At that time, many people did not go out to work, and the countryside was full of surplus labor. A large number of prodigals have been bred, and village heads, markets and schools are all places where they gather. Make trouble and fight over trifles. Ordinary people dare to be angry and dare not speak, because more is better than less.
At that time, there was a local ruffian in our village, whose height was only 1.5. Rely on one's own brother. Chop everywhere with a kitchen knife every day, often chopping other people's saplings and crops while walking, even roadside rice. I've always wanted to show off his swordsmanship, and no one dared to say that he was afraid of making a determined effort.
Every time a group of them gather in a primary school in the village, the principal of the primary school bows and greets. I'm afraid they'll make trouble at school, and I'm also afraid that loafers in other villages will find fault. I hope they can help me settle it. Anyway, every time I see them, the headmaster gives them cigarettes. The students saw them at the school gate and didn't go out to play.
That year, a chubby substitute teacher named Xiong came to the school to teach math in the third grade. He is also very young and wears a pair of glasses. Anyway, when he came, the principal said he was a serious college student. He begged others for a long time before agreeing to come to school as a substitute. At that time, college students were favored by heaven. I heard that we worshipped him and always thought that we would be admitted to the university like him. I didn't expect his force value to make us worship more and become Rambo Bay of our school.
He has been at school for several months and has never seen him greet a loafer. People began to think that he, like other teachers, was trying to protect himself. Look at him. He usually speaks softly and is very polite to everyone. Anyway, everyone thinks that he is a city man, a cultural person and a local.
One day, those loafers came to school to play again, and no one gave him a cigarette when the principal was away. The guy took out a kitchen knife and cut the door open. After a while, he scratched the door of the classroom with a knife and shouted "Kill". No one in the school teacher dared to say anything about him, nor did the parents of several students. Followed by a few loafers are laughing, throw its weight around.
When he came to the door of the third grade classroom, the door was open. He entered the classroom and scratched the door, which scared the students in front of him to cry. Teacher Xiong got angry at once and told him to go out at once. Of course he won't listen, and they also think Mr. Xiong is afraid of them. I didn't expect Mr. Xiong to punch him, and the gangster was stupid. The kitchen knife was also robbed by the teacher and cut at the loafer.
That guy seems to suddenly wake up and run for his life. The people behind didn't help, so Mr. Xiong chased him out with a kitchen knife. The gangster ran very fast. Teacher Xiong stood at the school gate and shouted, You are a gangster, and I am the ancestor of a gangster.
After that, those people really dare not go to school. The school suddenly became clean, and the people around him suddenly became very respectful to Mr. Xiong, and all the delicious food at home was sent to him. His sentence: you are a rogue, I am the ancestor of the rogue! Also sent.
Later, I learned that Mr. Xiong is really a cruel person. I lost my job because of fighting with hooligans. From then on, the students became very good as soon as they saw him. ...
I know a vice president of the county hospital very well. He told me that there was a sweeping monk in their college, who was also the vice president, majoring in Chinese medicine, and was extremely indifferent to fame and fortune. According to his medical ability and level, he can declare to be the chief physician. His academic qualifications, skills, clinical experience, performance appraisal and other qualifications have been achieved, but he has always been the deputy chief physician. Every time it comes to evaluating the chief physician, he doesn't participate in the evaluation. Colleagues advised him to evaluate one. He said, give it to someone else. What do I need those empty ones for? Being an assistant chief physician is enough. Just don't take the initiative to participate in the evaluation, and throw it aside every time you see the declaration form.
He doesn't care about fame and fortune, but he loves learning. He reads medical books when he is free at work, and doesn't like playing cards and socializing when he is free after work. He still reads professional books and is not a bookworm. He is gentle and not stubborn, and he is polite and well received. Such a person who loves to learn is naturally very skilled in medical skills. If you want to see Chinese medicine in this hospital, go directly to him, not to anyone else. Medical ethics is quite noble, and the prescription is only for the right medicine, not for expensive medicine. Personality is really indescribable.
