? Recently, because I read several novels, I also had the idea of writing. There are three reasons, one is to exercise your brain that you haven't used for a long time; Second, I hope to find my self-worth from the text; Third, I hope I can really write something to encourage my daughter to study when she is older.
? Because of these three reasons, I began to study deliberately. Although it is intentional, it is certainly not a bad thing. Occasionally, I will go to see some movies with big brains. Before going to bed at night, I will deliberately put away my mobile phone in advance, make some wild imagination and try to make my mind active. After doing this for a month, I began to feel anxious. I feel that I have been working hard. Why not design a story that I feel particularly satisfied with? Occasionally, even if I think I can get in, I can't continue to expand.
? It was not until I saw Mr. Luo's words that I seemed to suddenly realize.
? Last night, I watched my daughter write Sudoku under the lamp. I remember that more than two months ago, when she first opened the Sudoku book, she started with four squares. I gave her a brief introduction to the rules, and she began to write cheerfully. Every day after that, she comes home from school. No matter how much homework she has tonight, she needs to draw or dance. I'll ask her to write Sudoku for a while, even if she didn't solve any problems today. Now she has started practicing Jiugongge and finished two books, Smart Gege, with 200+ topics. This is something that makes me proud when I think about it. I am surprised at the rapid progress of my children, but my insistence on this matter cannot be ignored. I attach great importance to the cultivation of children's thinking, and my obsession with this aspect mainly stems from the fact that I always felt slower than others when I was a child. But it is also for this reason that I trained my daughter in this respect several years earlier than my parents' consciousness. But at the same time, I don't have any special expectations for what level she can reach. After all, heredity is an inevitable objective factor. But from this little thing, I realized this sentence, people should never attach irrelevant value to what they value. If I may add, I think life is full of surprises.
This sentence can be directly applied as an axiom in the case I want to write. I value it. I hope I can write something right away. Before going to bed every night, I will pray. When I wake up tomorrow morning, I will come up with enough good ideas to surprise myself and make myself come true. Of course it may happen, but not now. I'm even thinking that it's best to finish 300,000 articles a month. If I can get angry and earn a considerable income, I can make a living by hobbies from now on, and I will never be afraid of losing my job again. This eagerness for success invisibly adds irrelevant value to this matter. If this goal is achieved, my life can start from now on. If not, my life will continue to stagnate. As a result, frustration and anxiety followed. But after reading this sentence, I began to reflect on myself. Nothing in the world can be done easily except buying lottery tickets. I shouldn't take gains and losses too seriously, thinking that as long as I make some efforts, I can get the desired result immediately, and this result will make my life change dramatically. The best attitude should be to pay attention to the process value of the whole thing before seeing this change (reading makes you more calm and broaden your horizons), and at the same time set up some small result values for yourself and accumulate them slowly. So I began to take part in the Japan Day Challenge and try to win a small medal, which is a small goal I set for myself temporarily.
? For another example, the misfortune of marriage can be frustrating. The hardships of life will make many women feel that if I can have a soul mate, my life will not be as desperate as it is now. But life is life. Even if the things you care about really happen, you finally have the right partner, and new troubles will be waiting for you to challenge. Because there are too many uncontrollable factors, from natural disasters such as earthquakes, tsunamis, plagues, to financial crises leading to unemployment, business closures, illness of family members or themselves, and children's troubles facing further education, this is life.
? People should never attach marginal value to what they value. This sentence is really useful. May the people who meet by chance encourage you.