Boyfriend Chen Wenfa is a middle school math teacher. He is five years older than me. After graduating from college, he returned to work in a local school. His parents are teachers, and his family is not bad in the local area.

I met him by chance when I was in college. We met, met and fell in love. During the period of love, our feelings are stable and life is sweeter. Although they sometimes quarrel, they can resolve it in time every time.

After graduating from college, Chen Wenfa advised me to stay. With his help, I successfully entered his school as a math teacher. In the first year of work, we began to live together. Our love life is very sweet and happy, because our work is relatively stable and we know each other better. Colleagues and friends around us all envy us. After living together for 3 years, we began to think about getting married.

On that day, we moved into a new house, started a world of two people and began to think about getting married.

However, during my one year alone with Chen Wenfa, I found that it was very different from his "three views". They often quarrel and their contradictions escalate. The relationship between them went from the cold war to the deterioration, out of control, and finally broke up peacefully.

I have been working in my former unit since we broke up. Because we are in the same school and subject group, we often meet in meetings, and the embarrassing scene can be imagined.

A year later, I met my current boyfriend, Cai. Now we have to think about getting married. What bothers me is that since I broke up with Chen Wenfa, people around me have been gossiping: that my boyfriend made great efforts to get me into work smoothly, and I dumped him immediately after success, which was inhuman, heartless, sinister and so on. What should I do? Should I leave my ex-boyfriend's work unit and change my working environment?

Editor's note: Love is a matter for two people. Whether you are happy or not, only you know best. Everyone has the right to pursue his true love, but he has no obligation to explain it to others. There is an old saying: "A straight body is not afraid of a crooked shadow." In a free love, if you have no greed, no utility, no transaction and a clear conscience, that is a responsible attitude. After you end a relationship, it is great to start a new relationship now, which shows that you can face the past bravely and maturely and look forward to the future now. There used to be a saying that the people around you may be your destiny. But I want to tell you that you are the master of your life, love and destiny, and others can't and can't.