Famous schools also have the back of the moon.
Mr. Zhang, a 36-year-old employee of a state-owned enterprise, watched his colleagues around him use various connections to send his children to a prestigious school three years ago. Teacher Zhang also managed to win an unplanned target, paid a school selection fee of 15000 yuan, and sent his son to a famous primary school, which is good at math competitions. It is said that half of the students can be booked in advance by prestigious schools. On the successful day of choosing a school, Mr. Zhang happily hosted a banquet for all his relatives and friends. Relatives and friends are also happy to say: "When you enter a primary school, your Tucki enters a famous junior high school with one foot."
Three years later, Mr. Zhang was full of remorse for his original decision to choose a school. First of all, he didn't expect famous schools to be "full of talents", and classes were as crowded as downtown areas on holidays. In order to ensure the safety of students, the teacher adopted a "captive" management mode, requiring all children not to run or jump, and only to walk in small steps after class. Children in grade one and grade two are more lively and active. The teacher actually stipulates that you are not allowed to go to the playground after class, so you can only walk and watch in the corridor. This imprisoned life soon turned Mr. Zhang's son into a chubby one. For parents' complaints, the teacher is also very helpless: "Everyone wants to send their children. We have to expand enrollment, expand enrollment. Five or six years ago, we had more than 1000 students, and now there are nearly 3000 students. So many children are crowded in a small campus. Who will bear the responsibility in case of collision and injury? "
Because it is a prestigious school, teachers are under great pressure. The school lists the children's unified examination results as the teacher's assessment indicators. Therefore, every time there is a unified exam, the teacher sends a shiny practice roll carpet bombing to give the children extra lessons. For a sensitive and rebellious child like Mr. Zhang's son, this boring cramming training stifled his interest in learning early and made him feel tired of learning.
Another famous school characteristic that Mr. Zhang is not satisfied with is that teachers rely too much on multimedia teaching. Obviously, teachers of famous schools have many opportunities to go out to give lectures and compete in classes. Making the contents of the blackboard into PPT can be recycled, and there are some highlights to see in the class competition. However, ignoring blackboard writing at ordinary times may not be conducive to grasping children's attention. Teacher Zhang understands the child's psychology at this stage. When the teacher writes on the blackboard, it is easy to catch the child's attention through the rhythm of writing on the blackboard. PPT is a happy-go-lucky thing, which is not conducive to emphasizing key points.
What kind of children are suitable for choosing a prestigious school?
I have participated in logical thinking training and extracurricular training courses on language intelligence and interest since kindergarten.
For example, if you can walk a maze once, it shows that your child has strong logical thinking. If your child can vividly and concisely summarize a complex story in a few words, it shows that your child's language intelligence is excellent. Children's understanding of painting, handcraft and musical instrument performance and their artistic expertise are the basis for children to have the opportunity to show in famous schools.
Second, the child is docile and quiet, can carry out the teacher's regulations to the letter, and has no conflict with the high-intensity learning state.
Third, I have a strong sense of competition and enterprise, like the fierce competitive environment, and have a certain degree of insensitive adaptability to the stimulation of frequent exams and frequent rankings, and will not easily feel that I have hurt my self-esteem.
Fourth, good study habits, organization, self-discipline, can complete large-scale training without complaint.
Five, good physical fitness, can withstand stress and lack of sleep, will not often get sick or low immunity.
Small class education brings a complete childhood.
Contrary to Mr. Zhang, Mr. Qiu, who once studied in Europe and now works in a foreign company, sent his daughter to a small-class characteristic education school at his doorstep. Although many relatives and friends warned him: "The so-called small-class schools are now almost another name for ordinary primary schools, because only these schools can recruit less than 40 students in each class before they are qualified to engage in small classes. Without a prestigious school, the number of students enrolled will be less than 50. " However, Mr. Qiu resolutely decided to let his daughter have a happy childhood. After inspecting the elementary school close to home, he said, "It's especially like a public school in the United States, with a large playground, complete sports facilities, colorful classrooms and lockers for children to put their bags and clothes. The desk is an interesting hexagon, which is convenient for assembling flowers of various shapes to organize group discussions. The teacher is very experienced and kind, and has the energy to observe and take care of 30 children in the class. "
Mr. Qiu thinks that his daughter is expressive, self-disciplined, courageous, likes to interrupt, and doesn't like rigid training with a lot of exercise. "A child like her will definitely not be liked by teachers when she goes to a prestigious school, and there will not be many opportunities for performance." Facts have proved that Mr. Qiu's judgment is in place. His daughter went to primary school like a duck to water. In the fourth grade, she was directly elected as the captain of the whole school. Usually, she is the seed player in various competitions. At the same time, as a member of the school rhythmic gymnastics performance team, she went to Hong Kong to participate in the competition.
Mr. Qiu said: "Let the child go to a small-class characteristic school, just to let her grow up freely and naturally before the fifth grade and feel a full childhood." He stressed: "Putting the competitive pressure on a child under the age of ten prematurely is not good for her whole outlook on life and personality development."
What kind of children are suitable for choosing small class education schools?
First, the kindergarten stage is fun, and there is little special training in thinking. When I entered primary school, I was still in a relatively poor state in terms of knowledge reserve.
Second, introverted, shy and timid, afraid to express boldly, passively accept knowledge. Such children will become "drag bottles" in the eyes of teachers when they go to famous schools, and they are easily marginalized and ignored by teachers. Children with timid and autistic tendencies need repeated encouragement and attention from teachers.
Third, self-discipline is not strong, lively and active, or have a certain rebellious mentality, stubborn personality. Psychologically speaking, the reason why children have rebellious psychology lies in the lack of growth space given by teachers, which includes both concrete life and study space and intangible psychological stretching space. Famous schools have many talents and experts, and the competition is fierce. Invisible, they can't give children enough space for daily life and study, and because of the competition between children, the psychological space is narrowed, which will obviously aggravate children's rebellious psychology.
Fourth, children show signs of partiality prematurely. Some children show signs of superior linguistic intelligence and weak logical thinking in kindergarten, or have strong mathematical reasoning ability and poor language expression ability. Such children tend to be biased in primary school. Why do you want to send him to a small class characteristic school? Because only the teachers in these schools will take the trouble to help their children with short-leg subjects. Moreover, teachers in famous schools are too busy to improve their quality.