/kloc-On the night of August, 2000, a murder case occurred in Cixi, Zhejiang. Chen Mou, a girl, was killed by her ex-boyfriend Wu Mou in the street at the age of 22!

The murderer Wu Mou is very cruel. He stabbed the victim Chen Mou in the neck and waist, which was fatal.

The cause of the incident is the same as many emotional entanglements. Girl Chen Mou wanted to break up, but her boyfriend Wu Mou disagreed, and kept pestering Chen Mou in an extreme way, which eventually led to tragedy!

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The victim, Chen Mou, has a superior family, and her family has a local factory. Her parents, brother and sister-in-law felt sorry for her and bought her a house and Mercedes-Benz in the city.

And her boyfriend Wu Mou, whose family is very ordinary, once ran a clothing store, but didn't make any money. After the clothing store closed down, it has been unemployed. Idle around, unwilling to find a job to make money, thinking about starting a business all day, just want to make big money in the shortest possible time.

Once, Wu Mou uploaded Chen Mou's impromptu performance to his Tik Tok account, which won more than one million praises. Chen Mou suddenly became an internet celebrity! Wu Mou thinks this is a business opportunity. From then on, he kept looking for material, and asked his girlfriend Chen Mou to cooperate with the video Tik Tok. The purpose is to use his girlfriend Chen Mou to make money.

But Chen Mou has no interest in filming Tik Tok, just for fun, and doesn't want to take it as a career at all. Wu Mou often coerces Chen Mou to shoot videos for economic benefits, so they often have conflicts and disputes.

On one occasion, Wu Mou asked Chen Mou to shoot a video. Because Chen Mou didn't reply, Wu Mou threatened in a rage: "I have to go to the training class to call you, right?" I'll make you pay!

In the eyes of Chen Mou's family and friends, Chen Mou and Wu Mou often have conflicts. When they are together, they often quarrel. Sometimes you need family mediation, sometimes you even have to go to the police station!

On one occasion, Wu Mou detained Chen Mou's Mercedes-Benz, and Chen Mou's father and brother came forward to get it back. When the car came back, Chen Mou's family found that the display screen of the Mercedes Benz, which had just been bought for less than three months, was smashed and the front bumper was broken.

On another occasion, Wu Mou went to Chen Mou's residence to harass Chen Mou and kicked the door open!

Every time there is a conflict, Wu Mou tries to get back together in various ways, such as kneeling down and making a tearful video. Although Chen Mou was badly hurt, he chose to forgive again and again and gave Wu Mou a chance to correct. However, this tolerance has no effect on Wu Mou at all. After each reconciliation, Wu Mou soon revealed his true nature, even worse than the last one!

After accumulating enough disappointment, heartbroken Chen Mou had no choice but to break up!

Who knows that after breaking up, Wu Mou constantly harassed Chen Mou in the form of hooligans! They have a pet dog. Wu Mou abused the pet dog on the day of breaking up, made a video and sent it to Chen Mou, saying, "I want you to watch it die" and "You killed it". Chen Mou had no choice but to spend 2800 yuan to redeem the dog from Wu Mou.

In addition, after the breakup, Wu Mou sent messages and called Chen Mou from time to time, which scratched Chen Mou's car body and damaged the logo, resulting in a loss of 1 10,000 yuan. Chen Jia's monitoring shows that Wu Mou often appears nearby in the early hours of the morning!

Once, while Chen Mou was walking with a male friend, Wu Mou suddenly appeared and fought with the boy. In the fight, Wu Mou took out a knife and the boy took a stick, and called the police in time to drive away Wu Mou.

For the safety of her daughter, Chen Mou's parents asked her to move back home, changed the locks of all the houses in Chen Mou and prepared to sell them. Mother Chen specially shuttles her daughter to and from work every day. Despite the precautions taken by parents, the tragedy happened!

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One of the most hateful creatures in the world is probably scum! Their three views can simply subvert your imagination and make you doubt life. They can always make you thoroughly feel what is called "no worst, only worse" with their own actions.

And the most disgusting of these scum is Wu Mou. Love you and abuse you severely. The sweetness of love does not exist here. He will not only make you unhappy, but also be the source of your sadness and fear.