His son also regained his character, admitted to medical school, admitted to graduate school, and wanted to continue his studies. He asked his son to come back, not to waste time on reading, and said that people who study medicine should practice medicine in time, and don't let his son go to a private hospital outside to find a high salary, so he came back to work in a local hospital. He is also a very talented young doctor. The tutor is too good to say anything.
At first, there were two trendsetters in my work unit. They really made a fortune when they went into business. I heard that Shenzhen is a good place to make money. Hearing this, my unit ran five more to do business in the sea! It's really different when they come back. They wear belts in fashion, and their hair is curled up! It turns out that Ray is making a video recorder. At that time, the domestic demand was more than 3000, and they only sold me more than 2400, so I bought one, and the quality was ok. I think these people are very nice. They know how to make money. Most of them get paid like us, so some of them get rich first after reform and opening up!
After reading the answers to many questions, it seems that people who are "very powerful" want to be "rich" by default ... This is the sadness of cognition! ! In fact, those who have made outstanding contributions to the country and dedicated themselves to human progress, but are unknown in real life, are "very powerful" people! !
There used to be a tenant in our compound. His rent is 350 yuan every month, leaving early and returning late every day. He is willing to do all kinds of hard work. Later, I found out that he was the owner of a private company with a net worth of tens of millions, and the company was going to go public.
One day I went out to buy watermelons, and I met a man who went to my grandfather's compound and looked around. The other person looks about 40 years old, wearing a cap and acting furtively. I don't think he is a good man.
So I asked, "What do you do?"
I smiled in the opposite direction and said, "Hello, my name is Li. Do you still have a house here? I want to rent it for a long time. "
I looked at each other carefully, then pointed to an 8-square-meter house near the toilet in the compound and said, "That's the only one left. Do you think so? "
The other person went to have a look, then put down the luggage on his back and breathed a sigh of relief. "Well, that's it. How much is it a month? "
I was shocked, because this room is close to the toilet, and many people are unwilling to rent it, so grandpa is going to tidy up and put things in the warehouse, but I didn't expect to rent it out today.
I quickly told my grandfather about it. After he came, he said to the other party: "My houses here are all 400 a month. Your house is relatively small and close to the toilet, so let's call it 350! "
Grandpa said that the other party did not bargain, readily agreed, and moved in the same day.
The other person's whereabouts are mysterious, as if he moved here just to have a place to rest at night.
Every weekend, I see him buy some steamed bread and instant noodles, and his life seems very frugal.
In summer in the north, everyone likes to get together and drink beer. Sometimes the other party will join us. As long as we go there that time, we will grab the order every time, and then say with a smile, "It's good for everyone to be happy together. Just a flower to make money! "
We all thought that the reason why the other party rushed to pay the bill was for poor self-esteem, so Grandpa often sent some cooked meals to the other party, and then seriously told the other party: "Son, you can't suffer yourself outside, you should eat or eat."
When the other party heard grandpa's words, they patted him with their hands. When grandpa turned to leave, he secretly wiped a tear and was heartbroken.
I don't know how this matter was known by Sister Wang in a hospital. She came to the hospital to visit her grandfather and left 500 yuan when she left.
Grandpa said he wouldn't want the money, because Sister Wang came from the countryside and worked as a green belt in the city, and she didn't earn much money every morning.
Sister Wang said, "Thanks to your care, we migrant workers in a foreign land can stay in this big city. Other people's rents have gone up, and we all remember that you didn't go up a penny! "
Sister Wang returned to the compound and told everyone about it. She hopes that everyone can help raise money and help grandpa tide over this difficulty.
Li Ge entered the room and came out soon. He came up to me with a card in his hand, clapped his hands and said, "There are 200,000 in it. You can use it first. If it is not enough, you can go to our company to find finance. "
The other party stunned me on the spot. Where did the other party get 200 thousand? What does his company mean?
