1, adults should set an example and play an exemplary role. As an adult, we must have healthy behavior and good quality in front of children, so that children can be inspired and purified by the power of role models and grow up along the beautiful track of personality development. 2. To create a good environment, we should create a transparent living space for children, provide good performance opportunities, and give full play to children's talents, hobbies and specialties. 3. Cultivate children's lively, cheerful and optimistic personality. When children encounter setbacks and difficulties, we should guide them to use their brains, find ways to cultivate them to understand problems in a positive way, improve their psychological endurance, enable children to establish a correct attitude towards setbacks and difficulties, and stimulate their love for real life. 4. Give children more love. Love has special significance to children. If you lack the love you deserve, it will hurt your child's self-esteem and gradually form bad characters such as inferiority, fear, timidity and blind obedience. 5. It plays an important role in cultivating children's independent personality, independent development and the formation of various abilities. Make them know more about the adult world, increase their social life experience and form the ability to live independently.