Of course, there is a difference between children and children. We often see that it is difficult to educate a child in a family with double academic qualifications, and the child can't teach it, which directly angers parents with high IQ. This happens from time to time. The difference between children is a problem. Another parent's mentality of teaching children is completely different from that of teachers, and children are in a completely different state when facing parents and teachers.
If you learn to bully your own children, you can't teach them. Maybe it will be easy to educate other children. Some parents who are scum don't care about their children, but their children just study well, have strong self-study ability and turn their brains quickly. This is the difference between children. There is a saying that we are willing to accept the mediocrity of children. This is a fact. The same teacher in the same class means that some children don't have to worry about the teacher and are excellent in all aspects, while some students have to be watched by the teacher every day.
Personally, I think the way Xueba's father educates his son may be wrong. Every child's qualifications are different, and the education methods should be different. If his children are slow to accept, they should teach slowly. Don't worry, then children like encouragement. We should be more sure of their ability. Children educated by depressed families are mostly self-abased and introverted, and have no great courage, so it is of great significance to encourage them more and do a correct question.