He obviously doesn't love you, but he won't break up with you anyway. If you dare to break up, it will be a matter of stalking and beating, and it will hurt you personally. Anyone who has been in love with such a person is as stuck as a dog skin plaster.

They never think that what they do is wrong. They always feel good about themselves. They always think that their ideas are the truth, and mistakes are the mistakes of others.

They only think about themselves, so selfish that they don't care about the lives of others, and it doesn't matter how much they hurt others in order to achieve their goals. In love rat's eyes, what they did didn't hurt their lover at all. Even if there is, you have to bear it, just like everyone else owes him. If you fall in love with him, you have to pay it back.

In their view, as long as they love each other, the other party must unconditionally provide him with any service he wants. Whenever he makes a request, the other party is not allowed to say "no" and must obey unconditionally, otherwise it will be disobedient and will be beaten!

They either turn a blind eye to what the other party has done for them, or take it for granted that this is what the other party should do and have no gratitude at all.

These love rat have typical male chauvinism and strong vanity and control desire. In their eyes, a girlfriend is just a dog, a personal item, and should not be an individual under any circumstances, and must be at its mercy.

Of course he can control you, but if you dare to interfere with him. That's absolutely impossible! For example, you can't disturb him when he is playing games, and you can't ignore him if he is unfaithful to his sister!

They always make excuses for their scum, even if those excuses are unreasonable and illogical. Don't reason with them either, because in their eyes, they are the truth themselves!

So, girls, not only don't fall in love with love rat, but also stay away from them.

Seeing this, many people will ask, how can we know if a man is warm or scum?

Before answering this question, we need to find out why so many girls are still cheated by love rat. You willingly cheated? If we know he's scum, why are we still together?

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In fact, many times, the reason for being cheated is nothing more than these situations:

First, people are handsome.

The first boyfriend a friend of mine talked about in college was a lazy egg. He didn't make progress or talk about it. He still depends on her money to support himself. The key people still think that it is natural for his girlfriend to raise him, and he always takes his girlfriend's money with confidence. Although this boy is shameless. But the face value is really good, tall and in good shape, and he is the kind of person who can attract the attention of the opposite sex at a glance when standing in the crowd. My friend has a crush on him, and his face value is also a big plus!

Second, you can pretend and cheat.

My friend took a fancy to that boy, not all because of his face value. The first time I met her, the man said that he was a driver, had a car and a house, and his family was well-off. In fact, he is unemployed and has no money at all. He just made up a bunch of lies to deceive my friends! My friend later speculated that this guy may be an old hand, and he often cheats money and makes a living in this way.

Third, you can fool people with sweet words.

Slag men all know that only by putting enough bait can you catch big fish.

One of my disciples is a master in this field. He really tried to catch up with a girl in his class.

Sooner or later, I will say hello to you, and I will chat with that girl if there is anything. Online chat records are full of warm sweet words. If the other party refuses, I will pursue it relentlessly and change the pattern. Later, I actually bribed all the girls' roommates to put in a good word for him. So I chased them for a whole year and finally caught them.

Seeing this, you must think he is a good man in love! Wrong, the purpose of his chasing that girl is to sleep with her. On the fifth day of their relationship, Shi Ge took his girlfriend out to check in. Then a few days later, I found an excuse to kick my girlfriend directly, and I also preached everywhere that the girl was a virgin, how he lost his virginity that night, and ruined the reputation of other girls.

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After love rat's routine, let's talk about how to avoid being cheated by these scum.

First, when you are in love, you must remember to bring your brain! Bring brains! Bring brains! Say the important things three times!

After determining the relationship with each other, we must carefully observe each other's personality, character and three views. What a person's nature is, it is generally easy to be contacted by people and manners. As long as you observe carefully, even if the other party disguises it well, it will expose the clues sooner or later! If you find that there is something wrong with the other person's character, even if the face value is higher, don't hesitate to stay away immediately!

Second, he can't be nice to you alone.

Some boys have bad personalities, usually bossing people around and having poor interpersonal relationships, but they are only good to their girlfriends. They are all "warm men" in front of their girlfriends, which is why many girls are unwilling to break up knowing that the other party is scum.

