If all the methods provided can't help you get to know the opposite sex, don't lose heart. Life is full of setbacks, so we should have the spirit of being more frustrated and brave to realize our wishes.
1) attracts attention
Bring a book with an attractive cover design and an interesting title. People who are curious about books will naturally take the initiative to tell you questions about books, such as where they are, whether the content is attractive and so on.
2) Take pets to the streets
When two single people meet, they don't know what to say, but it's convenient to use pets as a topic.
3) Carry a card with you.
When you meet the opposite sex you like, you can write something on the card, such as "What attracts me to you?" "Can you make friends with me?" Then give it to each other in person, or ask the children for help. If you are in a restaurant, ask the waiter for help.
4) Send cards
When you meet the opposite sex you like, but you don't know how to get each other when you meet for the first time, you can exchange business cards with each other and keep in touch later.
5) Call someone else if there is someone else.
Since I asked someone else's, why not call them? Even after a few weeks, a phone call is better than nothing.
6) Tell more interesting things around you.
The interesting news you get in contact with in newspapers and radio stations can be used as a topic, which makes people feel that you care about the society while being interesting, and will not be out of touch with the times and increase others' goodwill towards you.
7) peer-to-peer system
Finding a single friend like yourself can relieve boredom, let everyone help each other in the same boat and not be too lonely. Secondly, you can find activities to participate in, and your confidence will be greatly increased.
8) Tell friends around you that you want to make friends with the opposite sex.
Let them pay attention to the right person for you, and the chances will increase a lot.
9) Friends who know friends
This can broaden the circle of life, meet more people and have more choices.
10) self-organized large-scale activities
Initiate large-scale activities by yourself, such as barbecues, picnics and boat trips, and encourage invited friends to bring their friends, so that you can meet more people.
1 1) Understand the interests of the opposite sex.
If you are a woman, you must know something about ball games, and it is best to know the information of some famous stars. If you are a man, you'd better know some cooking and clothes, which will help you communicate with the opposite sex and have endless topics.
12) Transfer of expertise
If you are active, you will move to some quiet activities, such as photography and cooking. When you are quiet, try to take part in sports activities, such as hiking and learning to swim. In the process of learning, you will meet another kind of new friends and improve the chances of the opposite sex to choose.
Learn to dance ballroom dancing.
Dancing is a good way to know the opposite sex. Being able to dance is conducive to social success, and dancing well is more attractive.
14) where you plan to go to the lounge and restaurant.
When you go to the lounge in the afternoon, most people who appear during that time are mainly relaxed, while those who go at midnight for the purpose of getting to know the opposite sex may wish to take a chance.
15) Visit more shops of the opposite sex.
If you are a woman, go to the men's wear department and ask the men around you for help on the grounds of buying gifts. For example, people are usually less defensive when choosing clothes.
16) Visit the bookstore and record more.
Being able to meet like-minded members of the opposite sex in the above places is how many love stories begin.
17) Go to supermarkets and laundries.
Many single aristocrats have to go to the supermarket to buy food and laundry in person, both of which are good places to meet the opposite sex.
18) into the fitness room.
Entering the gym will make you meet different types of the opposite sex, so it's best to choose a gym where men and women exercise together.
19) Go to art venues more often.
If you want to meet the opposite sex with personality, artists will be the first choice. When you go to art exhibitions and concerts, you can get in touch with the opposite sex with artistic sense.
20) Participate in exhibitions and take more meetings.
The convention and exhibition center will hold large-scale exhibitions from time to time, such as food festivals and pet exhibitions, which can broaden the knowledge and meet professionals.
2 1) Attend more weddings.
Attend more weddings, and you can meet many single members of the opposite sex. Under the infection of happy atmosphere, everyone can have more fun with the opposite sex.
22) Attend more class reunions.
Students from primary school and middle school who have been separated for many years may make you find that everyone's image at the party has changed and it is easier to develop into lovers.
23) Join a professional association
If you are a professional, such as a designer, you can join an association to meet more people with the same aspirations.
24) School/office romance
You will spend a lot of time in school or office in a year, and it is wise to use the places you often go as a big source of social life.
25) Look for opportunities to travel.
Strive for every business opportunity. You can broaden your knowledge and make more friends.
26) Go on a trip
You can travel alone or join a tour group. Naturally, you will always meet the opposite sex in a different place with a happy mood.
Make more pen pals
Although there are many fantasies in the exchange of letters, there is still spiritual sustenance and communication in the end, and you can get to know each other to some extent from the written expression.
28) register with a marriage agency
This is the last method. Although it is unnatural and purposeful, it is your goal to know the opposite sex, then develop and finally get married.
29) Do more activities for two people.
One-on-one contact can effectively get to know each other, and often go out alone to get to know singles more effectively.
30) break away from convention
If you dress up as shorts, a hot skirt, or have never been manly, you might as well change your image, which is very refreshing to yourself and will bring you new things.
Make good use of a smile
Smiling can increase others' goodwill towards you, but smiling is from the heart to be attractive. What I fear most is not smiling.
32) Knowledge boldly praises people.
If you meet a beautiful/handsome opposite sex by chance, you can attract the attention of the other person by bravely praising others.
33) talk briefly
Within ten minutes, say something harmless to the opposite sex, and use the same method every time you meet, so that the other person will impress you without getting bored.
34) Overcome fear
If you want to open a topic, you have to speak first. Because of fear of rejection, I dare not speak and miss many opportunities. You can practice your courage by trying to say hello to people around you, including the postman, salesman, neighbors and so on.
35) Show your single status as soon as possible.
It is unwise to pretend to wear a wedding ring mysteriously, let the people you meet for the first time know that you are single, and give them a chance to consider you. Once they think you are married, they will shrink back.
36) Accept criticism from others.
When your friends criticize you for being wordy, just laughing, being sarcastic, being too shy, and so on, keep it in mind and be brave in improvement, because this shortcoming makes it difficult for you to meet the opposite sex.
37) Have confidence in yourself
Think about your own advantages. With confidence, people will be willing to approach you.
38) Try to accept different types of the opposite sex.
If you only like a certain type of the opposite sex, it will greatly narrow your scope. From now on, among friends, make a list of people who are single and have never dated, and consider developing with them.
39) Know how to face the hesitation of others.
Ask someone out on a date. When someone is hesitant, don't back down prematurely. The other person may not be interested in you, but may be considering it. You should make persistent efforts and wait patiently.
40) Give each other one more chance.
When two people date for the first time, they will be too nervous and make the atmosphere awkward. You can date again and then consider whether to continue or terminate the date.
4 1) Determine the expectation table and demand table.
Write down the requirements of the expected opposite sex, and you will find that your requirements are too high. It is better to write down the real demand table and write down your own needs.
42) full of hope and fantasy
Looking forward to the future, dreaming about the romantic atmosphere of dating the opposite sex, when it really happens, it will not be at a loss.
43) Don't be too hard on yourself.
Don't allow yourself to make mistakes, which will make you feel great mental pressure. You should learn from your mistakes and laugh at everything, which is always more attractive than panicking.
44) Take a long line to catch big fish
Remember the method, you must have perseverance to try it. The more energy you put into it, the greater the effect and the higher the satisfaction.
Be yourself
Although there are many ways to understand the opposite sex for reference, just choose one or two methods that suit you. The most important thing is to be yourself, don't be too artificial and make your life a mess.