/kloc-I was taken to Guilin by a friend for a month in May of 0/5. Yes, I entered the pyramid scheme. After a month, I came back on June 1 day. Because I couldn't borrow money, the money was taken away and the mobile phone was taken away. When I came back, I found a job and almost got depressed. Anyway, that time was not very good, and it was suppressed for a long time.
/kloc-In March of 0/6, I changed my company. After all, this is a big company. I met many people in it and learned things I didn't know before. My idea began to change slowly in this year. To be precise, I met a girl (a company girl with a normal orientation). She changed me the most. Yes, now she is a best friend who talks about everything. Then I began to learn new things, take the driver's license test and take the self-taught test. Every day when I go home, I ask myself to put down my mobile phone and read books. Yes, I've grown a lot in the past year or two. Of course, my salary has also increased, with the appearance of 4-5 thousand.
18 years, when I got a boyfriend, I started spending all kinds of money. When two people are not together, all kinds of expenses are two copies. Of course, my boyfriend also had some savings at that time, so he should have accepted that sentence. It was a pleasure to spend money, and it was very hard to spend it.
I gave my parents some pocket money in the middle. Now I'm paying my parents' debts. My sister is still in college, providing living expenses, tuition, self-loan, driving test and so on. My younger brother is married, because he is young, ignorant and irresponsible, and I have to bear all the major events at home. Last year, near the Spring Festival, my mother was in a car accident. Fortunately, it's not serious. I'm in the hospital with a broken tendon. I paid for it.
In addition, I had a minor operation when I was sick last year, and my health has been poor. All kinds of treatment and taking all kinds of medicines are also a big expense. I calculated that 7788 owed about 40 thousand credit cards, and her boyfriend studied advertising, so his salary was unstable. So now I have to pay rent, water and electricity, broadband, living expenses for my sister, debts for my parents and living expenses for me every month. Get married, or don't think about it, wait until the credit card is almost finished.
After 90, those who started their own businesses and changed careers are considering starting their own businesses, and they can't make ends meet anyway. Every month, credit cards, car loans and house mortgages are very tight.
1994, I was in Yangquan, Shanxi. I didn't study hard and have no ability. It doesn't matter. So I started dealing with big trucks after graduation, and now I drive by myself. Now the transportation industry is depressed, but it has to be done! Nothing else.
I have been in the business for three years and have experienced too many ups and downs. I am hot and cold, and I am curious. Compared with being beaten in other places, I am still very wronged! But it's over. I want to cry too many times. It's no use crying.
I am very satisfied now. Grandparents are in good health, and both parents earn money. They got married last year and gave birth to a baby girl at 6: 6 this year, weighing 6 kg and 6 Liang. I'm so happy. Come on, after 90. There will be our day in the future!
Let me show you, old girl. Just finished unloading coal, my face is black! Ha ha!
Please listen to me tell a story. A few years ago, a local man, almost 30 years old, was the kind of person who had no money and loved to spend a lot of money. He's been fooling around. Suddenly, his family is going to be demolished, and the demolition fee is 500 thousand. He stays at home every day like a different person.
His parents are afraid that he will go astray, but they also hope that he can bring a girlfriend back as soon as possible. After all, it is not small.
Suddenly, his father died, and his last wish was that he should get married as soon as possible. His mother turned white overnight and he collapsed.
Last Spring Festival, his mother said: I hope he can fulfill his father's last wish by talking about his girlfriend's marriage. Give him the money, then watch the grandson get married or go on a blind date.
This friend is not in the mood to talk, it's so easy to find a girlfriend at a time. He found a fake girlfriend, gave him his fucking money, and then his mother didn't find any flaws.
Until his mother thought he was getting married, he suddenly changed dramatically and stayed up all night. Later, due to my son's profligacy, there was not much money soon.
Later, I heard that it was really difficult for her mother to raise her son and baiwenhang. I thought he could get married and have children.
In fact, no matter how well we live, our parents will always be kind to us. The poor inherit the wind.
Hi, I'm a post-90s generation. I have a house, a car and a deposit, but there's nothing to introduce. My husband earned all this! My friends are all post-90s! The polarization is serious.
As we all know, the most serious problem we are facing now is marriage. Marriage requires a bride price, a house and a car! This is the background. The most sensible friends around me call him Xiao Yong. Xiao Yong was born in 1993. When he was a child, his family was poor. Junior high school goes to school in the county, more than ten kilometers away from the village, and basically goes home on weekends. At that time, in order to save money, he didn't take the bus, but walked more than ten kilometers home by himself! Save money and give it to your parents when the pot is boiling at home. You can save more than 1000 a year. Hearing him say that, I think he is too powerful! After graduating from high school, he drifted north and worked hard alone in Beijing for several years. 16 Give a bride price to your wife when you get married 100000, and pay a down payment of about 270,000 yuan to buy a house and a car 170000! He earned all these by himself. At that time, my husband's boyfriend and I didn't have any savings, so I thought he was awesome!
