Inspirational family education experience With the desire for learning and persistence in education, I am honored to participate in the professional course of family education organized by the Education Bureau, and the class teacher learns from the professional course of family education. This distance course study is a rare opportunity for each of us. The Municipal Education Bureau has built a high-level learning platform for us. With this platform, we can get in touch with some excellent teachers and experts at zero distance. I am very grateful to the school leaders for giving me this opportunity to study. Four months have passed since this training. I studied hard, listened to video lessons in the croak room, and completed the distance courses of family education professional courses. , strongly impacted my thoughts and further updated my educational concept. The inspiration and feeling of this training is: this is the most precious wealth in my life. Now I will share my thoughts and experiences with you.
As a manager, the head teacher is a bridge connecting students, parents, teachers and schools. An excellent class teacher should not only take good care of students, serve teachers and manage classes, but also guide parents and conduct family education. Family is the first school for children and teenagers, and parents are their first teachers and lifelong teachers. Parents generally expect to train their children into useful talents, but due to different conditions such as professional characteristics, educational level, personality and temper, the effect is also very different. Personality is the kind of kinship between parents and children, which tends to dilute rationality and ignore scientific family education concepts and methods, thus causing the deviation between subjective wishes and objective effects. The head teacher has the obligation and necessity to guide parents to learn the scientific knowledge of modern family education. Only when the head teacher works closely with the family and consciously constitutes an upward educational synergy can he play a fruitful role in school and family education and the success rate of education can be greatly improved.
First of all, in the process of continuing to study family education professional courses, we can communicate face-to-face with family education experts and family education instructors, exchange the confusion of class teachers in educating people, solve the practical problems faced by current family education, and gain experience from the experience of class teachers in studying family education professional courses. Because the family is the cell of society, students are still in constant contact with their parents all their lives after entering school, and family education plays an irreplaceable role in school education. This requires us to actively communicate with our parents and get their support, so that all work can get twice the result with half the effort. Therefore, a wise head teacher should keep a low profile and have a calm mind, and often share the joy of children's progress with parents, exchange educational opinions and listen to parents' suggestions. In addition to traditional parent-teacher conferences, home visits and telephone interviews, I also used the Internet to communicate with my parents, and achieved good results. I took my parents into the family education study in the video room, and parents took their parents into the classroom study in the video room, and the effect was very good.
In my study, I realized that the class teacher can do a good job in family education guidance. The most important reasons are: first, parents love their children, regardless of their educational background, but they just lack the scientific knowledge of family education. However, coming together with such a great theme and the desire for children's healthy and happy growth will definitely make our study and life more exciting, because learning the scientific knowledge of family education means walking with the wise and being with the master. This wise man, this master, is the scientific knowledge of family education; Second, family education is not only magical, but also sacred. When we are influenced by this magic and holiness, almost everything changes-
Change 1: I began to learn to respond to children with a loving smile, listen to children with loving emotions, find children with loving eyes, encourage children with loving words, and tolerate children with loving hearts. Not only that, we also learn to look at the world with these five kinds of love. I believe that every parent and teacher in the world wants to be such a parent and teacher! I was surprised to find that when the quality of our own education was improved, our eyes, attitudes, tone, actions and language towards children and students changed, and the educational environment of the school was further optimized in the process of our change.
Change 2: Since I studied family education, my educational philosophy is also changing. It is natural to drive parents with advanced educational concepts, and parents are changing, which is very gratifying. At the moment, about a quarter of parents have written down their own experience of learning family education after each parent-teacher meeting, which is deeply understood. For example, at this parent-teacher meeting, the director of the Family Education Steering Committee performed a sign language exercise "Good Habits", and three representatives of grandparents and grandchildren performed "Kneeling Sheep", which moved many parents to tears. The deputy director manages the public property in the class, and parents donate many tools to the class. The next day, a parent spent several hundred yuan to buy a prize and asked me to encourage my children to study. Children are slowly changing, and parents have also undergone gratifying changes.
