First of all, we must find out the reasons why children are tired of learning.
Learning is a child's nature, and every child is born with a strong curiosity and thirst for knowledge about strange things. There must be a reason why children are tired of learning.
First of all, I'm not interested. It is normal for every child to have different interests, develop in different directions, and reject things he doesn't like.
Second, the family environment is not good. Parents did not provide their children with a better place to study and did not pay attention to creating a learning atmosphere. It is not advisable to lock a child in a place alone for him to study. Children prefer to study with their parents or peers unless they are willing to study alone.
Third, the study pressure is great. The common fault of parents and teachers is to let their children do a lot of exercises and homework, thinking that diligence can make up for it and practice makes perfect. In fact, children's grades have indeed improved, but their interest in learning has disappeared, and their creativity has been curbed. It is really not worth the candle.
Fourth, the content of learning is beyond children's understanding ability. Our elite education takes care of those children with early intellectual development, but it hurts more children with late intellectual development or even normal development. In fact, every normal child has the ability to learn knowledge well, but the individual development is very different, and many children have to postpone the time. What we have to do is wait, not rush.
Five, influenced by the social environment, infected with bad habits.
Sixth, there is internet addiction. Nowadays, the influence of the Internet on children is increasing, especially the adverse effects. In this regard, parents should actively guide, because it is impossible and unnecessary to ban the internet. With reasonable guidance, the Internet will become a friend, helper and stage for children.
Seven, the child's teacher-student relationship and classmate relationship at school may be out of order. For example, I haven't been praised by the teacher for a long time, or I have a big conflict with my classmates.
Secondly, we should choose a reasonable solution.
Beating and cursing will definitely not work. After finding out the reason, try to communicate with your children. You should respect their opinions. Through communication, let the child realize the importance of learning and let him go to school willingly. You can ask relevant experts for help if necessary.
It's easier to say, but you have to do it yourself. I hope it works for you.