The pain he suffered was not enough to change him.
Gambling is also a habit. Like all habits, we rely on them, but this habit is particularly strong. We call it addiction.
Addiction is a stubborn habit. All habits are stored in our subconscious, repeating behavior patterns. Addiction, this behavior pattern, lies deep in the subconscious.
The way to change all habits is the same, that is, to change the ideas behind the habits or to release the feelings brought by the habits. Either way will do.
In fact, he is not addicted to gambling, but has formed a high dependence on the feelings brought by gambling. What binds him is emotion. As long as the feelings are released, the habits will be automatically eliminated.
Some habits are more harmful, just like gambling. So we are particularly eager to get rid of this habit. But what really prevents changing this habit is that the parties are unwilling to change. The biggest obstacle is that all parties have not really made up their minds to change.
This requires him to bear more pain to change. Many changes in life are actually done in pain. Only when the pain is enough can he make up his mind, so it is called making up his mind.
Generally speaking, any persuasion is useless for a person who is habitually dependent. He knows this habit is not good for him, but his subconscious mind binds him too tightly and he can't get rid of it.
It is difficult for many people to quit smoking, let alone gamble. When one day he can no longer bear the pain caused by gambling, his belief system will begin to shake and collapse. This habit can be broken.
In fact, gambling addiction, in the final analysis, is a psychological imbalance. To put it bluntly, I just don't want to lose money. Winning money is more greedy. Can be answered from these two aspects. There is also that when gambling wins money and benefits from the beginning, people will unconsciously fall in love with the psychology of getting something for nothing. In addition, in the process of gambling, the brain will be in a state of excitement, and the excitement is no less than drug abuse. It is difficult to get out of the gambling quagmire. Of course, if you gamble less, you will lose money and even lose your family. We must understand this truth.
It is not difficult to quit gambling, but it is really difficult to say. It varies from person to person. Why do you say that? Because some people have weak self-control, they often gamble when they have some money in their pockets, and try their best to borrow money or even cheat and rob to commit illegal acts. And some people always keep a clear head, try to keep themselves without money, and then stay away from gambling places. After all, the environment will affect people. The above is the theory I have probably analyzed, but there are still many shortcomings and the answers are not very good. . .
Gambling has three characteristics:
1, their actual participation right;
2. A sense of arbitrary control over the process;
3. It is possible to win.
Addicts must be people who have been deprived of the right to participate in affairs for a long time, controlled and naturally have never tasted victory.
So is game addiction.
It's actually quite simple. It's just luck.
This kind of psychological problem is born to most people, even animals.
In fact, a gambler himself realizes that nine times out of ten he loses, but he just can't control himself. Finally, luck is at work.
So the only way to quit gambling is to force him to quit gambling for a while, so he won't want to gamble, but once he gambles again, he will want to gamble again.
Many people don't understand that since gambling is painful, it is better not to gamble. Isn't it easy and difficult to quit gambling?
As the saying goes, "It's easy to go from frugality to extravagance, but it's difficult to go from extravagance to frugality". This sentence is also very suitable for gambling, because some people have tasted the sweetness of gambling and think that money comes quickly and easily, so they start to spend money lavishly. After a long time, they take it for granted that it is difficult to have no money. If they want to go back to that simple life again, many people will not adapt. Therefore, they will consider turning bicycles into motorcycles. ......
I've heard such a thing before. One day, a man gambled with 5,000 yuan and won 6,543.8+0,000 yuan. Then he used the money to eat, drink and have fun. The next day, he gambled again and lost everything. Then he couldn't take it anymore and committed suicide by jumping off a building. Why? Because he thinks he lost 654.38+0 million! I feel that I have lost too much! All people are like this, they will feel that the money in their hands is their own, and if they lose it, they will feel that they have lost a lot, which will lead to an explosion of mentality. This is human nature.
In fact, sometimes, those gamblers are not calm for this reason, and some people always exaggerate their losses. Ask a gambler how much you lost and say I lost 100. In fact, the actual loss of this person may be one or twenty, and the money that tasted the sweetness was spent.
Many, many people can't understand themselves correctly and treat these things correctly, which leads to constant gambling and gambling, because they lose money and want to make a comeback. In the end, there is nothing.
Therefore, if you want to quit gambling, you must first recognize yourself, then quit addiction, don't be confused by temporary interests, and finally let yourself rolling in the deep.
Teacher Qi Qi, a national treasure master, said, "Let bygones be bygones. The money you lost is something you don't belong to in this life. Let bygones be bygones, so that you can start over. "
When you know yourself clearly, you are not far from successfully quitting gambling. Pay attention to your habits at ordinary times, keep yourself away from situations that are easy for you to gamble, keep yourself busy, constantly enrich yourself with realistic things, and live a full and happy life, then gambling will leave you.
Those gambling debts can be repaid, and a reasonable repayment plan can be arranged. If you don't know how to deal with it, you can consult a professional and let yourself get on the right track slowly.
Simple is simple, ordinary is ordinary, everyone has their own different life, so forget about gambling, let bygones be bygones, stop thinking about it, and then live a good life!
Gambling on the boundless sea, turning back to shore!
Because they didn't analyze it from a rational and mathematical point of view, they just wanted to gamble. It is suggested to study the mathematics behind gambling more, so that you will not gamble blindly after learning it.
It is difficult to quit gambling. The most difficult thing to quit gambling is people's psychological desire, that is, the desire to win money, and then addiction As long as people get rid of the desire to win money, after a period of addiction, they can quit gambling!
I have to say that gambling is really exciting. Once addicted, it will form psychological dependence. It is really difficult to quit, because it is difficult to fill the psychological boring hole after quitting.