The other party didn't explicitly say that I couldn't accept this money, so I refused: "Li Ge, although you have lived here for almost three years, what do you do? We haven't figured it out yet. I can't take this money. Take it back! "
When I said this, the other party probably understood what I meant, so he pulled me into his room and pointed to a pile of certificates on the table and said, "This is a technical award for robot research and development in the city, the country and the world. Now do you understand what I do? "
I shook my head and didn't understand what the other person was saying. Then the other party explained, "I am engaged in technology research and development. I set up a technology research and development company at the beginning of 17, and now I am planning to go public in the future. "
Until now, I looked at the award certificate form and realized that what the other party said was not lying to us. It turns out that people around us who are so low-key are so powerful that a wave of their hands is 200 thousand!
1. Li Ge has been living in this small room of 8 square meters since she started her business successfully.
According to him, only by coming back here every night can we maintain the passion of starting a business.
Although he is rich, he is very frugal, and even adding an extra ham to instant noodles is a waste.
He told me that only if you suffer, can you become a master, and only if you don't forget your innovative spirit can you achieve your ultimate goal.
Every dinner party, Li Ge grabs the bill, but he never says that he has money in front of others, just because he values this sincere friendship more than money.
He believes that in a person's life, three or five friends can often eat, drink and have fun together, and this friendship cannot be measured by money. Because when you are hungry and cold, people who look down on you are not friends, and when you are prosperous, people who flatter you are not friends.
4. When my grandfather thinks he lives frugally because of economic pressure, he often gives him some help in life, and the other party doesn't refuse my grandfather's kindness.
But in the end, the other party was willing to take out 200 thousand to treat grandpa, which shows that he not only lived a low-key life, but also knew how to repay his kindness.
When others misunderstood him, he didn't refute him, but crushed these rumors from the outside world with his own practical actions.
I think this should be the reason why he succeeded in starting a business, because his pattern disdains to make unnecessary explanations, and he understands that rumors stop with wise men.
The first one is a patient person in the face of difficulties. As the saying goes, "Where there is a will, there is a way", which means that there is nothing in the world that cannot be solved, but people who are afraid of doing things will have no patience and many people will give up easily. Therefore, when there are patient and self-motivated people around us, such people are likely to be low-key and powerful.
(2) The second kind is people who can recognize their own shortcomings and defects. Even talented people will have shortcomings and defects, but some people don't realize their own problems, but will show off their own advantages or strengths. Therefore, it is not a shame to realize your own shortcomings. On the contrary, people who can do it are open-minded and far-sighted, so such people are usually low-key, but very powerful.
3 people who have goals and will not give up easily. In our life, many people will set the same goal, but some people have achieved it and some people have not. Faced with such a problem, many people will think that luck is at work. But in fact, this has a lot to do with whether a person can persist, because those who can set goals and stick to them will eventually become powerful people.
Nowadays, with the continuous development of society, all kinds of people around us stand out. If you want to survive in this society, you must develop a good way of doing things in order to achieve "natural selection, survival of the fittest!"
Finally, I hope that through my sharing, everyone can remember one sentence: high-profile work, low-key life, in order to harvest unexpected surprises!
A classmate's friend, a foreigner, Lao Lin, is nearly 45 or 46 years old.
When we first met, he was wearing a pair of ordinary black cloth shoes, no more than 150 yuan visually, an old white T-shirt and a pair of white jeans. In my spare time, I always smoke in Yunnan with a hookah. He drives more than 65,438+10,000 people, and it looks ordinary.
Eating at the dinner table is also a matter of a few words. If you ask him a question, he will answer you a question.
Last summer vacation, we went to Kunming to get cotton-padded jackets, and Lao Lin invited us to dinner. In the next two days, he invited us to eat seafood, and also invited senior officials of a certain army and my classmates (and had dinner with him several times). Later, I heard from my classmates that Lao Lin is engaged in real estate development and is the vice president of their Yunnan Chamber of Commerce. The best thing is that his family is very rich and has more than 60 houses in his hand. We can't afford to buy a house in Kunming all our lives. Their family has more than 60 houses. That's great.
Later, I met her daughter-in-law and little cotton-padded jacket. Mother and daughter are also low-key and kind. Although we don't meet many times, we can always chat together.
Therefore, in my opinion, Lao Lin should be a low-key and powerful person.