Learning family education is a difficult journey, but I believe the valuable experience accumulated at the moment will be of necessary use in the future. I have gained a lot along the way since I participated in the professional class of family education of the head teacher, although it is very hard. I have changed a lot in educating people, encouraging and appreciating children as much as possible. Children are changing every day ... after the establishment of the family education steering Committee in the class, the work in the class is very simple now. Parents' meeting, the director is responsible for learning, and the deputy director is responsible for the public property in the class. Everything is simple and comfortable. I have tasted the sweetness in studying family education, although it is a little bit, but I feel very gratified. I am very grateful to the team led by Teacher Gu for pointing out a bright road for our educators, which makes me feel that this road is getting wider and wider.
As a mother, I not only educate my students at school, but also educate my children when I get home. I believe that the class teacher's study of family education is a never-ending charging journey for generations.
Inspirational Family Education Experience Chapter II As the saying goes, "Parents are the first teachers of their children". Family education is not only cradle education, but also lifelong education. Because of its special status and influence, family education plays an important role in our huge education system project.
In recent years, due to the disharmony of family education, as an educator, I have a lot of puzzles: Why do many children study well now, but their practical ability is poor? Why are many children versatile now, but their psychological quality is poor? Why are many children "good boys" at school and "bullies" at home? All kinds of phenomena that happen to students cannot but arouse our educators' deep thinking.
The formation of students' good behavior habits must be the result of close cooperation between good school education and good family education. However, teachers often express the feeling that 5+2=0 school has worked hard for a week and it is difficult to resist the negative education of the family for two days. Present situation: there are deviations in teaching methods. "ambitious" type. This is a typical family education with China characteristics, which occupies a considerable proportion.
Because of historical reasons, parents often pin all kinds of "regrets" in their growth process on their children with the best "hopes", so they have high expectations for their children's "success". Specific performance in:
First, pay attention to scores.
Children don't study hard, which is the biggest headache for parents; Children's homework performance is the most concerned and sensitive topic for parents. "Learning" and "rewarding" excellent students have become a common means for many parents to encourage their children to learn. "Learning first, grades first" is their only goal. As a result, parents arranged housework instead of their children. First, I feel sorry for my children and refuse to push the responsibility to them prematurely. Second, for fear of affecting learning, children disdain to do "chores". If the child gets a good grade, it will be a "sunny day" at home; If the child fails the exam, the parents will stop laughing for several days.
Second, willing to invest.
Many parents hire "tutors", buy reference books, or tutor their children in person. They are willing to endure hardships with only one purpose: all for children, all for learning, and all for grades. In addition to telling children to learn school lessons well, they also accompany their children to participate in composition classes, calligraphy classes, English classes, art classes and music classes in their spare time ... In the eyes of parents, this is completely a "responsibility".
The reason is that the surreal and inconsistent family education is the main crux of the family education model of "I wish my children success".
The so-called "surrealism" means that parents treat their children "strictly" and "unfashionable". They cannot treat and educate their children correctly and objectively; They often have high evaluation and hope for their children, and often judge the success or failure of their children by the advantages of their neighbors and colleagues, which leads to psychological imbalance.
Paying attention to family education is the necessity of modern education, and it is also the key to the success or failure of implementing quality education in schools. As a school, it has the obligation and ability to give timely and appropriate guidance to family education. In order to achieve the same goal, we must "think in one place and work hard in one place", so that our education will be effective and hopeful.
Inspirational family education experience is not too long or too short for three or seven days, with a wide range of contents and a wide knowledge structure. It's really different from what I thought, and it's very informative and shocking, which greatly improves the impression of family education instructors.
First of all, we have a systematic understanding of the concept of family education. Usually, what we understand is a narrow definition, and in a broad sense, it is an education in which family members interact with each other. At the same time, it also clarifies the scope of responsibilities and specific work content of family education instructors. What is particularly shocking is that Teacher Wu Gan pointed out that as a family education instructor, we should be happy first. Live high internalizes the ideas and methods of family education in its own heart, becomes its own soul, and transmits its happiness to others. This is what we often say in PD. We should live out PD and be that person first. There is another saying, "Your wealth is not how many things you have in your pocket, but how many things you can give to others." We need to be a bridge to help children and parents learn and grow at the same time, so that this atmosphere can continue after returning to the family. Family education is the cornerstone, and family education should make up for the lack of school education. No matter what the overall environment is, we need to keep a proactive attitude, change what can be changed and accept what cannot be changed. Guide parents to pay attention to the positive side instead of staring at the problem and complaining. Seeing what can be done to improve it can help solve the problem.
