In fact, when people are confused, the most important thing is to locate themselves. You have realized some of your shortcomings and advantages. Find a time to calm down and think about the next road. How do you go? People can't do great things in one step. People who can do great things are prepared. It is true that they dare to think and do, but they should not be arrogant. 17 years old, there should be no confusion, there should be confidence and passion. We should use this confidence and passion to enjoy our youth and accumulate strength to weave our dreams. 17 years old, young and beautiful, what you need to do is not to share anything for your parents, nor to prove anything to your ex-girlfriend. What you need to do is to enrich and improve yourself, choose a city you want to go to, a vibrant university, a major you are good at or like, whether undergraduate or junior college, and the difficulty of finding a job after graduation. Grasp and feel your college life well, and your thoughts will be different in a few years.

Give you some suggestions to improve your mood:

First, bid farewell to meaningless online songs and sad love songs, listen to some good songs that make you feel comfortable and keep you positive and energetic, and find them yourself;

Second, don't be infatuated with those bloody and disgusting so-called foreign blockbusters. Watching more meaningful movies and TV plays will bring you a good spiritual understanding and discover it yourself.

Third, read more books. After going to college, if you choose a relaxed major, you will have a lot of free time.

Fourth, it doesn't matter if you are introverted. The terrible thing is that you have no friends. You must have a few intimate friends, not many, two or three are enough;

Don't always stay at home. It's also good to have time to visit small scenic spots nearby, take a walk on campus in the evening and invite some friends to play ball games.

Sixth, don't always think about your girlfriend. 17 years old is too early. I am still single at the age of 22.

7. Don't read the so-called inspirational quotations circulating on the Internet. Many inspirational quotations are too harsh and will make you as ruthless or sophisticated as the Three Kingdoms. Your youth doesn't need these!

Everyone will be confused, just a fog in front of them. Lift your spirits and boost your morale, and you will be suddenly enlightened when you turn around! Be quiet and think about it. What should you do next?