Being a parent is also an art.

It is understandable that parents want their children to become talents. But how to educate children and how to make them face heavy learning tasks with indomitable spirit under the heavy learning pressure today? This is also an art.

In this regard, I have a lot of feelings in the process of tutoring.

There is such a family of five, including grandfather, grandmother, father, mother and a little girl. Little girl 12 years old, healthy, lively and lovely. I am the tutor of this little girl. I didn't know until I met his parents that the girl was going to the fifth grade, but she couldn't even reach the level of the first grade of primary school. That's great.

Can you imagine what she is like in the fifth grade now? Therefore, parents have to hire a tutor.

The first day, I just arrived at her house and saw her grandfather playing mahjong with several people at the table. Her mother also watched and cheered; Will and her father are watching TV. I was warmly received by this family, and they pinned their hopes on my tutor.

The children have already started doing their homework, and the TV in the living room is still ringing. Parents seem to be interested in training their children to concentrate on their studies. As a result, in less than 40 minutes, the child got up four times in a row: he took a banana, an orange and a second glass of milk in the living room. Eating and drinking is really a pleasure. Children are easily distracted. Parents don't pay attention to creating a good learning environment for their children and specialize in doing things that children are interested in. Can children study with peace of mind?

The next day, at my suggestion, the situation improved. After the child studied for 40 minutes, I let the child rest 10 minutes. Who knows that as soon as the child appears in the living room, his parents will scold him. This is really, regardless of children, once it is managed, it is quite "strict". In the past, when children were doing their homework, they were always coaxed into doing their homework with a large piece of fruit and snacks. But today, they are more severe. When the child has suffered so much, he shouts, "I'm tired!" " Parents are furious: "What's the matter? Are you embarrassed? Everyone in preschool knows that 2+3=5, but you can't even go to the fifth grade. How dare you say that? Only know how to eat! " As a result, when the child sat down again, he didn't say anything or start work, but simply made a soft resistance.

In fact, a child is like a newly unearthed seedling. It is very small and fragile, and needs careful care. Instead of a high temperature of MINUS 40 degrees for a while and a low temperature of MINUS 40 degrees for a while, the seedlings are completely destroyed in the face of such high and low temperatures, and it is impossible to grow normally! What children need is encouragement, not yelling at weaknesses, which hurts their self-esteem. Parents should remember that adults need self-esteem and children need self-esteem. If you violate this point, then parents and children will only sing the opposite, parents and children will never be able to communicate, parents will always feel powerless, and it is even more impossible to be friends with their children.

Get along well.

Every child doesn't want others to say that he can't. Need the affirmation of others, especially parents. The first time we met, we wanted to see how the children were doing, so we asked 2+3=? She shook her head, which meant that she didn't know. Then, I asked her a simpler question: 1+ 1=? I saw her spirit multiply and immediately answered loudly: =2. So, I boasted at the right time: "OK, you are great! You know 1+ 1=2, and you will definitely learn 2+3= in the future? " After receiving the praise, I found that she studied harder every day. I know from her parents that they are now in grade five and have never understood the addition and subtraction within 10. In this way, after more than a week of hard work, with my encouragement, she finally wrote down the addition and subtraction within 10.

When her father heard me praise her daughter, he was very disapproving and said with a helpless smile, "Aren't you fooling my child?" I said, "You are wrong. I am stimulating children's enthusiasm for learning. Think about it. Children are often scolded for their parents' dissatisfaction and never enjoy their parents' praise. The child will think, anyway, instead of working hard, my parents will not be satisfied, it is better not to do it. "

One day, I wrote a paper and finished it in one breath. I got a score of 100. Now, she is happy. Because she told me that she is a fifth-grade student now, and she always copies the exams at the same table. If she doesn't copy, she really can't do it at all, and she will only get zero points. This is the first time that she has done it independently, and she got 100 on her own for the first time. Her first thought was to tell her parents the good news. When her father said, "Oh, great progress." I saw the child flushed with excitement. By chance, I finally got my parents' affirmation and appreciation for my efforts in study. My child is like a long drought, with a bright smile on his face. In this way, children taste the joy of success, appreciate themselves in joy, feel proud of themselves in appreciation, continue to study hard in appreciation, and continue to be appreciated in learning. Over and over again, they will continue to develop their potential.

Parents are children's first enlightenment teachers, which will have a far-reaching impact on their life growth. Create a good learning environment for children, respect and appreciate children.

Mai Maidou [postdoctoral 1 1 grade] Mai Maidou [postdoctoral1/grade] visited her home. The question she answered: Tribal charm: 1 level 3/100 Quick question intelligence: 1 1 level 1 18389/2500 1.

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Other answers (***2) As parents, it is understandable that they all want their children to become talents. But how to educate children and how to make them face heavy learning tasks with indomitable spirit under the heavy learning pressure today? This is also an art.

There is such a family of five, including grandfather, grandmother, father, mother and a little girl. Little girl 12 years old, healthy, lively and lovely. I am the tutor of this little girl. I didn't know until I met his parents that the girl was going to the fifth grade, but she couldn't even reach the level of the first grade of primary school. What is she like in the fifth grade now? Therefore, parents have to hire a tutor.

The first day, I just arrived at her house and saw her grandfather playing mahjong with several people at the table. Her mother also watched and cheered; Will and her father are watching TV. I was warmly received by this family, and they pinned their hopes on my tutor.

The children have started to do their homework, but the TV in the living room is still ringing. Parents seem to be interested in training their children to concentrate on their studies. Results The child got up four times in 40 minutes. Children are easily distracted. Parents don't pay attention to creating a good learning environment for their children and specialize in doing things that children are interested in. Can children study with peace of mind?

Lv Juan's mother [tenth doctor] Lv Juan's mother [tenth doctor] went to her house to have a look. The question she answered was tribal charm: 10 level/100 quick question intelligence: 10 level17970/18001square vitality: 664.

Art is my favorite. I often draw a picture when I am bored. Now I am in the sixth grade. With the increase of homework, I have less and less time to draw.

When I was very young, my mother drew pictures for me. She paints very vividly. The snow white she painted is not only beautiful, but also a beautiful dress. Maybe that's when I fell in love with art! When I was still in kindergarten, my parents sent me to an art teacher's house in Tingchao Six Village to study art. Recalling the happy scene at the teacher's house, I couldn't help but take out the pictures I had painted before. I can't help wondering why I used to paint so naive. At that time, my parents always praised me for drawing like a good one. Maybe it's because they don't want to destroy my self-esteem They paved a smooth cement road for my art road. But this road will never be smooth sailing, and bumps will come soon. When I was in the first grade, the teacher said that children should not be taught to draw, but to sketch. Because, parents think it is learned in senior grades. At this point, my art study career stopped. Except what they teach at school. But I'm not intimidated by the ups and downs. I still paint at home. But painting at home is always not as good as teaching by teachers. Once, I drew a snake, but I felt that it was different from the one in the book, and I couldn't change it, so I cried a lot. When mom and dad heard the crying, they all came to comfort me and said that the painting was very good. But I know in my heart that they are comforting me. I cried even harder. Because, I don't need the comfort of others. Because, at that time, I thought that the comfort of others was the ridicule of others. Later, I modified this painting. But after that, I painted harder. I have been learning to sketch until now. Although my painting is not very good for the time being. But I'm still trying.

I believe that one day I will see the light on the road of art.