As a professional family education instructor, we should first improve ourselves and have a scientific, systematic and advanced knowledge system; Correct, appropriate and effective practice methods; Healthy, peaceful and positive physical and mental qualities; At the same time, I have my own goals, know who I am, what I can do, what I have learned and what I need to improve, build my own system and become my own wisdom through practice. Not everything has a side you are good at, exquisite and thorough. Especially the use of sixteen grids, let yourself know clearly what you can give, what needs to be supplemented and improved, optimize rationally, and find out where your competitive advantage lies. There are different ways to guide family education. According to the characteristics and stages of children's physical and mental development, we can take different ways to provide targeted guidance with the help of picture books and other carriers and some activities. As family education instructors, we need to guide parents and inspire their wisdom, rather than inform and help them solve specific problems. Parents must be willing to change, help them explore the root causes behind problems, channel and accept their emotions, help them adjust their educational concepts, enhance their positive beliefs, accompany, listen, guide and support them, and establish their own working boundaries. From guidance to consultation to guidance to self-guidance, we should be Zhi Zhi and objective.
The more I learn, the more I feel that I still have a lot to learn. I only have a concept in some aspects, and there are still many places that need to be refined. About the solution of a specific case, there is a general outline, the reasons are analyzed and suggestions are given, and then some specific guiding methods, such as target inversion method, token control method, shulte grid and some evaluation forms, are applied to the actual case. When establishing a consulting relationship, we should respect each other, express enthusiasm, sincerely reflect on emotions, and pay attention to the positive aspects of the relationship, so as not to be snatched away by the other party, so as to make it clear whether the main problem is parents, children or parent-child relationship. In family life, relationship is more important than anything else, and right or wrong is not important. It is most important to guide parents to see the advantages from their mistakes and take positive actions. Family education takes parent-child relationship as the core, and whether it can be carried out smoothly depends on the quality of parent-child relationship. Rosenthal effect, positive reinforcement and empowerment and emotional ABC theory also inspire how to apply them to coping strategies.
The comparison and reflection on Chinese and western family education concepts make the present situation of family education in China more clear. Nowadays, young parents have multiple degrees, but it is easy to enter education. Ten misunderstandings, and they excessively advocate the western educational concept of new education. We need to find a new model for education in China. Any kind of education has advantages and disadvantages, and the education suitable for one's children is a good education. Only by knowing children can we educate them well. We should not be superstitious about authority. We should have our own practice and make this knowledge our own wisdom. What we need to accumulate is not knowledge, but wisdom and art, and the most important thing is persistence. The ultimate goal of "education" is "no education".
Thank you for the learning opportunities provided by xx culture and Teacher X, and for giving us this "homework", which is very beneficial for us to sort out what we have learned again. I hope to have more opportunities to learn and grow with you! Appreciate this meeting!
Four Ba Jin, an inspirational family education experience, once said: "The successful education of children begins with the cultivation of good habits." Good family education contributes to the formation of children's healthy psychology and sound personality, and also helps to cultivate their ability to adapt to society when they grow up. If you want to give children a good family education, let them develop those good habits and become respected people, you must first master some knowledge of family education. Share some successful or unsuccessful educational methods with you. I hope you can understand the true meaning of family education.
1, successful family education
Successful family education must be accompanied by praise. Children, like adults, may also face many troubles, such as: sometimes they can't do their homework, have no friends and are afraid of writing. We can't ignore these problems at the beginning and then try our best to help solve them. At this time, it is particularly important for parents to encourage and enlighten in time. If parents say to their children, "You can do it, you can solve your own problems, and your mother believes in you." Children will be full of confidence. Dependence between children and parents is a topic that can not be ignored in family education. Since the birth of the child, parents have shouldered the burden of taking care of the child. Therefore, it is the key to the success of family education to choose the right opportunity, teach children to be independent and let them develop their will to overcome difficulties. Everyone's good habits are developed from childhood, and the habits of learning and living should be educated. Parents who know how to communicate with their children will cultivate their concentration, agility and dexterity, improve their learning efficiency, and their children will be better than other children.
