The child is in the first grade of primary school. Because of the introduction of the double reduction policy, their homework is basically completed at school. When I come back, I mainly check my homework and preview the text. His literacy basically meets independent reading, and most of the words are known by him playing cards. Going out to see a street sign will guide him to know. In fact, children are more acceptable than adults think. I don't deliberately force my children to study. I just urge them to learn to read a little. He reads it by himself, and circles the words that he can't. Then I read with him. I think reading independently is very important.
Pinyin learning is the most important thing, so I will practice it deliberately. Read pinyin together not long ago. He told me all the classifications of pinyin. I knew he had learned it, so he basically finished his homework later, and then I checked, didn't accompany him, and didn't help him pack his bag. He has to do all these things by himself, and so does his study. My education has been gradually liberalized.
In the eyes of the child's father, I am not a qualified bandu mother. I let them do everything by themselves. I don't check whether the books and tapes he packed are correct ... On the issue of children's education, we are completely different. He is very careful and takes care of everything for his children. I am just the opposite, because a child can only pack his schoolbag and go home to school. What will he learn every day? I won't know until I check my schoolbag after school. This problem ended when the teacher asked the children to clean up by themselves, and I was still an incompetent mother in class. I laughed it off.
Taking care of everything for my children made me see the end of my life. If I form this habit, I will take care of his life all my life, but I can't stay with him all my life. His life should be decided by himself. So I don't mind being an incompetent mother in Bandu.