This may be the main reason for the high cost of raising children in Northeast China. Although it is a fig leaf, its existence is reasonable. Let's take a look at the past life, a famous after-school class, and see if we can skip it.
Hello, everyone. Past after-school life. My name is "after-school class". Everyone should be familiar with me. If you are not familiar with it, you are not a parent yet. It's only a matter of time before you know me. Let's take a look at my past life first: Many years ago, the Ministry of Education implemented nine-year compulsory education that benefited the country and the people, and then introduced a policy of reducing the burden. The starting point of the Ministry of Education is good. I hope that children can reduce their schoolwork burden, let them have more time to do things they are interested in, develop their hobbies, and let them develop horizontally.
Everything has two sides. With the policy of reducing the burden, the children's schoolwork burden has indeed been reduced. However, after that, it moves from one endpoint to another. With the reduction of children's homework, their grades have also declined. Later, a few parents couldn't sit still. They got together, found several teachers and began to plan to make up lessons for their children. This is my past life.
The grim situation faced by children in reality, we might as well look at the current curriculum of children in school, from which we can see clues. The picture below shows the school curriculum of a fourth-grade elementary school child. Please stop and enjoy it.
Dear friends, have you seen it? God horse art, morality, calligraphy, hometown ... within a week, the main subjects are six languages, four mathematics and two English! You are not mistaken, English is actually two sections! Let's talk about English. According to this child, their English teacher seldom gives lectures in class, or shows cartoons, and does homework with mobile phone software twice a week. Let's take a look at this software.
In this kind of after-school life, children have little class time and teachers don't give lectures very much. After-school homework is basically just a form. Shout: Who will help these children? Don't worry! ! ! I'm coming! I'm coming! I'm coming with a smile!
I have spacious classrooms, and some after-school classes are even bigger than schools; I have excellent teachers who are well versed in teaching methods and concepts, and they are ten thousand times harder than what the school teachers say. I have a front desk sister paper that can communicate with my parents without barriers, and I have excellent financial performance. The charging system is perfect and accurate for you. Over the past few years, it has grown slowly, and there has been an organization with scale, organization, discipline and advanced management system. In a trance, we seem to have surpassed the school. Oh, dear! We really didn't mean to!
According to the fourth grade children, the monthly tuition fee is 120 yuan, which is the board fee. Then, no then. And she signed up for three after-school classes, ideological training, English and picture books (at least) for one month in 960 yuan. Other interest classes, no time to sign up. Some people may say indignantly: Nobody cares about you? This ... er, it seems that someone is in charge ... er ... and someone has the cheek to say: I won't let my children report for after-school classes in the future! Hehe, I refuse to accept it! If you don't keep up, the children can't keep up with the progress of the school at all, and their grades will count down. Don't tell me you dare to bet your child's future. You dare not. There are others ... finally, their words are getting paler and paler.
My appearance has solved the burden of most parents. Because lovely parents still need to go to work, work overtime, take care of their elderly parents and so on, parents have tried their best to live. We really can't bear to let parents stay up all night to tutor their children. Besides, when parents tutor their children, it is not the mother who is kind and filial, but basically the lion growls. Not only can you not get a good effect of tutoring your child, but it will also make your child feel afraid. Moreover, the teachers in our after-school class are affable, aggressive and meticulous. How's it going? Parents will be relieved to see our Excellence and send their children to me!
Will you go to class after class? Let's go I have to do this. This answer is very affirmative, any thinking and mode that can't adapt to social development will eventually be eliminated by society! We can't eliminate after-school classes, we can only adapt to their existence. When all the children are in class after class and their own children don't go, it is equivalent to taking a step back.
Where is the root cause? If I have to answer this question, I can only say two words euphemistically: system!
No way, every stage of social development has its distinctive characteristics, and extracurricular classes are an inevitable product. Whether you like it or not, where are they! As parents, we just need to appropriately adjust the number of extracurricular classes for our children. I think extracurricular classes will eventually play a positive role. Do you agree with me?
(1) Shi Ningzhong's representative papers.
Shi Ningzhong (20 1 1). From eight diagrams to sixty-four hexagrams: on the logical thinking of Zhouyi. Philosophical research,