Miss Miao: 29 years old, department manager, engaged for one year.
The university is about to graduate, so I have to take the civil service exam, and my boyfriend has to take the postgraduate exam. The conditions in our family are very general, and both of us need to go to cram school. Tuition is the money we earn by working in winter and summer vacations. We are both far away from each other's cram schools. Eat a roadside stall as soon as we meet and encourage each other. If I am admitted to a civil servant, I can work directly and earn money to support him in graduate school.
At that time, we were full of longing for the future. His cousin came to see him and bought him shoes. He begged his cousin to buy me a new pair of shoes. We were both very happy that day and went to eat a buffet. When we are studying, we have been watching videos, supervising each other and cheering each other. Roommates are envious of us, as if everything is beautiful.
Later, I broke up with him. He was admitted to graduate school, but he went far away. After a long time, we still chose to break up. My friend introduced me to a high school math teacher who has a room. Although it's not as bitter as falling in love before, it's quite comfortable to talk and build, just a visible future and a stable company.
Students' love is pleasure in suffering, while adults' love is steady and warm!
Mr. Li: 40 years old, founder of the company, married 15 years.
At that time, I was still a child, and I never seriously talked about love. Maybe it's because I'm shy, so I have a crush. Stealing water and delivering breakfast. I will think of each other when I listen to the song, but I dare not express it further.
The earthquake, I know there are classes in her class. I ran out and waited for her at the intersection to see if she was okay. It was not until I graduated from college that she knew that I liked her because she had changed two or three boyfriends.
After graduating from college, the family arranged a blind date. Both sides knew each other very well and thought each other had a good personality, so they got married. After marriage, regardless of the distance, she will regularly and carefully arrange a family trip. Sometimes it's just the two of us, and she will carefully plan the route of each trip. On that day, we could feel that she was nourishing our feelings and marriage.
I depend on her more and more. She fully supported me before I decided to quit my job and start a business. She said she still had a salary at home. If she can do it, she will be rich together. If she can't, she can still support her family. I just need to do what I want to do first.
After that, I put more energy into my work. She sometimes chats with me after putting the children to sleep, which relieves my pressure and fills me with the strength to continue to face life the next day! I think this is also a kind of love.
Students' love is shy and restrained, while adults' love is the nourishment of spiritual strength!
It seems that you don't need to think too much about love when you are a student. Just imitate the sweetness of Korean dramas. All kinds of companions are willing to pay without complaint. Talking until dawn every day is pure and beautiful. In addition, a young face is a symbol of all beauty. The handsome guy in the stadium and the girl reading with her chin cupped in the classroom look so simple and sweet. It is possible that no one thought about the future at that time.
But as we grow older, we meet different people, the environment is changing, the world is changing, and our own needs are changing, not only our own needs, the needs of our parents, but also the needs of the other half. At this time, our feelings can not only be maintained by our ignorant love at school, we may want more, or we don't think that love is a very important thing, more material and more realistic.
When I am an adult, I know what I want and what kind of other half I want. I won't fall in love with others at first sight easily, and I won't say more in my heart when I face feelings.
I believe that there are many lucky people who can get married from college love, but that is a minority after all. Few people * * * go to the future with progress, just like the love of adults, whoever falls off the chain will be broken up.
Young people with a little ambition in this world will want to combine themselves with the power of diamond cut diamond. Adult love is more like a knockout, see if you have the ability to realize your dreams.
However, the love in the student days was beautiful, probably just because I didn't know anything at that time, and the student days were far away from us. The farther away things are, the better, because I forgot many details and gave them some hope.
If the love between adults is really different from that between students, that's why adults think too much.