Son Zhang Jian: graduated from class 060/kloc-0 of Changjun Middle School in 2009. College entrance examination results: Chinese 12 1, mathematics 142, English 137, science and engineering 265, information olympiad 20, with a total score of 685. Now he is a student of Tsinghua University Institute of Economics and Management.

Father Zhang Mingchun: He worked as an infrastructure worker in the Provincial People's Hospital and graduated from Hunan University with a major in industrial electrical automation.

How difficult is it to train children with 685 points in the college entrance examination?

For Zhang Mingchun, this is not difficult. During the third year of senior high school, my son can watch football matches and travel freely with his backpack. It doesn't matter if he gives up the qualification of walking in Tsinghua.

Making friends with your son is not new, but it's Zhang Mingchun's educational secret. On the day when your son comes of age, can you joke like him: "Go out to play because you are short of father's sponsorship money, but if you can't get through, find a mother who works in obstetrics and gynecology."

Note: If you are too nervous to sleep, just pull up and chat.

Recalling the scene of Zhang Jian sprinting for the college entrance examination last year, Zhang Mingchun summed up the key word "decompression".

He spends 15-30 minutes chatting with his son every day. The topic is casual, but he doesn't talk about study. "We are all fans of Barcelona, and we will be excited when we say this; I also took him to He Long Sports Center to watch the Super League and relax. "

The schedule before the exam was set by Zhang Jian himself. He should write a written report to his father: get up at 6: 30, rest before 12 in the evening, don't stay up late, and sleep for dozens of minutes in the afternoon.

The night before the college entrance examination, Zhang Jian was too nervous to sleep. My parents didn't understand what was going on at first, but later they learned that the teacher had made a joke and let him win the first prize. Because he couldn't sleep, Zhang Mingchun dragged him out of bed to chat. "Which is faster, carrying a bag or putting it down?" Later, I also talked about which game is good recently and where to play in the summer vacation.

Fill in the volunteer: give up walking in order to choose your favorite major.

At the end of the exam, the first sentence that Zhang Jian said when he came home was: "Tsinghua was admitted, and the first estimate was gone." Zhang Mingchun said, the exam is over, why do you think so much? Go out to play at once. So the son went to Phoenix with his classmate's backpack on his back.

In fact, Zhang Jian got the qualification to walk Tsinghua several months in advance. However, his favorite major is not within the scope of the candidates' examination. At that time, he called his father in Beijing to ask him what to do, but Zhang Mingchun asked him what he was going to do. Zhang Jian said, then I'd better come back and take the college entrance examination. Zhang Mingchun was very supportive of his son's practice, telling him that "the college entrance examination is an experience, and life is not perfect without it".

Father and son had a little disagreement when filling in their volunteers. Zhang Mingchun is an engineering student. He hopes his son can realize his dream of studying architecture, while his son wants to study international finance. After two days of "happy troubles", Zhang Jian is still filling out the financial report, and Zhang Mingchun has never said a word "no".

Daily study: treat homework as an exam.

Zhang Jian was asked to "take homework as an exam" from the beginning of elementary school.

Zhang Mingchun said that his children don't have to do their homework immediately after school. "Let's play for a while. After eating and taking a good bath, you can calm down. Besides, I have been nervous at school for a day and must relax. " Zhang Jian spends five minutes reviewing every subject, and then takes the book away to consolidate his knowledge like a closed-book exam. If you really can't do it, put it aside and go back to the book to find ideas, but it's still closed. After finishing his homework, he spent another five minutes previewing each subject. "Then no matter him, entertainment, sleep. What Olympic math class was sent to school when I was preparing to enter junior high school, fearing that I could not enter the four famous schools. "

Managing yourself is Zhang Mingchun's second requirement for his son. Zhang Jian liked reading when he was a child, but his parents were very busy at work. He will be sent to Hunan Book City on Saturday, and then taken home at dinner. Basically he can rest assured. Sometimes dad will ask which one he likes to buy for you. Zhang Jian said, you don't have to buy it. It would be great if it were free. You can read any book. Many parents worry that their children's use of mobile phones and MP3s will affect their studies, but Zhang Jianguang has worn out six MP3s and MP4s, none of which are Chinese songs. He uses them to listen to English songs as listening exercises.

Surfing the Internet: Internet addiction disappeared after being severely beaten twice.

It is hard for outsiders to imagine that today's Tsinghua students used to be children with Internet addiction. Zhang Mingchun said that Zhang Jian had been in the Internet cafe for a week. At home, he thought he was at school, and the school thought he was calling in sick. Having no money, he opened his mother's bag and stole it. Zhang Mingchun bought a new broom and gave him a good beating. "I still hit it later, so I hit my face and hit it for the second time." This is the first time that Zhang Mingchun has physically punished children like this, and it is also the only time that Zhang Jian has never been to an Internet cafe since then. "When hitting people, my lover ran out of the door and couldn't bear to see it. Then I had the idea of corporal punishment, and I would run out the door. I feel very sad that I can't get this hand. " Zhang Mingchun said that this incident was a great lesson for children and left a lot of thoughts for themselves. He worked in the hospital information center, but the computer at home was not connected to the internet until Zhang Jian went to college.

Zhang Mingchun strongly opposes beating children. He repeatedly stressed that he should be friends with children and play with them. When Zhang Jian was a child, no matter how hard he got off work every day, Zhang Mingchun would accompany him to pile blocks for half an hour. When he bought it, the building blocks were four or five barrels. When I grow up, I still play together, listen to music and watch movies. Since junior high school, Zhang Jian has called his father Lao Zhang and his mother Lao Zhou. On the birthday of 18, Lao Zhang joked with his son: Let's go out and play. You are short of money for Lao Zhang's sponsorship, but if you have difficulties, find Lao Zhou who works in obstetrics and gynecology.