For example, excellent women with good looks and good conditions often become older women; For example, if you bring a friend with a lower face value than you, the chances of successful blind date will be greatly improved; For another example, if you can properly show your shortcomings on dating sites, you may get more attention and popularity than shaping yourself into a lovely girl next door. The following are the four core contents of this book.
Part 1, many girls will be a little depressed to ask such a question: where are all the good men?
Women with good looks and good conditions are often overlooked. Why? What you don't know is that in fact, the man's proposal is based on the man's love for the woman on the one hand and the woman's efforts to please them on the other.
Weaker women will probably try their best to attract his attention when they meet a man they like; The more powerful lady confidently thinks that she is worthy of any man and will not try her best, because she knows that there may be better men waiting ahead.
The second part, how important looks are in love. Therefore, it is obvious that appearance is decreasing in marginal effect. Imagine a scene where a baby needs to change diapers at four o'clock in the morning, or a scene where someone needs to help change the catheter bag 60 years later, no matter how beautiful it is. When choosing a spouse, we need to sort our core demands and give them a certain weight to facilitate our choice.
Part3, here's a Pascal bet, which is a scene where you face an object you like very much, but you are afraid of being rejected. At this time, you should bravely attack and risk being rejected to actively pursue each other, which will get better results than waiting for the pursued person. Because in this case, although the winning rate is not high, the income is extremely high, and failure is understandable.
The fourth part, the four laws of love. First of all, be straightforward. Being too controlling or controlling in love will not work in the long run, and straightforwardness will give you the greatest guarantee of success;
Second, be kind to others. From the beginning of cooperation, keep it, unless there is a reason to stop cooperation.
Third, don't submit to humiliation. Don't let yourself be used by other people's bad behavior. If someone treats you badly, you should take corresponding revenge according to the situation, but don't overdo it.
Fourth, we should know how to forgive. Once the other party's bad behavior is punished, it is necessary to turn over this page as soon as possible and return to the state of cooperation. It is not good for you to punish each other often for a mistake. Overreaction will only cause the other side's adverse reactions, and you will fall into an irreversible vicious circle. Therefore, we should look ahead as soon as possible and continue to get along as a team.