My daughter originally proposed to go to an English cram school, but after a few days she said she didn't want to go.

The mother wants to know why the child changed his mind.

Through communication, the conclusion is:

The child learns English very well.

Make-up lessons always have to be copied. Children don't like this learning mode very much, so they change their strategies and don't want to continue.

The mother is full of doubts about the child's practice, and she wants to explain.

Show concern and anxiety about the child's sudden change of heart.

Guidance for parents

? As long as the children are in the sunshine and their thoughts are improving, parents don't need to worry.

Parents' constant questioning, doubt and worry will consume their children's energy and make them feel that their parents don't trust themselves.

Moreover, parents should change their inherent thinking habits and keep up with their children's growth.

You can't always stare at small details, you should know how to look at the overall situation and the overall state of your child.

? As long as the child as a whole continues to improve. Parents should fully trust their children even if they don't understand some of their practices.

Don't let children see their parents' expressions full of doubt, worry and distrust.

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Children will feel that their parents don't support them, and they are not United with themselves. They have ideas in their hearts and are unwilling to tell their parents, for fear that their parents won't understand.

A blind sheep with a rope around its head led the lion forward.

The lion said, "You can't see, I'll go by myself."

The sheep said, "No, you tell me why you go left?"

The lion spent half an hour explaining.

As a result, at a crossroads, the lion turned right and the sheep doubted again. Ask the lion, "Why are you going to the right again?" Didn't you go to the left? "

The lion spent another half an hour explaining to the sheep.

At the end of the day, the lion didn't go far.

Sheep are like parents who don't understand leadership.

Lions are like children.

The lion thinks that the sheep can't lead him, and wants to lead the way by himself.

But in this process, I was repeatedly questioned by the sheep, which consumed my energy and energy.

? Children's English is already very good, so parents should guide their children to get more points in other subjects.

Example: A child worked hard, but failed to get into an ideal high school.

The reason is that my math scores are excellent, and I can get 1 15.

Four months before the middle school entrance examination, parents were asked to take math classes, plunge into math and spend a lot of time on math.

I wasted the chance that I could get more marks in other subjects in the same time.

Mathematics 1 19 in the senior high school entrance examination, other subjects have not changed much, which eventually leads to the disadvantage of the senior high school entrance examination.

Therefore, learning strategies are very important, and children have already adjusted.

I didn't continue to ask for remedial classes in English subjects that I am good at.

Parents should stand taller than their children and know how to lead.

Conversely, you shouldn't dwell on the details of your child's change of mind, or even be anxious about it.