First, parenting skills books
For new parents who have no parenting experience, the most important thing is to know some practical parenting skills. The following books are highly recommended:
1, Sears Parenting Encyclopedia (USA)
This book is mainly aimed at the problem of parenting from pregnancy to 2 years old. Sears is a famous pediatrician in America. They have raised eight children and have 40 years of pediatric medical experience. The greatest feature of this book is rigor and science. Books that belong to that dictionary level. When you don't understand something, you can always find the answer. Very detailed, the author is really experienced and constantly summing up.
2. Spock parenting classics (USA)
It is mainly written for the child-rearing problem of 0- 18 years old. It is a supplement to Sears Parenting Encyclopedia and can be purchased for reading.
3. Practical Parenting Law (USA)
A very practical and operable book, not preaching or boring, tailored for all new mothers. It's a book on parenting.
4. Zheng Yuqiao parenting classics (China)
Zheng Yuqiao Parenting Classics series brings together 20 years of clinical experience and cutting-edge scientific parenting ideas of Dr. Zheng Yuqiao, a parenting expert. Combined with the institutional characteristics of China baby, we provide a comprehensive parenting plan for novice parents to understand the baby's physical and emotional needs. Very suitable for China's parents to read.
5. "Baby Health Open Class" (China)
This book is the representative work of a famous pediatrician, Dr. Cui's Clinic, written by Parents' Must Read Magazine 10. Its content is divided into three parts: infant nutrition, common diseases and nursing. Through the analysis of real cases in various outpatient departments, the main points of parenting are explained in a nuanced and simple way, and the most advanced parenting knowledge in the world is disseminated to help parents establish a correct concept of parenting.
Second, parenting psychology books.
1, Li Yueer, who took away the happiness of children.
This is a very thought-provoking book. Li Yueer hit the sore spot of traditional education with her sharp writing. Teach parents how to give their children love and respect.
2, "Love and Freedom" Author: Sun Ruixue
At present, this book is also regarded as a "parenting bible" by many mothers. It is a book written by Sun Ruixue in combination with his own practice, which truly conforms to the actual situation in China and is what parents in China need most. Telling parents how to give their children love and freedom correctly makes up for the defects of traditional parenting concepts and practices in China.
3. Capture the sensitive period of children Editor: Sun Ruixue
The cases in the book are recorded by teachers and parents, and they are all real cases that happened to children when Sun Ruixue was running a school in Ningxia. Sun Ruixue made comments at the end of each case. After reading these real examples and analysis, we can really understand the "secrets" of many children and their development laws, so as to avoid using adult "colored glasses" to look at children's behavior during their growth. It is important to know this, otherwise, it is likely to inhibit the normal development of children.
4, "Too much of a good thing" Author: (America) Claude, (America) Townsend
In China's traditional concept, it is difficult to draw a clear line between people. This book is a classic about how to keep boundaries between people and avoid hurting themselves and others.
Third, parenting exchange books
1, "Positive Discipline", by jane nelsen (USA)
This is also a book that has benefited me a lot, subverting many traditional parenting concepts and letting parents know another brand-new parenting concept. "Active discipline" is a method of disciplining children without punishment and pampering. Through examples and related parenting skills, parents are taught how to raise their children correctly. This book is not only for educating children, but more importantly, for parents to learn to educate themselves to improve themselves and influence their children.
2, "Children will listen to what they say, and children will say what they listen to" Author: (America) Adele Farber, Elaine Mazlisch.
The mutual respect and practical communication methods provided by two outstanding education experts make the relationship between parents and children of all ages easier and more quality.
3, "Child, give me your hand" Author: (America) Gino.
A very classic book, a masterpiece that completely changes the way parents communicate with their children. Reading it is good for both parents and children. The author, Dr. Guinot, is a famous American psychologist. His life is very short, and he devoted all his energy to the study of children's psychology and the cultivation of parents and teachers, which is very worthy of our admiration.
Conclusion: Reading parenting books is important, but it is more important to practice it in combination with your family and children's situation, rather than just reading. If so, reading them won't be of much use.
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