As we all know, his warm man image is just for you to see, and his attitude towards others, such as the attitude towards restaurant waiters when going out to eat, is his truest side. If he is impatient with others, loses his temper easily, or plays tricks on his family and friends, and you don't break up, what if one day he uses those tricks on you?

Third, he can't be nice to all women.

This is not contradictory to the last one. He is a warm man in front of you, and always likes to warm other women, treat other girls as boyfriends, and even treat them better than you. Such "central air conditioning" is absolutely impossible. He has been having an affair with his so-called "dry sister" and "confidante" all day, which is a dangerous signal that you will be green one day!

Fourth, don't believe love rat's broken mouth.

Admit mistakes, swear, express loyalty, these routines seem to be very useful to coax girls, and many love rat have tried these routines again and again!

Wu Mou, the murderer in the news, was forgiven by Chen Mou again and again. When her boyfriend pretended to be in pain, many girls, such as Chen Mou, decided to give her another chance. But he just talks without practice, and bowing his head to admit his mistake is just a strategy of "saving the country by curve". He doesn't feel wrong at all in his heart, and he will change back to his original self in three days, or even worse!

There's nothing wrong with a glib tongue. The key depends on where he uses it. When you are sad, he tries his best to make you happy. This is to love you. But if he spends all his rhetoric on sophistry, deception and all kinds of false promises, he is scum.

Fifth, wealth is not easy to expose.

If your family is well-off, try not to expose your wealth or let the other person know your family background before establishing deep feelings with him, so as not to have bad ideas!

In the news, Wu Mou didn't want to break up with Chen Mou, which may be directly related to Chen Mou's good family conditions. Wu Mou himself wants to get rich overnight. He is the kind of person who loves money but has no door. In the face of an obedient girlfriend with a Mercedes-Benz house, how could he give up such a golden mountain easily?

6. When you find that there is a huge difference between the other person and yourself, please carefully consider whether the two should continue to talk.

Disagreement often leads to disputes, just like Wu Mou and Chen Mou, who want to make a fortune with Tik Tok, but she doesn't want to play Tik Tok; She wants to work hard to make money, but he loves dreaming to make money. How can they be harmonious if they are out of step?

Don't expect him to get rid of your bad habits for you. Human nature can't be changed casually. Most love rat feel good about themselves. He wants to change you more than you want to change him.

Don't think that changing yourself can solve the problem. When you lose yourself in a relationship in order to cater to each other, all you get is the contempt and cherish of the other party.

Besides, you can't be the ideal candidate for each other. He likes outgoing and cheerful girls, but you are just an introverted person. Do you think you can be one of them?

So, if two people are serious about their feelings, willing to make changes for each other, and their feelings can still work together, then continue. If neither person has the will or possibility to change, let the other person live! Instead of finding someone who doesn't agree with your three views, it's better to find someone who can understand you and talk to you to make yourself happy.

7. Extreme thinking, narrow-mindedness, even violent tendencies, and self-abuse and self-harm must not be brought.

Domestic violence is the same as cheating. There will be a second time for the first time. If he always likes to get angry with you for trivial things, or even hit you, please remember that you can give him a chance or two. If he is still the same or worse, no matter how he apologizes afterwards, don't forgive him.

As for those who beg your forgiveness in such an extreme way as self-abuse and self-harm, there is nothing to say and you must stay away. A person who can do anything for himself will naturally be cruel to others, just like Li Kui jy in Water Margin, who kills people without blinking an eye, but drinks poisonous wine and kills people without blinking an eye!

Remember, girls, if your boyfriend can't give you happiness and only brings you fatigue and injury, then don't hesitate to break up at once. You are looking for someone, not yourself. We can't let people abandon evil and do good. The best way is to stay away from them and let them be single until they are old!

Finally, I want to say that although there are many scum men now, men should not think that only girls will meet scum. In fact, as long as they are looking for a partner, both men and women are at risk of encountering scum, because scum is gender-neutral, and there are also scum with bad character among women. As the saying goes, a man must be careful in choosing a spouse. The following two pictures are what I saw in love rat's memoirs. Let gay men feel for themselves!