2. Failed family education
Faced with the same problem of children, some parents often do this. Parents praise their children too much, regardless of time and occasion, so that their self-confidence becomes conceited. Therefore, we should pay attention to both skills and methods. When children's test scores are average or poor, don't give them the feeling of the end of the world, but help them find some reasons. The key is to find out what shines on the child and praise him. Never let them lose heart. Now there are more only children, family conditions are better, and there are many phenomena of discipline from generation to generation, and even people discipline children. Spoiling will become an inevitable phenomenon in modern children's education. I asked my grandparents to do what I should do. My parents sent meals to my children, and the children sent their parents at will, losing their ability to take care of themselves. Parents should be strict with themselves, help him overcome his shortcomings, and at the same time strictly ask their children to maintain good behavior habits in order to let their children grow up. Today's children have high IQs, mostly because of bad habits leading to poor learning. For example, eat while watching TV, talk while doing homework, or ask adults to accompany you with your homework. What is particularly frightening is that some children dally with things since childhood, and even if they study well now, they will be very troublesome in their later studies. Parents should supervise their children to finish their homework in the shortest time, otherwise children will easily be tired of learning because of long study time, loss of interest in learning and passive learning.
To sum up the experience of family education, intellectual development, emotional education and social morality are indispensable. Only by educating children in all directions can we cultivate useful talents for the country. If you want to know more about family education, you may wish to pay attention to the sharing of family education experience, the coordination between family education and school education, the influence of family education on children, the confusion of family education, the methods and the importance of family education.
Inspirational Family Education Experience Chapter 5 Parents' hobbies largely determine their children's hobbies. In the family, cultivate children's healthy and beneficial hobbies. Family environment determines a person's taste and aesthetics, and a good family layout can cultivate children's sense of order and order. Let children participate in family layout design, which can cultivate their creativity, observation ability and practical ability. The layout of children's rooms is arranged by children themselves, which not only respects children's wishes, but also gives them a sense of responsibility and accomplishment, and can mobilize their enthusiasm and initiative! Parents should pay attention to children's hobbies and self-cultivation, pay attention to family structure, let every member of the family soak in a warm family environment, and cultivate children's interest in life. Learn through fun and cultivate a good parent-child relationship in play!
Dad's hobby (fourth grade)
Some people like smoking, some people like drinking, and some people like playing mahjong. My father is a little different. He likes raising fish and watching fish.
He keeps a tropical fish-Lohan. Lohan is aggressive by nature, so he has to keep it alone and use a heating rod in winter. Lohan is particularly beautiful. There is a big bag on his head, which looks like a birthday girl, with a red head and a light blue body. From beginning to end, there are three black spots. This fish is particularly aggressive. If people put their hands on the fish tank, it will come and bite. However, now he is ill, his body is crooked and he is very thin, and he is dying.
In our backyard, the width of the new house is 1. 7 meters long, 2 meters long. 4 meters, depth 1. There are more than 50 koi fish in the 7-meter fish pond, with different sizes, including red, black, yellow, silvery white and blue spots, all over 40 cm in size. When my father is tired, he likes to sit by the fish pond and watch the fish. He said that watching the fish in the water was particularly relaxing, and the fatigue of the day was gone.
Dad's fish farming is not smooth sailing. At first, the newly bought fish died for some reason. On average, there is a fish buried in every square decimeter in our yard. My father is very upset. He looks up information, studies and buys medicine from the Internet. Now, there are no dead fish. Every fish is fat and strong.
My father's hobby is very special, isn't it?
Parents should force themselves to learn some special skills, not to get ahead, not to make a name for themselves, but to participate in the growth of their children!
Inspirational Family Education Experience Chapter VI Today, my son's school left me an assignment to write a family education experience. I hope that friends who are committed to family education can discuss it together and let me learn from it.
It is the wish of every parent to let their children grow up healthily and happily. To realize this wish, the key lies in education, so it is not enough to educate a child well, and family education is equally important. Family education is a systematic project. In the process of educating children, every parent has his own understanding. Different people have different opinions. The following is his own experience:
First, give children a happy and comfortable learning environment. I have to admit that children are very tired now, so as our parents, we should try our best to create a good learning environment for them and combine their heavy mental work with appropriate interest sports. At the same time, in today's learning society, learning families should also be established. Let them study happily in the good environment of role models.
