, and then the teacher's student. How can she put the blame entirely on others? As the saying goes, "parents are children's first teachers", and we should be good teachers for children. Children spend most of their time with our parents from birth to now, so our words and deeds will have a profound impact on children in a subtle way.
It is very important to create a good learning atmosphere for children in the family and let her develop the habit of quiet study. * * * When doing my homework, I usually don't turn on the TV. She is doing her homework at the desk, and I am preparing lessons and correcting my homework at the dining table. This is the usual state of my house at night. I don't care much when she does her homework, only when she can't.
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Come and ask me, I am busy with mine, she is busy with hers, and both girls are busy. If I turn on the TV one day, she seems to have grass in her heart. When she drinks water and looks for something, she always revolves around the TV for various reasons. Therefore, our TV is usually turned on only on weekends.
As parents, we should remind our children to preview and review in time and help them make a study plan. After all, children are children, always playful, and it is difficult to plan things. Remind her what to do at each stage in time to avoid being in a hurry when the exam is approaching. About 20 days before the mid-term exam, I reminded * * that it was time to review. We mainly reviewed Chinese new words, recitation, vocabulary, English words and so on. Therefore, * * * achieved satisfactory results in both Chinese and English in the mid-term exam, and didn't do any math questions, so the math scores were not ideal. Only when parents always pay attention to their children's learning can they attract enough attention, so our parents play an extremely important role in their children's learning.
Second, parents should be the strong backing of teachers.
As parents, we should be teachers' assistants, so that children can have a good learning state when they come home from school, and help her complete tasks such as memorizing words and taking words.
And our parents are more responsible to be the strong backing of teachers. In the process of educating children, teachers may encounter children's incomprehension. At this time, parents should be rational and rational, so that children can understand the teacher's pains. Never just listen to children's one-sided words and gossip about teachers in front of children, which will cause children to have a "trust crisis" and stop respecting and worshipping teachers, which is not conducive to children's growth. Even if you really don't agree with some of the teacher's practices, avoid communicating with the teacher alone. Only when parents and teachers cooperate closely can children always maintain a good learning state. Third, it is very important to cultivate children's reading habits.
Today's society is an era of information explosion, so children need to learn not only what they have learned, but also how to learn, which makes students' reading ability very important. In order to cultivate * * * *' s interest in reading, I have ordered Children's Pictorial and Little Macaque Intelligence Pictorial for her since she was in kindergarten. After entering primary school, with the growth of my age, I subscribed to magazines such as Exploring Nature, We Love Science and Yilin (Youth Edition). I usually buy her an extra-curricular book from time to time, and I will buy more in winter and summer vacations. After such a long training, * * * has a strong interest in reading. He will read books whenever he has time, read them before lunch break and finish his homework at night, so he should limit his reading time every day.
Reading broadens children's horizons, cultivates children's sentiment and improves their writing ability. I used to worry about * * *' s writing ability. Because I think math is not good, we can teach her the method of calculation, but composition is not good, and the method of writing cannot be taught. But after * * * began to write a composition, I found this worry unnecessary, because a lot of reading accumulated a certain amount of knowledge, and her composition was always meaningful, delicate and vivid.
Another special thing to pay attention to in reading is that parents should choose good reading materials for their children. Nowadays, literary works are mixed. Reading bad books is like making a bad friend, which will lead children astray. Parents must take care of it.
The above is my experience in educating children. There must be some shortcomings. Please criticize and correct me. I hope I also have the opportunity to learn more from my parents. Finally, I hope all children can thrive under the hard education of teachers and achieve something on the next level!
Thank you!