Nowadays, people are used to being divided into many circles according to different occasions and things, and various WeChat groups have emerged. The parent group of students is one of the WeChat groups in this circle. However, some people find that the story between parents is not simple; Many times the teacher sends a message casually, and the parents in the group will "like" and praise. Recently, some parents reported that they unfairly arranged their short son in the last row of the classroom all the year round because they questioned the teacher accepting gifts among parents. As a result, the head teacher kicked himself out of the parent group.
In the era of WeChat, everyone has a group. What to say and how to say it in different groups is becoming a science, especially in places like "parents". It is reported that recently, a parent posted on the Internet complaining that his son was in the second grade of primary school, but since the first grade, the teacher has been arranging him to sit in the corner. My son often sits in the corner of the last row.
A student's parents said that their son is the shortest in the class, and he also talked to the teacher. Later, he sat in the corner. The insider told her that the child sitting in the middle was a gift from his parents.
He loves his son very much, so the parent wrote an article about the unfair treatment of his child, with the title "How are the seats for primary school students arranged?" Why does my child always sit in a bad position? "Subsequently, the parent forwarded the article to the parents' WeChat group. Soon, the class teacher made such a reply: the seating arrangement in the class is fair and just. According to the principle of going back and forth, there are always children sitting in the end! There are no special seats. If you are not satisfied, you can consult the principal's office. You can go to any class that has a special seat! With this energy to pay attention to seats, I suggest you be a responsible mother and pay more attention to your children's study!
It seems to be in line with the class teacher's speech. Then, the math teacher sent two test papers to the group in succession, suggesting that parents "improve their children's grades." Then, a line appeared in this group: You were moved out of the group by the class teacher to chat.
If you disagree with each other, kick your parents out of the group. Although China has not yet promulgated laws and regulations governing groups according to law, it is not illegal for group owners to kick whoever they like. Is it inappropriate for parents to be kicked out by the teacher when they question aloud? As soon as this news came out, many netizens supported this parent. They feel that unfair treatment does exist. Kicking parents out of the group is a teacher's guilty conscience.
Netizen: Did you say it hurts? Kick people if you can't make sense!
Netizen: It is definitely wrong to move others out of the parents' group just by talking about sharing seats. This is pure abuse of private rights.
Netizen: If my child is treated like this in class, I will also talk or ask the teacher in the group. Why did the teacher ask the parents out of the group instead of solving the problem?
However, some netizens feel that parents' speeches have affected the harmony of the class and the prestige of the teachers. There is nothing wrong with the teacher kicking parents out of the group.
Netizen: Even if "injustice" is established, parents' behavior is inappropriate. What's more, the saying of "giving gifts" is only hearsay, and there is no evidence. It is really inappropriate to speak rashly in the group, and it is suspected of publicly slandering the teacher!
Netizen: such a big man, don't you know how to behave? Doing so will only hurt children.
Netizen: What teachers hate most is that parents send some negative information in the group that affects class harmony. You are "pointing" in the WeChat group. Are you not allowed to hand out papers to expose your shortcomings?
However, there is another kind of netizen standing in the middle. They believe that parents have developed into a small society, and the behavior of parents and teachers will affect its atmosphere, and both sides need to exercise restraint. With the deepening of the discussion, some netizens who have already become parents said: In addition to the children's various homework, we have to deal with parents now. We should use our brains to say anything, and we can't relax for a moment.
Netizen: It's not easy to be a parent, but now I have to stand by for 24 hours. I am very careful among my parents. My heart is really tired.
Parents must be resentful because of unhealthy atmosphere. Teachers should be honest and self-disciplined, fair and just, and I believe parents will have nothing to say.