Second, cultivate interest and build self-confidence. Interest is the best teacher for children. No matter what you do, you will have the motivation to do it well if you are interested. Parents and children discuss natural phenomena in some subjects together to increase children's interest in learning. Interest learning and passive learning have different effects. At the same time, the establishment of self-confidence is based on the child's successful experience, so we should urge and help the child to do everything he should do well, especially the learning task. When he always gets good grades, he will have a sense of accomplishment and experience the happiness of success, so that his heart will always believe "I think I can"
Third, lay a good foundation and cultivate good study habits. More than once, I heard the saying that "primary school and junior high school are almost enough, and high school should study hard." I don't think this idea is correct. Elementary school and junior high school are very important stages to lay a foundation and cultivate good study habits. Once the foundation is not well laid, it is difficult to change the situation after entering high school. Therefore, at this stage, we should be strict with our children, start with the nuances and don't spoil them too much. Use the family system to restrain, then form habits and cultivate the consciousness of learning.
Fourth, carefully sum up each exam and find out the weaknesses and deficiencies in each stage. After each grade comes out, we should sum up and analyze the problems of each subject with our children and make the next plan.
5. Respect, trust, encourage and criticize. We should respect and trust children, get to know them, exchange hearts and win trust with trust. Through careful observation, heart-to-heart conversation, careful care and patient help, we can learn more about their growing troubles and spiritual needs, and don't compare the shortcomings of our children with the advantages of other children. Whenever encountering difficulties, encourage and comfort him and help him regain his confidence. Criticize children's mistakes in an appropriate way.
Sixth, change gratitude with emotion. Nowadays, only children are spoiled and loved by their parents. At home, it's all "little sun". Sometimes the soft ones don't work, the hard ones don't work, and it's difficult to manage. Therefore, we should try our best to do what he is asked to do. For example, ask him not to play computer games often. First of all, we should try to be his role model. Children are thoughtful and flesh and blood. The love, patience and care we give them will be in their eyes and in their hearts. Parents' words and deeds and meticulous care will touch children and educate them to be grateful to society, teachers and families at all times. With honesty, kindness and gratitude, we will strive to create glory and enjoy it.
The above simply said some family education experience. The experience of raising children is far more than that. It is multifaceted, concrete and touching. The environment of each family is different, the specific situation of children is different, and the specific education methods are different. I am an ordinary parent, and my son is also an ordinary son. I was confused when he was growing up, but I still worked hard.
Inspirational Family Education Experience Chapter VII Family education is an important part of education and the foundation of school education and social education. Family education for children in primary school and after middle school is a supplement and extension of school education, which plays an important role in children's life. As a parent, I deeply feel the importance of family education. Family education affects children's future growth and produces some experiences about children's education.
First, the renewal of family education concept:
The traditional concept of moral education must be changed, for example, children must obey their parents unconditionally (even if they are wrong), and parents often criticize their children condescendingly, always trying to make their children stand out and honor their ancestors. We should pay attention to the cultivation of children's innovative spirit and practical ability, the spirit of self-reliance, self-improvement, unity and hard work, the cultivation of good psychological quality and the development of interpersonal coordination ability, and cultivate children into builders and successors of the socialist cause with ideals, morality, culture, discipline and all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique and beauty, so as to adapt to the life of the future society.
Second, the basic principles of family education:
1. Parents should have the same attitude towards their children's education. It should be consistent and unified with school education.
2. Teaching students in accordance with their aptitude is combined with all-round development. We should not only attach importance to the development of children's personality and specialty, but also attach importance to the coordinated development of all aspects of quality. Parents should set an example. Parents' words and deeds have a far-reaching impact on children; Parents should do what their children are asked to do first.
4, often discuss various issues with children. Strengthen the communication and exchange of thoughts and feelings between the two sides, understand the children's thoughts and practices, correctly encourage, guide and correct mistakes. When criticizing children, let them defend and refute.
I am always full of hope for my children. Always encourage children, cultivate their self-confidence, and let them experience the happiness of study and life. ...
Third, exchange family education information and experience.
Listen to the lectures of family education experts, read more books and periodicals on family education, communicate with schools, teachers and parents, and learn about family education in many ways, so as to complete the task of cultivating high-quality new people.
In a word, family education is a long-term, complicated and arduous task, which requires the commitment of our parents. We hope that our children are useful talents to society.