There is a saying that I am very touched: I have been in the dark for a long time, and I am afraid to see the sun.

At first glance, this sentence is to lock a person in a dark room. After a long time, he lost the nature of chasing the sun and even feared to see the sun.

Yes, as long as a person is imprisoned in an environment without hope and vitality, he will gradually forget his original ideal and go with the flow.

Everyone has a sense of crisis, but not everyone can realize it. However, the more you stay in a comfortable and single environment, the easier it is to lose your sense of crisis.

Many people are lazy, don't like thinking, take pains to find solutions, but find a rational reason for their infinite indulgence:

It's not that I don't want to work hard, but it's useless to work hard.

I have a friend my age, but he puts on a look of "breaking the world of mortals and seeing through the world" every day.

His emotional intelligence is not high, he doesn't pay attention to discretion, and he often offends people.

I suggested that he take an oral class, but he refused directly without thinking: forget it, reading is too far away from me.

He is fat and young, but he has joined the crowd of three highs.

I usually ask him to run for exercise, but unfortunately, I stood him up many times because I was chasing variety shows.

He wants to take the constructor's certificate, and he is full of enthusiasm. He won't stop until he reaches his goal.

However, they couldn't resist the temptation of indulging in pleasure, fishing for three days and drying their nets for two days, and their original grand plan went away.

I asked, don't you have a sense of crisis?

He looked disdainful: "Life is too short to eat, drink and be merry"!

Regarding the future, he is too lazy to think about many questions about life: if he thinks so much, he might as well have a good sleep.

He didn't realize the above social crisis, health crisis, future development crisis and so on, or simply turned a blind eye.

In fact, the sense of crisis is not innate, but only through thinking. Think about why you are afraid, because after thinking about it, you will realize what the price of not doing it is, thus creating a sense of crisis.

Therefore, thinking and reflection will produce a sense of crisis.

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What should we do after realizing the sense of crisis?

Churchill once said that optimists see an opportunity in every crisis, and pessimists see a crisis in every opportunity.

How to take the sense of crisis as an opportunity to change yourself?

My answer is to adjust the mentality, improve the circle and practice to the extreme.

0 1 Adjust the mentality

Faced with a sense of crisis, we usually have a sense of fear, which leads to anxiety and confusion.

Therefore, we might as well put the timetable of life a little longer and have enough patience to let the excitement grow slowly, because persistence and waiting will make life complete.

So, give yourself more time and don't worry.

02 promotion circle

Some things are not impossible, but impossible.

Sometimes the problem that has been bothering us for a long time, when you stand from a different angle and stand on a higher pattern, may be nothing.

So, how to improve your horizons and integrate into the quality circle?

The community is a good place.

Choose a club that suits you. There will be many talented people and like-minded people in it, which will quickly refresh the three views and enhance their cognition.

Therefore, only by exercising circles and contacting excellent people can you become better, and only by choosing to walk with excellent people can you go further.

03 extreme exercise

For this fast-developing society, new technologies and new knowledge are constantly updated iteratively every day.

Excellence is not enough to cultivate core competitiveness and stand out in this highly competitive society. You must be excellent.

Therefore, it is not enough to work hard. You must work as hard as others to stand out from the encirclement.

After all, the mountainside is always the most crowded, and only those people will always reach the top of the mountain.

Do you want to be one of them?

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"It doesn't matter if you walk slowly, it's important not to stop." This is the most poisonous chicken soup I have ever heard.

I don't know when, this originally inspirational sentence gradually changed its taste on me.

April this year is probably my most anxious and painful month.

Three years after graduation, I changed three jobs. I thought it would settle down this time, but at this time the unit is facing restructuring and the future is uncertain.

The desire for a better future must be reshuffled.

Next, I face three problems:

0 1 Stay, you have to do a second sideline, what can you do?

How long can you stick to job-hopping and continue working in this major that you are not interested in?

What can you do if you change careers and find another job?

At that time, I was haggard and miserable, and the sense of crisis haunted me all the time, feeling helpless.

I came across a sentence from Li Xiaolai: What is life? It was what you wanted, but it didn't give you anything.

If you want a better life, you must have enough ability to match, and you can get everything live high wants.

Trapped in the mind of a small city, I need to improve the quality of the circle and get out of the strange circle of thought.

Fortunately, I joined the wild action camp, participated in the community operation, and resumed reading and writing.

I know that this is a turning point and a new life will set sail again.

I started reading and writing, trying to watch the day shift. Unfortunately, I was interrupted several times because of a business trip.

Later, I joined the writing punching class and began to work on the day shift. According to the calculation, today is the 94th day.

94 days, for me, is a very proud number, because I am not good at persistence.

However, after three months of training, my writing style, article routines, materials and other issues have not been solved.

And this month, I have been slack, because the unit salary is paid normally, and I have begun to become less strapped.

The sense of crisis seems to be less serious, and the urgency of writing progress is becoming more and more lax. Coupled with frequent business trips and overtime at night, I began to find reasons for myself:

Actually, write less today and just have fun.

So I began to feel at ease, and the daily list was perfunctory. When I saw the members of the group start to contribute, I realized that I had been standing still for a long time.

However, I began to comfort myself: it doesn't matter if you walk slowly, the most important thing is not to stop.

I realize that this reason is slowly consuming my passion, gradually fading my sense of crisis, immersed in numbness and busy efforts.

This is the most poisonous chicken soup.

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When we choose a direction, we must go firmly. Since you have chosen a distant place, you only need to be fearless and share joys and sorrows.

But sometimes, when we go too far on the same road, we forget the road we started. Why did we start?

At this time, we need to ask ourselves: Have you made progress today?

There is a saying in "Mo Wen West East": "People put themselves in a busy situation, and they are numb and practical, but they lose their truth."

In the face of a rapidly iterative society, backwardness will be beaten. Many people have signed up for the community, bought many tutorials, and are as busy as a bee every day.

Even one day, when I am free, I will feel guilty.

Even, we are caught in a strange circle, seemingly busy, but in fact inefficient and useless efforts.

Perhaps, being busy has become a habit, trying to become numb and making little progress.

So, look back on the road of growth, don't worry. Think more and reflect more: it doesn't matter if you walk slowly, but don't stand still.

From now on, ask yourself every day: Have you made any progress today?

Above, * * * encourage!