Another friend is 1996. When I got married, I gave my wife a bride price of more than 100 thousand, and bought more than 400 thousand cars and 600 thousand houses in full. At that time, she bought a house and her family invested 200,000 yuan! But he's fine himself Is a man with a brain!
Some friends earn two or three thousand a month! Moonlight family, clients introduce girlfriends everywhere in the family, and everything is ready at home. At present, the atmosphere in many places is still not good. In our hometown, the bride price starts at 200,000 yuan, and we need a house and a car. For a peasant family, how much money can an old man earn in his life? The old man wants to sell iron to his son to marry his wife!
Nowadays, it is very difficult and easy for the post-90s generation, because business opportunities can be seen everywhere and there are many jobs that can make money. As long as you are willing to endure hardships and make progress, you will be able to live a good life!
May we all be treated gently by life.
Hey, I was born in 1990, which is the first batch of post-90s generation. What is harvested now is "one wife, one daughter and one son". My parents are in good health, and my brother is 90 years old and has not yet married. In the eyes of many people, this is a happy life. However, it is not as happy as everyone thinks. Of course, family members are really satisfied, but what about life? It's a mess After years of hard work, I didn't make any money and owed hundreds of thousands of foreign debts. My parents blame me, my relatives look down on me, and the pressure of life is unbearable. Most of my friends are post-90s. Let's share the daily life of several buddies.
First: Gong XX, born on 9 1, has two babies at home, both children, and a Fox car. His job is to promote medicine. His monthly income is about 1W, and he mortgaged a house in the urban area, 120 square meters, which is about 8,000 yuan per square meter here. Every time, the greeting is mostly pressure. I want to find a job for my daughter-in-law, but there is no suitable one. One's income, the expenses of the whole family, the mortgage, and the pressure on parents are too great.
Second: Huang X, my best buddy, works in a bank, but he lost more than 400,000 yuan playing cards on 20 17 and has been paying his debts. In the past two years, he lost hundreds of thousands of dollars in investment business. Every time he asks Kazakhstan, he is complaining. Hey!
Third: Mr. Fu, his life is relatively leisurely. Besides mahjong, I play games every day. He is in good health, reaching 265,438+00 Jin. He is unmarried, which gives me the feeling that he is still numb.
To sum up, the first batch of post-90s are all bald, their stomachs have collapsed, they are dying, they are all saving their lives, and they can't do without staying up late, talking about customers, squeezing the subway, doing ppt, having meetings, being myself in the eyes of others during the day and being myself at night. I am very sleepy, but I just don't want to sleep and take out food.
90 single mother, the child was one year old when she divorced, and now she is more than three years old. The company's recession this year has seriously affected her income. In April, she began to pay more than 3,000 points and rented a house at 1600. No one helped her. She is in debt of nearly ten thousand yuan, so she can't live without a job. In June of 438+00, she stopped working, left her job without pay, and now she is unemployed …
After 90, the southern girl said something.
After working for a while, the earliest generation of 90 is ready to step into the 30 mark. About getting married and having children, buying a house and buying a car, these people should have done everything.
From graduation to work, I experienced a "moving bricks" career, only to find that even my peers, everyone's life is actually different.
Only from women! !
These people can be roughly divided into the following situations.
First, return to work.
Go back to your hometown, enter the system, work nine to five, find someone with a good or similar family, get married and have children, and live a small life in a familiar place. Most of them are local civil servants, teachers and institutions. Because I am in the place where I grew up and was born, most people in the circle know me, and there is no incompatibility. However, it can only be said that this is a problem that needs comprehensive consideration. After all, in addition to their own abilities, there are connections and backgrounds involved. ...
Second, go to work in the provincial capital city.
Because the college I graduated from is not in the provincial capital city, some people will go to the local provincial capital city for development in order to find more opportunities. Except a few of these people can get jobs in the local system, the rest are basically struggling in the Internet industry, including but not limited to front-end, UI, design and programming ... Compared with other industries, the income growth rate is faster (relying on strength to eat), but the corresponding pressure is also great. If you can survive, you will encounter high income. If you can't survive, you will change careers.
Third, I went to Beijing, Shanghai and other first-tier cities to show my strength.
Basically, these people want to earn three points, and most of them are engaged in the Internet industry. Because they are women, few people are engaged in code programming, most of them are design, and some are UI. It is a common phenomenon to feel the neon of big cities while thinking about whether to escape from Beishangguang. After all, it is much more difficult for women to take root in first-and second-tier cities than men.
This group of people should be the earliest social workers in the post-90 s army. Although these people are similar in age, their circumstances are different for various reasons.
Personally, I think there are many factors leading to the difference. Let me talk about education here. Although education is not everything, it does affect a person in some ways.
1, college degree or below.
