Before talking about how to love children in the right way, let's talk about the goal of cultivating children. I think children are like a tree. Physical development is the trunk, fruits are his academic achievements and talents, and roots represent self-esteem, self-confidence, responsibility, learning ability, living habits and self-worth. If we compare fruit to talent, then the root is virtue. Only when the root system is developed can the trunk and crown grow better. Having both ability and political integrity is our real training goal.
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Don't compare with other children. Self-esteem is the root of the tree and can't be hurt. It needs to be protected. Many parents think that their children have no self-esteem, which is a mistake. We often talk about whose children study well, whose children are obedient and smart, and so on, and often compare our own children with those of others.
Therefore, not only did the child not get a good improvement, but it seriously dampened the child's self-esteem and lost self-confidence, which led to the child getting worse and worse. Children's long-term emotional depression may break out in adolescence, and the consequences are unimaginable. From now on, we won't compare other people's children with our own. Children are God's best gift to us. We should love him, respect him, protect him and cheer for him. That's enough.
Parents are the most worthy of our study. When children grow up, family education accounts for 90%, school education accounts for 8%, and social education only accounts for 2%. This shows the importance of family education. Nowadays, mother plays a leading role in family education, and the height of a family depends on the height of mother's thought.