Won 55 awards, shocking animation! Forgive yourself with my life. ......

Borrowed time

Borrow my life to regret,

Lend me a lifetime to be strong,

Forgive yourself with my life.

The film "Borrowed Time" was written by Pixar employees and young Argentine directors Lu Hamu-Raj and Andrew Coates. This film premiered at Austin Film Festival on 20 15, and won awards in film festivals around the world.

A heartbreaking story is told under the grand theme of "forgiveness".

A sheriff and his son are driving in a carriage on this road. The journey was long and boring, and the father finally amused his son with the reflection on his pocket watch.

Unfortunately, it never rains but it pours Father and son met a horse bandit, the carriage got out of control, and father fell off a cliff. The son tried to rescue his father, but accidentally killed him.

My father's pocket watch was damaged by gunfire, and time was fixed at that moment, which will never be forgiven.

Many years later, the son who has become a sheriff returned to his hometown, ready to pray for forgiveness with his life. Just as his son was about to jump off the cliff, he found his pocket watch left on the edge of the cliff.

The pointer of the pocket watch actually turned again. ...

No matter how careful you are,

There are inevitably regrets in life.

But we have to overcome difficulties and move on.

Mu Xin once said in a book: "If the fruit is rotten, it will rot."

Each of us has made mistakes, and each of us has an unspeakable past. But even if the fire in the sky spreads into a bonfire, the past will not really become the past.

Sweep away the ashes from the burnt land, and you will still see the winding scars.

But should these scars be your shackles? Become an indelible mark, as if reminding you all the time that you are a bad person, or that you used to be a bad person, and everyone who knows this will hate you.

I don't know,

I won't.

In fact, how can we fully know what others think? What we describe is just what others think in their own eyes. And other people's views are not necessarily completely correct.

It seems that everyone only sees your arrogance and your mistakes.

But no one knows your pain in a crisis.

No one has ever seen you feel remorse and regret, and the time to correct your mistakes has reached the brink of collapse.

So what really pains you is not others' response to you, but your inability to accept yourself in the past.

We all know that the past cannot be changed.

Whether it's shelter evil people from evil practices or poor management, it will eventually survive.

Yes, the footprints in the mud will be printed bit by bit in the new chapter in the future. God only gives people brushes, not erasers.

But don't be afraid, because those footprints will eventually get thinner and thinner.

No one can't make mistakes, no one can't fall, but not everyone can get up and start over.

It takes more courage to live than to die.

Only those who have the courage to face the bad themselves can go on bravely and completely with this responsibility for the past.

Before that, sincerely say sorry to those who have been hurt.

Then, don't go the same way again.

Although the fruit is rotten, the seeds can germinate.

Crisis intervention group consultation

Tsinghua university psychology department

Fan Fumin

2065438+June 09 14- 16

Turn "danger" into "opportunity" and transcend adversity

Theoretical and Technical Practice of Group Counseling in Crisis Intervention Psychology

Psychological crisis refers to the obvious changes in living conditions due to sudden serious disasters, major life events or mental stress, especially the insurmountable difficulties of existing life and experience, which makes the parties in a state of pain, accompanied by behavioral obstacles such as despair, insensitivity, anxiety and autonomic symptoms.

Crisis intervention is an act of rebuilding or restoring the psychological balance before the crisis by mobilizing the individual's own potential in the crisis situation.

Crises are often sudden and far beyond people's expectations. If we can't control it quickly and intervene in time, crisis events will lead to people's cognitive, emotional and behavioral dysfunction and social behavior confusion.

Many people misunderstand "psychological crisis" and think it is far from our life.

In fact, marital emotional problems, sudden death of relatives and friends, terminal illness, unemployment, being scolded by leaders, accidents and other events may cause psychological crisis as long as individuals feel unbearable. What people need most at this time is crisis intervention. Crisis intervention has become an important branch of clinical psychological service.

Psychological crisis assessment and intervention can not only help individuals, but also help counselors avoid occupational risks. Many counselors have limited understanding of the process of crisis intervention. This course is taught by teacher Fan Fumin to help you master the theory and skills of group counseling in crisis psychological intervention.

Teaching address

3667 Zhongshan North Road, Putuo District, Shanghai

China normal university sports center/room kloc-0/13

Course fee

Original price: 3600

Care price: 2800

Training time

2065438+June 09 14- 16

Act now!

Consultation telephone number:

02 1-62233995、62233803

Teacher Shen 177 17675853 Teacher Huang17717397812.