Because there are some hard-core requirements for academic qualifications in the system, these women have fewer opportunities to enter the system, let alone graduate from junior high school. Basically, they are looking for a job directly, regardless of entering the unit, and there is a "way". Then they will get married and have children earlier, and most of them will be around the age of 20. So today, it's really everyone else's children can play soy sauce, and I'm still single dog. People have different views on how things are going.
Judging from the situation around us, a few people will mix in the wind and water outside, but most of them are in their hometown. At this time, this factor, people's own family conditions, will play a role in getting along well. Of course, I think the energy of this effect is the largest in the first 10, and will decrease in the future.
2. Bachelor degree or above.
Relatively speaking, these people will have more choices. Basically, both inside and outside the system. There are probably only a few kinds of people in the system, so let's talk about people outside the system.
As far as I know, there are basically fewer people who want to fight for their careers. Maybe the atmosphere of this society is changing. A large number of people are willing to work hard in their respective posts, because they have been working for several years, so even if they don't become small leaders, their wages will increase because of the growth of experience (provided that you are really hardworking and motivated). As for the progress, it is not good to comment on the differences in the industry. But most people will have a strong feeling of not spending enough money and not working hard enough.
Don't give me reasons at the end.
This wave of people is divided into study and work.
From now on, there should still be those who haven't graduated from college. At this time, of course, they will do what they should do in school. Some powerful players have probably found their primary direction. Some of them are estimated to be transferred between postgraduate entrance examination, public examination and workplace.
Because I have already worked, let's talk about those "97, 98, 99" children around me who look tired. They choose to go out to work early, partly because of family economic reasons and partly because of their own wishes (which is annoying). Anyway, I have seen shopping guides with six-figure deposits in small cities, as well as tea shop owners who open their own shops. ...
Even if you can't continue to study and work, there are many people who save a lot according to the needs of the industry. It is estimated that I, a social animal, have to work hard to achieve it. (This may be the meaning of "reading so much is the same"! )
Space is limited. I talked about the post-90s generation around me under these circumstances. Why is it limited to a certain factor? Because it's more representative. As for why only the women's group is mentioned, it is not easy to confuse.
We can't deny that society has a default requirement for men's ability to earn money from personal work, so speaking independently of women can better explain what kind of situation the girls around us are.
In 1994, most of the post-90s generation around me had a good life. After graduation, I stayed in Beishangguang with a monthly salary of more than 10,000. Some people continue their studies, while others have gone abroad. Basically not married. I was the only one who returned to my hometown after graduation.
After graduation, my friend Zuo Zuo was called back by his family to take the civil service exam. After he was admitted, he took a class for a year and resigned to go to graduate school. Now he has gone to Japan. I have no intention of getting married. I intend to work in Shanghai after graduation.
After graduation, my friend Xiao Chen entered an educational institution and stayed in the city where she went to school. Her monthly income exceeded 1 10,000 yuan. She plans to settle in Hangzhou with her boyfriend in the future.
My friend Xiaojie reported to Guangzhou after graduation. After working for two years, I resigned and went home for half a year. Then I went to Shanghai and joined an Internet company.
My friend Lei Lei worked in Wuhan for a year after graduation. After resigning, she stayed at home for half a year, took the TOEFL and went to Australia.
My friend Xiao Yao, after graduation, took an exam as a special post teacher and taught in a place not far from our city. She is going to get married next month.
After graduation, my friend Jia entered a state-owned enterprise, trained and took up his post. I ran for more than half of China and didn't want to live. I resigned and went home to review for the postgraduate entrance examination. There are less than two months before the exam.
I feel that the post-90 s are doing well. They all know what kind of life they want, and they are willing to jump out of their comfort zone and work hard for the life they want.
The tail of the post-80s, the leader of the post-90s,
Single, monthly income 1000+, bought a suite by myself.
Monthly payment of 3 thousand, small investment of 100 thousand,
With a five-figure deposit, life is tight,
Now I just want to make money,
There is no other goal except making money.
Boyfriend or something, try to stay away from me.
It's too difficult for us to be born after 90.
Friend 9595, graduated for more than a year, earning 7000 yuan a month.
No deposit. I don't have the courage to quit the job I hate.
Don't have the courage to say to the person you like. Look how happy we are.
Have friends who entered the society at the age of 9 1, 16.
/kloc-married at the age of 0/9 with two sons and a good wife.
Two cars and one suite (it seems that there is still a shortage of 50 thousand mortgage)
Running around cities every day, I feel a little overwhelmed recently.
My wife doesn't even know what a deposit is when she is in charge of money.
I know that an enterprise owes seven figures [yi tooth] [yi tooth] [yi tooth]
Next, buy two suites and drive to Tibet!
How are you after 90?
My daughter graduated last year in 1996. After graduation, I came to Tibet, the westernmost part of China, 4000 kilometers away from my hometown, with a monthly salary of more than 7000 yuan. However, there is consumption in Beishangguang, and I can support myself. In response to that sentence, my family has no burden, and my parents don't have to take care of me for the time being. Now my daily life is to go to work, eat and sleep.
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