A treasure mom posted a video of a child's father sitting on the ground with a face of "life without love" on the Internet. After understanding the reasons, netizens all expressed empathy.
It turns out that this precious mother's daughter is in the third grade of primary school, and the weakest subject at ordinary times is mathematics.
One day, my father couldn't help getting angry when he saw my mother helping her daughter with her homework. My father is a science student, so he immediately asked his wife to retreat to the rear and help the children with their homework in person.
Although there is no lack of anger when tutoring homework, Xueba's father still maintains the confidence that his daughter's mathematics will definitely improve after a period of time.
After her daughter's exam results came out, her father waited confidently for her to come back from school and report her good results. As a result, my daughter just barely passed the passing line in math.
Xueba's father helps his children with their homework. After learning his math scores, he collapsed in the corner. Dad said weakly, "I am too difficult." My mother photographed this humorous scene, which aroused the parents' singing.
(1) Parents didn't master the method.
Although parents are obliged to help their children with their homework, most of them have been away from books and classrooms for too long, so it is easy to master the methods when helping their children with their homework.
If parents don't help their children with their homework in the right way, children can finish their homework, but they still can't master and use knowledge well.
(2) Children's ability to accept is limited.
Every child's learning ability is different, and some children are "slow fever" with limited acceptance.
If the child's acceptance is weak, it is not enough for parents to help their children do their homework every day. Children can't skillfully use these knowledge points, and naturally they can't improve their academic performance for the time being.
Although parents may not be able to achieve obvious results by helping their children with their homework, parents should also know that they must not give up easily. The most important thing is to find ways to improve the counseling methods.
(1) control emotions
Many children need their parents to help them with their homework, because they don't have a solid grasp of the classroom content and are not skilled in the use of knowledge.
Parents should pay attention to controlling their emotions when tutoring their children to do their homework. They shouldn't be angry because their children can't write or teach, otherwise it will only make them more resistant to doing homework.
(2) Mainly encourage children.
Many children will be criticized for poor or incorrect writing when doing homework, so parents should give priority to encouraging their children to do homework.
Only when parents encourage their children to write down the answers that they think are correct first can parents or teachers know where their children's weaknesses are and guide their children more pertinently.
3 you can't tell your child the answer directly.
Some parents will inevitably lose patience after tutoring their children for too long, and sometimes even tell their children the answer directly.
In fact, parents can't directly tell their children the answer to the question, otherwise the children will only become dependent and never want to think with their brains.
Helping children with their homework can be said to be a "long-term" task. While insisting on doing this job well, every parent should constantly find ways to improve his own counseling methods, so as to effectively help children clear blind spots and improve their grades.
Today's topic: What are the better ways to help children do their homework?
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