My father was an engineer in a large state-owned factory before and after the Cultural Revolution, and he was a famous genius in the factory. But my father didn't go to school for a few days, and all the skills were taught by himself.
He is tall 185, handsome and handsome, and can be called a handsome man. Usually I don't talk much, but the most powerful thing is piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, engineering technology, and almost omnipotent.
He is good at learning, and he does everything decently. My father is a leader in the factory, and he knows everything about mechanical installation, engineering drawings and cost accounting.
The workers are also willing to follow him. Although he is self-taught, his ability is innate. Later, I thought, there are people in this world who are confident in their work and have colorful lives. They try everything and never give in to failure. Up to now, I haven't found a man as versatile as my father.
At that time, my father had a "black old woman" motorcycle produced by Qingqi factory, which was rare and he liked it very much. Usually, cars are polished. If there is a problem, repair them yourself, dismantle them all and unpack the engine. Repaired and reassembled, the accessories are incomplete. I made it on the machine tool myself, and now it's called modification. It's amazing.
The building where we live now was designed and built by him. The quality is so good that the steel nails on the wall can't be smashed in. All the furniture in the house, the combined cabinets at that time, were made by him personally with woodworking skills.
In my impression, there is no job that my father can't do. Do you think it's awesome?
There is a buddy, we call him third brother, who is a very low-key but powerful person!
When I was a child, my third brother was naughty, swearing and fighting. He's an asshole. Almost every day people complain, either teachers, classmates or neighbors. So the third brother was beaten and scolded by his parents almost every day, but he never relented. Instead, I got a "thief skin" and became a famous "punk" nearby!
When I grow up, my third brother doesn't like going to work. First, he doesn't like to earn less. Second, he doesn't want to be bound. Later, I helped my friend manage the hotel and met a man who changed his fate.
That day, a middle-aged man and a little girl were eating in a restaurant. The little girl is very good-looking and is called a middle-aged teacher. The two of them ordered six dishes and chatted while eating.
Several young people at the next table looked at the little girl's beauty and teased her a few words, but the middle-aged people ignored her. Who knows that they are pushing their luck, holding a glass to provoke ... Third brother can't see it, so he stepped forward to stop it. Those people refused to accept it and began to swear. Although the third brother can fight, he can't hold the opponent's number. At the critical moment, the middle-aged man broke his hand and beat the six or seven people to pieces with three strokes and five styles ... Later, the third brother was accepted as an apprentice by the middle-aged man, and then he gradually changed and became a quite capable person!
Third brother is bold and has no boundaries. One year, he and I went to Inner Mongolia to do business and met a hard nut to crack. The other party asked for a drink. "Brother, as long as you drink all the wine, everything will be easy!" The third child smiled and said, "Then let's do as the Romans do. Come on! "
So, the other party brought a plastic bucket of 10 Jin, which was filled with local minor burns and poured a big bowl for the third brother and himself. Third brother looked at people holding bowls and plopping, just like pouring cold water. He also learned to pound and pound, and drank a big bowl ... so two people drank white wine bowl after bowl!
At that time, we were all very scared, because we had never seen Third Brother drink. We all know that third brother's grandfather died of alcoholism, so his children don't drink. But that time, the third brother drank a lot, and the two men drank more than ten kilograms of white wine, both of which fell down and slept for more than ten hours. Later we asked him how he dared to drink so much for the first time. He smiled and said, "Nothing. Although your brother can't drink, he has the courage to drink! " "
Third brother is good at kung fu, but he never shows it. He will not be impatient, and he will never make a move. In those years, we often went to remote places to receive goods, and sometimes we encountered unexpected accidents.
Once, I went to a family to collect ancient coins. At that time, I got news that my family built a house and dug a foundation, and dug up six bags of ancient coins, that is, fertilizer bags. But after going, the owner didn't take out so much. Third brother took a look, and most of them were ordinary Song money. When he negotiated the price, paid the bill and was about to leave. There are many people outside, all relatives and friends of the owner.
They surrounded us, mainly meaning to add money. The third brother didn't say anything, added money according to their meaning, and then drove away. Who knows those people set up roadblocks at the head of the village, got some big stones and branches, and some people blocked the road.
