Random thoughts on talented girls 1 If you were a genius, what kind of life would you choose? Or if you have a gifted child, what kind of education and life will you provide him? The movie Genius Girl made me think.
Mary is a genius in this film. At the age of seven, she can understand all kinds of higher-order equations, which shows her extraordinary talent in mathematics. Her uncle knew that she was different from ordinary people, but he decided to send her to an ordinary public school and receive an ordinary education.
But in the first math class, Mary felt bored, and the teacher's questions were not challenging for her. Facing one question after another raised by the teacher, she answered effortlessly, and her big eyes were full of firmness and self-confidence. I thought this talented girl would be defiant and defiant.
But what happened on the school bus overturned my imagination. A boy got on the bus trembling with a cake. The exquisite cake made by hand immediately attracted the attention of all the children in the car, and everyone gave a voice of admiration. The boy was all smiles, but when he got to his seat, he was deliberately tripped by a fat boy of 12 years old. People fell and the cake was ruined. I saw Mary look angry. She got up from her seat and gave the fat boy a punch.
Maybe we will immediately think of something like "Impulse is the devil". Indeed, the result can be imagined. This incident alarmed the school, and the principal severely criticized Mary, and even advised my uncle to let Mary transfer. But my uncle's reaction shocked me. He sincerely appreciates that seven-year-old Mary dares to openly challenge 12-year-old boy, which shows that she has a strong sense of justice and is brave enough. So he didn't blame Mary for it. It is because Mary educated the headmaster about his unfriendly attitude that he taught Mary to learn to respect others no matter what.
But how should Mary grow up? What kind of life should I live? These problems have been bothering my uncle. His deepest fear is that he made the wrong choice and ruined Mary's life. He witnessed the depression and suicide of the mathematician's sister, and thought that Mary should live a normal child's life and enjoy simple happiness.
And Mary's grandmother wants to fight for custody and intends to train her into a mathematician. When the lawyers of both sides argued for the thin court, two completely different outlook on life were placed in front of us, and even the judge failed to make a judgment. Maybe there is no right or wrong in itself, just choose different ones.
I like Mary's joy of skipping and singing in bed, cheering with open arms at the seaside and clapping her hands with her friends better than Mary's concentration on various higher-order equations. She is a genius, but also a child. More importantly, give her warm company and let her grow up in the sunshine of love.
When she is locked in the house by her grandmother and doing research with the math masters, she will miss the cat with only one eye at home, the arms of her fat aunt in the neighbor and, of course, the love of her uncle. Otherwise, when my uncle visited her, she wouldn't cry so hysterically.
Fortunately, my uncle insisted on his choice later. Although Mary has a math class with adults in a better school, she still plays games like an ordinary child after class. I want to give Mary the right to experience life, give her enough free room to grow up and try my best to shape her sound personality, which is more meaningful for her growth.
Talent is a precious gift from heaven, and what is rare is our life.
A talented girl, with her grandmother, is a tool to inherit her mother's mathematical talent. It looks great, but she is unhappy. At my uncle's place, she is a free little girl who lives an ordinary life like an ordinary person every day.
Mary is a gifted girl. This is a movie "Genius Girl". When I first read the name of this movie, I thought: talented girl? It must be about her extraordinary life! She must have made a great contribution to the progress of mankind. But I didn't know that Mary didn't think so until I saw the movie. Mary didn't want to be a girl that day. She just wants to be an ordinary person, with the love of her parents, the friendship of her friends and a happy family.
But God didn't grant Mary's little request. Her family was torn to pieces, but it was not without warmth. At least my uncle and this little niece have a beautiful little house. In this small family, I can give Mary what she really wants. My uncle is a kind person. I thought: without Frank, Mary's situation might be worse. Don't! It must be worse. But if Frank didn't raise Mary, Frank's life would be even worse.
The arrival of every life is meaningful in this world, and everyone will cheer and congratulate the arrival of this little life. Maybe Mary didn't understand it before, but now she must understand it better than anyone, because when she was born in this world, everyone blessed her. I'm sure Mary doesn't want the name of this movie to be "Genius Girl", but she certainly wants the name of this movie to be "Happy Girls".
The movies I went to see in Mei Tuan CE were small, fresh, a little literary and mainly warm, but it was difficult to define what kind of movies they belonged to.
Inspirational, impossible. Although the protagonists are adults and children, children are only one in a million geniuses, not examples of success through hard work.
Warm, not to mention. The hostile and cold relationship between Frank and his mother Evelyn is chilling, and Mary's life experience can even be said to be the direct result of the bad relationship of the previous generation. Although there are few positive descriptions of this talented girl's mother, it is not difficult to see that her life is not smooth and bumpy. In her grandmother's eyes, school is above everything else. I don't even think Evelyn is much better than Mary's father of cutting. Her concern for Mary is mainly due to her desire for academics. Why else didn't she and her granddaughter meet each other a few years ago? The whole movie shows Frank's family background as a messy and abnormal feeling. Even at the end of the film there are some hints. In fact, my brother's achievements in mathematics may be no less than his sister's, but he was too rebellious and later became a philosophy teacher.
With Frank as the center, his family is fragmented in essence, but his little home with his little niece Mary is perfect and warm. The story of the whole movie is actually very small. To sum up, it is to give the child what she really wants, not to replace what she thinks is good for her. Frank was firm at first, and never wanted Mary to follow her mother's path and be an ordinary child. But when Mary entered the education system that ordinary children had to enter, he was not firm and even became negative to himself, which made people feel sad! The conflict between emotion and secular ethics is also the highlight of this film. Fortunately, later because of Mary, Frank made the right choice in the sense of human feelings. After reading it, he was amazed at the influence of family on a person. I even guess that if Frank didn't have to raise his little niece, his situation might be worse.
The fourth part is about a talented girl in this movie. Most of the plots are stories about his grandmother and his uncle fighting for this talented girl, including his uncle and his teacher. His uncle wants her to go to the first grade, the second grade and the third grade like an ordinary child ... His grandmother wants him to inherit the legacy of his mother's mathematician and continue to demonstrate a Millennium conjecture.
In fact, his grandmother is a bossy person, an Englishman, and of course she does things in the English way. His uncle is an assistant professor at Boston University and his mother is a mathematician. Of course, both of them are geniuses because his grandparents are geniuses. His uncle dared to resist, became a ship repairman, lived on the so-called mosquito and fly farm, and his mother committed suicide because of mental illness. In fact, his mother has confirmed the puzzle, but she has hatred for her mother. Let his uncle make this argument after his mother died. The blow to the talented girl ended when his uncle took out this argument in exchange for the custody of the talented girl. His uncle thought he took it out and his mother let it go, and he didn't have time to take care of the girl.
As a result of this incident, the child is in a professional math class and usually gets along with other children.
The father's concept is that "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren." I thank my father for letting me know that I want to go my own way and explore my own world. He didn't deny or admit all my decisions. He won't tell me there is a pit ahead, because he knows that I will bypass him again only if I really know there is a pit. He just needs to tell me right and wrong. We don't have Mary's talent. Mary knows what she wants, but we don't. Maybe grandma Mary's way is right, maybe uncle Mary's way is right, but it's better to do it by yourself, because they can't accompany and guide them all their lives.
Indeed, Mary is a genius, but he feels bored in the math class at school, but he boldly admits that the little boy he has never liked is better at handwork than he is, and also makes his classmates applaud him hard. When the boy was bullied by other boys, she stood up bravely. It can be seen that Mary is a brave and clever little girl, so I believe I will take a more practical road.
From the beginning, the little girl Mary showed her talent in mathematics, which is incomparable to other children of her age. It's a boring feeling around her, but I agree with my uncle. Although her knowledge has surpassed that of her peers and even adults, she is only seven years old and needs to learn to get along and solve interpersonal problems. She can stand up for the weak and beat the big boy who bullied the children, or she can confess her true feelings and accept the original group of boring people.
It can be seen that little girls can make people feel cold and impatient at first, but my uncle takes the cat that girls care about as an example, hoping that girls will not hurt those birds like cats. In the process of fighting for custody, the girl was very sad that her biological father ignored her, and her uncle didn't have much to comfort her. Instead, she went to the hospital to let her witness her birth, and her relatives were as happy and excited as they were, not a drag.
During the time when I sent the little girl to foster care and parted from my uncle, I inexplicably thought of another paternal love in I am Sam, which was sincere and simple, which was the key to impress us. The little girl's crying is really sad, a kind of anger that she doesn't know how to cheat but is reluctant to go. Of course, my uncle finally took the little girl back, and my grandmother got the proof process. When she knew the truth, she finally returned to her mother's role and mood.
Finally, the little girl grew up with her uncle, learned her favorite math, and didn't lose her innocence. How nice!
In the family, parents are important and indispensable, but it is no problem to be indispensable. Try to be a qualified parent, put aside the harm of family background, become a better self and educate the next generation.
Genius girl 6 feels that I saw the movie of genius girl this week, which was really good. It mainly tells the story of a beautiful, intelligent little girl with superhuman mathematical talent, Mary, and her handsome uncle Frank who grew up with her. The little girl inherited her mother's math genes. Her mother was a mathematician, but she committed suicide when she was young.
Let's use a few short films to express our ideas.
Environment can really shape people. In a clip, Mary punched a 1 1 year-old child with a nosebleed for her classmate. In a survey, she said that she often watches fighting games with her uncle every Saturday, which explains why her little girl can beat her older child to the pulp. Although Frank didn't try to hide these children, she tried to help other students, but in the wrong way and with good intentions. If Frank blames Mary for the mistake, the justice in her heart may disappear.
The difference between Chinese and western education: respect children's ideas. In one clip, Mary asks if God exists. Frank really doesn't know. He has his own opinion, which may be wrong, so why destroy other people's ideas? Frank respects Mary's views and ideas very much, instead of imposing his experience on her, just because he has traveled more than her. Mary may be young, but at least she can keep her view of the world. As for whether the result is good or bad, she can feel it for herself.