The third child got off the bus and lit their cigarettes. After a long discussion, they still want to increase the money. The third brother disagreed, and one of them simply squatted in front of the car and played hooligans. The three brothers picked him up in one hand and threw him far away ... There were several men who jumped at once, all five big and three thick men. The three brothers knocked them down with three fists and two feet. Others were afraid to go on, so they moved those things that were in the way. Later, he sold the rest of the ancient coins to us, but the third brother still gave the other party a satisfactory price!
The third brother respects the teacher and is the most rootless and uneducated of all the disciples of the master. But the third brother is diligent and studious, and remembers everything the master said. Even a small note written by the master is a treasure … so he is also the most promising of all the disciples of the master!
However, the third brother never forgets his roots. Even though he has a lot of money and a high social status, his respect for teachers is still the same as before, which other disciples don't have.
Third brother sends money to the master every year. Every time I came to see the master, I began to kowtow as soon as I entered the corridor. The owner lives on the fourth floor. No matter how many people are present or what others think, Third Brother always knocks all the way upstairs ... and every time he comes, he cooks at the master's house, puts on an apron and cooks with the teacher's mother. People who don't know will never think that the person who brushes the frying spoon and cuts potatoes will be the celebrity respected by many people!
Third brother is heartless. He fell ill a few years ago. When he closed the door, his wife did something wrong to him.
One night, he felt better and wanted to go home to see his wife and children and surprise them. However, I found my wife talking and laughing with a man, and then I turned off the lights and rested. Third brother didn't come into the house, hid outside and smoked a few cigarettes, so he went back for illness!
A year later, the third brother recovered, returned home and filed for divorce with his wife. My wife doesn't even agree to cry again. The third brother didn't say anything about the reason why he wanted to die. After that, I have been separated for two years. No matter what my wife does ... I respect the elderly and serve my children. Before my wife agreed to divorce, my third brother never had any contact with her again ...
Third brother's life in his later years was particularly low-key. He lives alone in a semi-old community and a big three-bedroom house. I write fishing every day, occasionally go to the antique market, and sometimes I can find some treasures.
I saw him squatting in front of a booth a few days ago, bargaining with the shopkeeper, who spoke harshly. "Don't buy if you can't afford it. You can give me a few hundred dollars for my 50,000 to 60,000 things ... "The third brother just smiled, which made people's nose and eyes hurt a few words and didn't reply. I couldn't take it anymore, so I went to pull him away. He smiled and said, "Look at you, you are angry again! If you want to buy goods, he can say anything, and he didn't scold his parents! "
"Why don't you go if they don't sell it?" I'm still angry. "What is it? He was angry, which proved that he was impatient. You see that he will definitely sell me in the future! " Third brother's voice did not fall, and the shopkeeper caught up with him and put in a good word and sold it to third brother!
-The ancients said that "a gentleman speaks but doesn't do it", and the third brother did it. This old gentleman is definitely a gentleman, as the saying goes: be a low-key person, like a jade gentleman!
Yes! People who are very low-key and powerful actually look inconspicuous, low-key and boring, and don't like publicity, but they may be skilled, and they will be trained if they are not careful. The so-called master is in the folk!
For example, upstairs opposite our community, there has always been an erhu player who has been practicing for six or seven years. At first, he only studied for a short time, and the sound of playing was particularly difficult and intermittent, like crying, not to mention how ugly it was, but people kept practicing for an hour or two every morning, and no one bothered him.
It was not until the sudden heavy rain in Yining this morning that there were few pedestrians in the community that I heard a string of voices coming from my ear. It feels wonderful, the timbre is soft and smooth, and it obviously shows some professional standards!
It turns out that the erhu player has been training for several years, and now his level is advancing by leaps and bounds. It's really not easy! I really admire such people, who have perseverance and unremitting efforts and are worth learning!
There are several relatives and friends around me, all of whom are the trendsetters of reform and opening up. They are expensive but low-key, dressed simply but pay attention to eating and drinking, thus affecting many people!