If some parents in China take fewer detours to protect their children, they will tell them what to do and which way to take. If they don't tell their children the right way, who else will be so kind to them? Maybe there is no right or wrong between the two kinds of education, but the ideas are different.
Mary has superhuman talent in mathematics, and Frank and her grandmother have great differences about her school education. Frank hopes that Mary can go to school normally like other children, live in harmony with her classmates, be friends, and live a happy childhood that children deserve. Instead of skipping classes to take all kinds of math classes.
Nobody likes a self-righteous child. I remember the column "Laughing at Teachers" also said that no one likes to passively prove that he is backward and inferior to others, not to mention that a learned teacher is proved by children.
In the movie, it is obvious that the teacher's own math problem is wrong and can't be solved, but the teacher is proud of it. You think there are so many children with mathematical talent. Mary finally told the reason in her grandmother's question. I feel that sometimes adults are really self-righteous, and even children know to respect adults instead of proudly showing off their talents.
Reflections on talented girls Article 7 Life needs all kinds of balance.
Only study/career, without family intimacy, people will commit suicide regardless.
If you only indulge in intimate relationships and ignore career development, you will feel incompetent and inferior, and the economy will be tight, which will eventually be unsustainable. Some careers and relationships are balanced and sustainable. When a person has a certain advantage, it is easy to use this advantage extremely and infinitely, leading to the lack of other things in life.
Uneven development will always make people unable to get supplies from other items, and eventually run out and stagnate.
This girl with mathematical talent only studies mathematics, lacking the nourishment of relationship, which leads to mental dryness, collapse and self-termination.
The man who only painted dinosaurs in the theory of life relativity is also devoted to his major and does not pay attention to maintaining close relationship. Life is bound to be hard.
Zheng Jun also said bitterly that he regretted that he only cared about his career and neglected his family. If I understand this, I will spend some time and energy to balance it. Maybe I'm not a big hit today, but my life must be relatively smooth.
So life needs balance. Even if you walk slowly and earn less, you should also give consideration to the relationship cultivation of family, lovers, relatives and friends.
Money, health and inner energy keep life going. Will not stagnate, will not be cornered. You can go on happily and always have the motivation to go on.
I think it is best for every parent, even everyone, to watch Genius Girl, because it can give some answers: If you really love children, what should you do? As long as one really loves children, does it make any difference whether the child is raised by an uncle or a father?
One more thing: I hope you won't feel sorry after reading it. Why are others so lucky to have a talented girl? The little friend is five years old and still can't hold the pen well? That's because they have a talented mother, understand? You don't have to sigh how you are not a genius. There are geniuses in this world, but there are too few. Don't worry. Most people are just ordinary people.
In reality, many parents I see are like the grandmother of the girl in the film: they love their grades more than their children. They keep saying that they love their children, but they never want what they really want and what they need. A few days ago, I saw a mother proudly talking about how to educate her children in Weibo: In order to punish her children for not completing the task according to her requirements, she kept her 6-year-old child at home, let her cook by herself, and then others went to play. I wonder if she has asked herself a question: Why does the child have to complete the task according to her requirements?
There are many similar things in real life. Children with poor grades and unsatisfactory grades will be humiliated and punished by their parents. I know they will say, "It's not all for your own good. Only by getting high marks can you find a good job, earn a lot of money and live a happy life. " Yes, it may be true, but do parents have parents? Maybe this child doesn't want to live the happy life you said? He just wants to be a poor man and live a cosmopolitan life. If your child really wants this life, can you still love him and accept his mediocrity as always?
Many people can't. Even though the grandmother had killed her daughter and forced her to commit suicide, she still felt that she was right. She continued to want to pin her selfish desires on her granddaughter, forcing her to attend various training classes, making her famous in the world and satisfying her desires. Can this be called loving children? This is love for oneself, love for achievement, love for status, but not love for children.
But the film also tells us clearly that if you only care about your own achievements and your own desires, regardless of your child's real thoughts and feelings, what will you get in the end: your daughter committed suicide. Before committing suicide, she deliberately concealed her world-famous achievements and told her brother to wait until her mother died before releasing them to get back at her mother.
You see, actually hurting others will eventually hurt yourself, right? Even if the person you hurt is your child. ...
The little girl in the film is very lucky to have an uncle who really loves him and is very wise, otherwise it is difficult to guarantee that she will not repeat her mother's mistakes. But many people are not as lucky as her, so many teenagers are committing suicide.
Sometimes it feels unfair. Parents can choose to have children, but children can't choose whether to have children or not and in which family. Even so, I have always been told by my parents that having barbecued pork is better than having you. Actually, I really want to refute it. Don't be born if you dare!
In addition, I found that "people in the city want to go out and people outside the city want to come in" is also suitable for this film. Ordinary parents want their children to be different, while gifted parents want their children to be like ordinary people. Life is besieged everywhere.